Girls, Ladies what’s your definition of a guy who’s got attractive qualities?

[blackeagle007]

Outside of the looks department. Suppose an average schmo approaches you, what qualities would you consider a gentleman?

[liel443]

Confidence
Masculinity
Intelligence
Social skills
Decisiveness
Ambition and drive
High social status
Maturity
Leadership
Respectfulness
Value-driven
Emotional control
Stability
Independence
Trustworthiness
Charisma

Also, I'm not sure it qualifies because you asked for things that aren't his looks, but it's important to me that he takes care of his looks. Well groomed, well dressed, in shape...

This is a long list, and it could be longer, but also many items somewhat overlap, and some items are very likely to follow from a combination of several others.

[Nikki1989]

All he needs is

Kindness and compassion
Respect
Confidence
Intelligence
Sense of humor
Honesty and integrity
Good communication skills
Shared interests and values

Looks are not as important as most men think.