Girls what do you find physically attractive in a guy?

Question

Forget about personality for a second. Just think if you were choosing between men what would would you like in them physically, that would make them attractive to you?

I won't judge I swear or put negative raitings, just be honest.

kimu11 · Accepted Answer

Forget the personality? D':

Well... I for one will find any guy perfect (physically alone) if he is somewhat like Son Dong Woon from the band B2st or Beast:

~ Fierce eyes

~ Eyebrows that compliment his eyes, making it even more fierce (or mischievous x3 teehee)

~ Don't care about hair color for as long as it looks good on him and it compliments his skin tone

~ Around semi-tan-ish

~ Just a bit taller than me (though I like shorties too :3 I wuv dominating them to the fullest >:3)

~ Lean but not thin, muscular but not bulky

~ Has a deep, jazzy and soothing voice

~ A cute smile

~ Size down there? Not too big, not too small. Average. Anything actually as long as it doesn't hurt me EVERYTIME or makes me uncomfortable D': Though come to think of it.. I value skill and passion more than size alone. MOVING ON (since we're only talking about physical here)... lol

~ Any eye color as long as it's natural, I don't care.

~ Has to be healthy and clean.

~ He smells good ^_^

~ He looks good in corporate attire (Big turn-on x3)...

~ And yet he looks good in simple clothes too :D

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I have another version of my [physical type] in guys though. Someone who looks like Kevin Woo from the band UKISS, and I (physically) liked him more in their music video "Man Man Ha Ni." Unlike my previous guy, this one's more feminine:

~ Two-shade hair color (blonde and brown) which is somewhat long and can be tied into a ponytail

~ Eyes that can shift from gentle to fierce

~ Pale-skinned

~ Mainly lean and not as muscular as the previous one

~ Effeminate features, to the point that when he cross-dresses, he WILL look like a pretty girl <3<3<3 (I love genderbenders)

~ Deep voice still

~ Just a bit taller than me or the same height.

~ I don't want to mention the size anymore because it makes me feel awkward typing my preference again XD

~ ... And the rest when it comes to clothing, smell, etc, are the same as the previous ^_^

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And I have put waaaay to much thought on this. D':

bubblygirl0811 · Accepted Answer

First, it's more about grooming than not. Keep your face clean, don't go out smelling like you just got in from the gym (unless the girl is your VERY long-time girlfriend lol) and brush your teeth everyday!

Second, there's no specific face type... Though facial hair can be distracting (why hide your face behind a bush?) so Get a shave!

Being fit is a plus... You don't have to have bulging muscles, but you shouldn't have skinnier arms than girls unless you're EXTRA strong... The arm thing shows your strength so if you don't have fit arms, just show off your "weight carrying" powers by picking up heavy boxes for girls, carrying packages for those little old ladies and generally just being physically active...

(This will help for all those shopping bags your future girlfriend will ask you to carry lol)

Being tall is also nice but if you're not tall, then just be fit ;)

Last thing, a girl doesn't want to feel that she's larger than a boy. So if you're skinny and she's not, then show your strength instead. Why? How else are you gonna prove you can carry her over the aisle? ;)

nomadia · Accepted Answer

personality aside, if it were all based on physical apperance I'd say a little fair(not too dark is good too), nice full dark hair not long though medium cut, cute smile, enticing eyes(colour doesn't matter), pink or rosy looking lips, proportional nose, not too round face, great jaw, height, about 5' 9" - 6' tall, broard shoulders, little muscular arms not to lose but tight, abs doesn't matter just not too skiny like a waist 34, flat stomach, tight butt, strong legs, nice feet like a size 8, someone that smells romantic, this is my dream guy! this is how I imagained my perfect guy would look physically.

Jonboy357 · Accepted Answer

This is coming from a man. I don't understand why any man wonders what girls like when they like certain type of guys. Dress the way that will attract the type of girl you like. Also this is a question for boys and girls. Since when did the women become the prize? Men have always brought more to the table then the women have in any relationship. If a girl wants you then you are the prize man.

I will explain the best I can. Women always upgrade and we always get with women who are under us. Meaning if they upgrade we must be down grading but not always. They might be better then the last girl but there sexual market value is lower then ours. Women don't even like to get a serious relationship with a man who makes less money then them and who isn't interesting and has passion drive and ambition. If there is more required out of us men to get a girl this means we are the prize. So stop trying to be something you are not.

Look you can not change your eye color jaw line, balding, big nose small nose or high cheek bones. However you can increase your attractiveness by going to the gym regularly not just once a month. Good grooming habits like shaving or trimming cut nails and keep them clean underneath learn to dress nice lotion and facial moisturizer and change your daily eating habits. I do all of this and more and I am 5"5 and I have women taller then me staring at me all the time (not all women but more then most men are used to I am sure) they even approach me and try to spit game at me. Lol women spitting game they are bad at it so you have to help them out if they are attractive. Do not forget a good cologne as well and with fashion a watch and maybe a necklace will do. Nothing flashy and even then I don't wear my black dog tag necklace with a diamond in it or my black watch all the time. Do what you like and feel good and happy about it and your body language will change and women will be attracted to you. Your welcome and lady's please respond to this I wanna know your opinions on what I said.

DonMichelle · Accepted Answer

I'd date Alex Ferguson... bring on Barca ;)

HannahCzech · Answer

Smells good... personally, I like Old Spice.

Decent teeth, they don't need to be perfectly perfect or ultra-white, just taken care of. (If theyre straight and white... even better!)

Tall, as I am 5'10".

Muscular or medium build. Enough to lift me up for a second, but definitely not so big that he can't put his arms at his sides. I can stand about 5 pounds overweight, but just try to stay in shape.

Decent eyebrows... if they're down over your eyes like awnings, trim them.

Hair that is taken care of. Not too long (If it touches your shoulders, its too long) A buzz cut can look hot on some guys, but scary on others. I don't like completely bald guys.

Nice eyes. Brown, blue, green, gray... they're all nice.

Decent skin. I don't mind a few zits every now and then, but keep it under control.

Good style. Grandpa shoes, light ups, velcros and the like are turn offs! Nikes or sneakers are fine. I don't like sandals on guys.

Well-fitted plain colored or graphic tees are good. Jeans (that are not your sisters!) are nice, as long as they fit! Darker washes are usually more attractive.

Bracelets can be hot sometimes... most of the time...

I don't like earrings, but I can stand them.

I sound super picky, but if you can dress yourself, take care of yourself, and are fit, you're pretty much good! You don't need to have every single thing up there ^^, but that's just what is particularly attractive to me (: don't feel intimidated!

Anonymous · Answer

I go for these kinds of guys:

Anonymous · Answer

Eyes: I prefer blue

Hair: Blond hair, Red hair (can be curly or straight) or pin straight black hair is really nice (especially with blue eyes). I prefer long hair to short hair. Shortest hair I like is about mop top length. His hair can't be longer than mine!

Eyebrows: Not too thick, but not too thin.

Teeth: Don't have to be straight or super white where it looks unnatural. But MUST be healthy, no decay, no missing teeth. I personally like slightly crooked teeth.

Skin: Colour doesn't really matter. I prefer guys who do not tan or bleach, just leave their skin natural. Clear skin is a MUST. I hate acne and pimples.

Body: I LOVE skinny guys. Super skinny, where you can almost see their ribs. Can have muscles, but not too much. Skinny is a must. I like a nice bum too! Must be taller than me, preferably about 6' tall or taller.

Style: I like a retro style. Mod 60s inspired is nice. I don't like it when guys wear super tight pants, except I LOVE tight leather pants on guys with nice bodies. Rock Star-ish looks preferred.

I prefer musicians. I love guys who can play a musical instrument. I LOVE guitarists or bassists.

notsosimple19 · Answer

Well, let's see... in a perfect world?

Tall, slighty built, and GREAT smelling. I prefer guys with dark hair and eyes, but that's just me. Strong jawlines and hands are super attractive, so are muscular arms. Abs don't matter that much, at least to me.

Nice smile and teeth, strong chest and shoulders. And... warm, literally. :)

ilovemateddi · Answer

Answers chicks usually say: nice smile, nice eyes, good personality, kind, and caring...blah blah blah

THE TRUTH (in my opinion): attractive face, broad jaw, thick neck, broad shoulders, good physique, medium-tall heighth, nice booty, big buldge, hairy--no shaved guys..., rough man hands, annnnnnd...big buldge again haha. oh ya and I guess good personality :)

cassandra-zim · Answer

Body:

I like guys with big shoulders (muscular).

And just a toned body overall.

Face:

I like facial hair, but it has to be well proportioned. I don't like it when a guy just has a mustache, or goatee. I like it when a guy has stubble in all the right places.

Eyes:

Eyes are key, especially when I'm talking to him. If his eyes wander from mine, I'm not attracted. I might think it's cute that he's nervous, but I won't be physically attracted. I like light colored eyes the best :) although some brown eyes are just gorgeous too.

Smell:

Don't think I'm weird, but the only guy I've ever been in love with had a very distinct smell. It turned me on A LOT. I think it was a natural smell, but I don't know. He wasn't sweaty or anything, and he wasn't the type of guy that sprays a bottle of cologne on every morning. It was a pleasing mystery to me.

xomellll10x3 · Answer

The first thing that draws me to a guy is his smile and his eyes, but it really depends. I don't care about muscle definition or height or anything either. I'm not a huge fan of a lot of facial hair, though a little is okay. I've noticed that most of the guys I've liked have had blue eyes but that's not criteria I have to see, it's more of just circumstances. A guy who has nice hair will get my attention, too. But more than anything a guy who smiles and has a great smile, and who has nice, attractive eyes gets my attention. Also, in my opinion, guys have it easier because so many guys could be slightly overweight, or have a small acne problem, and still be damn attractive, but if girls have acne or are slightly overweight, they're judged more harshly. I'm not so picky about guys according to their looks, I'm more picky about personalities.

Anjaa · Answer

Physically attractive things are; friendly eyes, happy smile, perfect teeth, propotional nose, masculine jaw. Then wide shoulders, strong arms, nice chest, not too much hair. Good ass, strong legs and feet and hands which are looked after.

Anonymous · Answer

let's be real here.

I am married so I should want what I have.

-he is 5'9 (1/2 a feet taller than me)

-he's Caucasian, has dark eyes and dark hair

-he's fit and really ton (has almost a 6 pack)

-he dresses alright, dress shirts and dark jeans without any holes

-he doesn't do drugs anymore, so he smells nice

-he started brushing his teeth and they are getting there (getting whiter since he use to not brush and smoke a lot)

-eh that's about it that I can think of. Hair cut counts too but not in this case because he is in the army and 1/2 the time his hair is pretty much super mega short.

Anonymous · Answer

- Dark features

- A bit extra weight

- Glasses - this isn't a dealbreaker

- Hairy chest - yes, this is sexy sexy

- His smile

- His hands - if his fingernails aren't bitten down to the pink. Dirt and callouses don't matter.

- His arms - it's cool if he doesn't have huge muscles but there has to be something to grab/hold onto

- His rear - I love largish round bootys

- Clean shaven - some guys look delicious with facial hair, also not a dealbreaker

- Taller than 5' 2", which is my height

- Good posture

- His walk - there's not one I can single out...some guys stroll, others bounce a little, others stroll-bounce (thank you guys for that last one, truly, you are a delight to watch). And I don't mean the gangsta bounce crap; that's dumb.

These are the big ones that would make me take a second look. There are lots and lots of little things I notice too.

springdragonfly · Answer

tall, a little lanky. I have a soft spot for dark eyes (as in not blue or green). interesting hands. nice c*ck.

i would. I have. you can check my response to a recent question about what qualities matter most to me in a man. my anwser wasn't about physical qualities.

tohrment · Answer

Please note: I am being completely superficial and merely describing my "IDEAL" guy that probably doesn't exist :)

-Over 6' tall - the taller the better.

-Biggish build - not like wrestler big - but broad shoulders - I'd rather he have a bit of extra weight than not enough

-I'm not fussy about hair colour but dark is always good

-Bit of stubble

-Either short short hair, or shoulder length tied at his nape

-Dresses simply - tshirt/sweater & jeans (NOT metro)

-Gorgeous smile

dalila · Answer

Great question!

1-Symetrical face, proportional =good looking

2-intense eyes

3-tall 1,80 or taller

4-good smile

5-not fat doesn't have to be tonned, normal

6-strong arms I like to grab them lol

i guess that all see not to picky...even tough is very hard for me to find a guy attractive

attractive examples: Chris O'Donnel, Brad Pitt, Ben Affleck, Jonny Deep, Bon Jovi...

MalloryJay · Answer

I think blue or green eyes are really attractive on guys and if he has nice lips and teeth that's great! Also, when guys smell good... oh my gosh I love it! I wouldn't really care if he were a bit chunky or if he were muscular, as long as he's healthy that's fine by me. I'm 5'11" so tall guys are good.

Anonymous · Answer

Any hair length as long as he can pull it off. For some reason I really love broad shoulders, I think they make a guy look amazing. I'm crushing on a guy with sparkling blue eyes so that's my choice right now but it doesn't really matter. A cute smile with white teeth. I really like guys that are kinda pale so when they blush it's obvious and it's honestly really cute. Fit guys. I don't know if this counts I just wanted to add it in but um... I love love love guys who don't play soccer. Pick another sport like baseball which a guy looks amazing while playing or swimming which will make you have those broad shoulders girls love. This one has to do with style... I either like a guy who's style is elegant or a guy that has swag... no in between. There's more but I'll stop.

lovecraze · Answer

Umm, I love bIGGGGGGgggg guys, especially if they've got big arms.. and wide shoulders.. and a V like figure.. I love longish wavy-curly hair... and I love it if they dress more masculininy.. NO EARINGS OR SKINNY JEANS FOR me... I love it if they have a deeeeeeep voice... (NOT SURe if this counts as physical doh) and I love a sweet smile... and a nice walk :))))

MulanBarbie · Answer

I am into guys w structured jaw, abs, a little bit muscles (no, I dnt mean hulk hogan or jersey shore, just a little to make it defined), I look at a guys butt nd package! xD Like if I'm walking down the st.

also, their hair style (short!), fashion sense, eyes, lips, nose! ;D

hope this helps u! what do you look like?

missbrittany · Answer

Well he would have to be taller than me and a little thick. I wouldn't date anyone shorter than I am because it makes me feel a little awkward. I need a man who is taller and who isn't all boney because I like being in a guys arms and having that feeling of security. A little tan is nice. And I am sucker for pretty eyes and a nice smile. :)

roxygirlskier · Answer

I like a guy with nice-ish pecs and nice back muscles personally haha. I don't like super thin guys though... I like it when they have a little tummy. I mean, when it comes down to it, personality matters way more... and personality can make a guy look more attractive.

madlittledevil · Answer

I personaly like muscular guys who don't look musclar its like a sweet suprise. and tallness is a plus and big guys arnt bad as long as they don't have boobs. Some guys are so self-councous and its silly a lot of girls like a lot of heaver guys as long as they don't have boobs they are all OK. and if you have a beer belly like you look pregnant don't expect more than nappy ass hoes.

AllTheSameToMe · Answer

Tall. I like a guy to be at least 5'10"

Dark hair. That is short, but still a little messy.

Muscular, but not over the top.

A good smile with nice teeth. I know that might sound a little weird, but who wants to kiss someone with yellow teeth and bad breath.

A square jaw. So sexy.

None of these are a requirement, just a preference.

mowriah · Answer

I like some muscle definition, especially pecs, a carved out face, defined (preferably square) jaw line, broad shoulders, 5'10"-6'2,"  maybe some biceps, he's either wearing a plain white/black shape shifting tee shirt, washed out jeans, bigger feet (they're just manly! not gonna lie lol), fashionable hair cut, ice/medium blue eyes, either fair or tan complexion.

-StillWater- · Answer

Big hands, long full wavy/curly to the ends hair /strawberry to dark blond or black/, light green eyes, great teeth, relatively tall (ad least 190cm)...swimmers body /big shoulders/, but more mass than actual visible muscles.

There are so many other things...these are just a few.

charlie_girl · Answer

Firstly, if a guy has nice bone structure (strong jaw/high cheek bones)  and a symmetrical face I would prob go for them irrespective of hair/eye colour etc But generally speaking I like tall guys, athletic build, some muscle tone. Nice teeth. Dislike hairy chest but a little is OK. I'm actually into guys with light hair and light eyes which is the opposite to me. I find them more intriguing. I also have a big thing for arms, not sure why.

baileydonn · Answer

The three most attractive things for me are a goofy guy who likes to joke around, the ability to protect me (big, tall, preferably muscular?), and a love for Jesus. Get that and you've got me. :) -B

lily85462155 · Answer

I will just describe my boyfriend because he is all the things I find attractive in a guy

-6'3 or taller

-tall lanky body ( sorry if I spelled that wrong)

-short brown hair

-blue eyes

-pale skin

-glasses! =]

-works out a lot and in very good shape

- nice bellybutton (haha I know a weird thing to add but I like bellybuttons a lot for some reason)

-stubble!

-nice smile

(:

Chachi258 · Answer

I always look at the lips and teeth. For some reason the mouth is pretty important. I like a little meat and a hairy chest. A guy who knows how to dress, but not like a guido or a douche but just looks like he can put himself together when he wants.

filiasan · Answer

"Hasn't let himself go".  He doesn't have to be atheletic.  Hot.  A certain hair color, doesn't matter.  I just really like to see a man who hasn't given up on how he looks.  Or smells.  If I want to be superficial, I can say "pale hair, dark eyes".  I basically like any look that stands out.  I also like guys who can pull off wearing charisma like it's some sort of accessory.  Those types are rare.  I'm sticking to my first choice.  Those are 'believable'.

Green_Tea · Answer

well he can't be really fat or really hairy. he needs to be around my age and maintain good hygiene. also, I have to like the way he dresses. mainly, I don't like really baggy clothes, or dress really sloppy. at the same time, I don't want him to be prettier than me. also he can't be shorter than me. I don't like a lot of tattoos or body piercings...preferably he needs a conservative look.

vishna · Answer

Well, since you asked

Taller than me, preferably a good six inches

Long jet black hair

dark tanned skin ( samoan!)

Built like a rugby player

Good smile

Dark brown almost black eyes

Now guys can see just how physically orientated girls are!

Anonymous · Answer

Broad shoulder and strong looking arms (not gorilla -like or bodybuilder look though), about 1/2 afoot or more teraller than me. You might think this weird but I don't like skinny calves even for females & no I'm not bi. Everytime I look at guys I would look at their legs to see if they are small or skinny. Muscular,not skinny calves makes me think that they are physically strong. I probably think this because I'm from the mountains in southeast Asia & the people there are strong with nice calves Hehe...Another physical characteristic that I like is wavy or curly hair. It's just so attractive and sexy to me even if the guy is overweight. Certain eyes catch my eyes but I have no idea how to describe them.

Anonymous · Answer

For some reason, the guys I like aren't the ones who are the hottest but they are decent looking.  I am attracted to tall guys with the stereotypical V-torso and big chest/arms.  But I end up liking more slender guys who aren't fat, but aren't cut either.  A few of the guys I've liked have been different, of course.  A few tall and lanky & a few shortish and stocky.  But most of the guys I've liked have been about 5-10-5'11 and slender without abs or pecs. Ha ha.

Anonymous · Answer

No facial hair (makes them look super old T_T)

Cute/hot

Tall or taller than me at least

Skinny

Not hairy

Long fingertips (idk that's just me... makes them so hot XD)

Lips aren't dry or cracked

No or few pimples/acne

Glasses? Preferrably not but contacts are OK (although glasses look nice on some ppl)

Active

Not mental

Dark eyes

Johanna_matt · Answer

Tall, good skin and teeth, kind eyes(preferably blue:D) good muscles (not too much muscles though), and not hairy

Cailleach · Answer

My friend’s brother goes for Chelsea. Good team. Anyway, I find a lot of things attractive. Facial features, hair, eyes, body, broad shoulders, nice ass, long legs, small hips, nice hands, nice neck, nice stomach etc.

cincy2014 · Answer

eyes and muscles, not huge just enough to show that he tries or is athletic, like quarter-back or offense players, not defense; altho there is this one guy I like who doesn't have any muscles but he plays the guitar so that makes up for it

WittyAnn · Answer

I notice body first, to be honest. I like very thin men, zero body fat. I don't like big mussels types, but toned is good. I am a sucker for a clean cut guy too, a bit on the preppy side.

AvrilRoyce · Answer

the guy that I'm dating can't be shorter than me at least about 5'10 because I'm 5'5

i like guys with nice hair maybe brown,black,blond, side fringe

he has to dress good

work out, sometimes dress formal

a good accent

handsome

tellbabyy · Answer

I like bigger/ chubby guys. As tall or (preferably) taller than me. Tan skin, dark hair. (I've got a thing for hispanic guys and Italians.) But... I think that's about it.

wkwan81 · Answer

A nice/warm smile and strong arms! But would date a guy without strong muscular arms. As for smile...everyone can learn to smile!

Anonymous · Answer

a huge penis. some arm muscles, don't have to be a lot. hmm...i don't want some gangly white kid, I want a man! he has to look like he could somewhat protect me.

Fizzypoprocks · Answer

Chocolate brown eyes, nice and neat dark hair, chiseled but not huge and buff, nice smelling (good cologne), classy clothes such as Polo Ralph Lauren, maybe a little bit of stubble, but nothing more, dark skin, yah that about does it. Can't get any more hot than that.

darkbunny · Answer

Alright, I'm posting this because I want to offer a different view here. Contrary to most of the responses I read, I actually prefer:

-Skinny frail guys or just lean

-blonde or brown hair

-close to the same height as me

-nice eyes

-pale

-glasses

-those altogether awkward sort of ones

I gues this shows evryone has different opinions.

Honestly, I don't think you should about what you look like. There's a good chance, more girls find you attractive than you think. :)

itsagirlygirlthing · Answer

i would want my guy to look good and clean. not too much muscle not too much fat but just enough for him to be average. can't stand a man who looks better than all the others. the way a man carries himself always tells us what kind of man he really is

chondell · Answer

eye- contact, a sense of humor, chivalry, mystery, a sexy voice, a nice smile, values, respect, his ears, his scent...let me stop myself here before I go too far! hahah Jamaica Outtttttt

winslow · Answer

the first thing I notice in a person is their race. next is see how they dress. including shoes. then I look at their body type (height and weight). next I look at their face to see if I find their facial features attractive.

septemberangel118 · Answer

so, number one thing I look for is a personality, but the second thing I do look for is muscles because I love the feeling of safety they give me:)

smashliee · Answer

swag.  ya smell good, ya dress well, and yeah, I'd definitely take you home. and you've got to be charming. not creepy. charming. the rest really doesn't matter to me.

joyelizabeth · Answer

Someone that is in shape. I am a sucker for a guy with nice arms, biceps.

Jessie24 · Answer

a good smile and I melt. lol and I love wide shoulders on a guy. I am not into really built guys cause they aren't flexible.

Anonymous · Answer

muscles! like its not a deal breaker or anything...but I like muscles! they need to be somewhat attractive in the face too...that could be a deal breaker:P and taller than me, but not freakishly taller

skye123 · Answer

being totally shallow I'd say rugby player build as in  - 6ft plus - huge arms  - really strong   and preferablly irish lol the accent is so hot !

kiss_me_Kate · Answer

height,  body bone structure...wide shoulders, good posture Great facial bone structure...straight nose, wide set eyes.

gummybear888 · Answer

not much. personality over rides how they look. over all people like attractive or healthy looking people.

elliesaur · Answer

Tall,skinny, pale skin, longish hair and full,sexy lips. Those are the most attractive features I can fit on a guy's body.

kadavista · Answer

I find guys who tall dark and handsome and don't look like pricks the most attractive.

ky_monsterr · Answer

His smile. That is the first thing I look at. If he smiles and his eyes light up, I'm sold.

Karola · Answer

His nose, his teeth, his eyes, his height and weight.  Dimples guys always score! Hahaha :B

Anonymous · Answer

If They're Taller Than We Are.

Nice Hair.

Gorgeous Smile(:

Cute Eyes. I Prefer Blue(:

And I Don't Know Why.. But Cute Noses Are Attractive TooxD

Also A Clean Shave Is Nice(:

Smelling Good. Haha.

And I Personally Do Not Like Full Of Crap Jocks. Bros. Pricks. Whatever You Wanna Call Them.

<3 (:

ahanfa · Answer

Built, not too much muscle but defined, taller, tanned, a nice scruff and a genuine smile.

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