Would you date someone that is unexperienced?

[urevdi]

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There’s this guy I’m talking to and he has little to no experience with a girl what are some things I should look at for?

[ohsheeT]

You look for friend ship first you look for meaning you look for respect you look for honor you look for bond you look at the way he treats and talks to his friends . you look to see who he truly is on the on side you look to see how patient he is

This is not about him this is about you because once you open that door there's no going back this is one of the biggest jumps in your life and you need to be 100 % sure 100% knowing your protected. And you need to know one hundred percent that you are the boss nobody else he has no Protection then he has no reason to be there... all the above is law it needs to be your law because You're going to find out and I hope not the hard way. 9 out of 10 are going to try to use you. And after the first one does You better be able to think back.
And everything he did and said to you. Because the next guy is gonna do the same exact thing. What you should be looking for is eye to eye contact Listen to his words. If something in that moment doesn't feel right. Stop like you are the boss. You are the one that is in control at all times
Ok now to answer your question
If he doesn't know what he's doing make sure he wears a condom Because there's no way in the world is one and a 1/2 to 2 minutes with you.
First of all, things, He's not going to be able to control himself... he's not gonna please you
But second of all that is going to be able to control himself that's why he needs to wear a condom it's the last thing you need to do I'd get pregnant.

And to answer your question yes I would because every one is different any way. And you don't do it the same way with different people. Just make sure you doing it for the right reasons and make sure you're protected. You have a long life ahead of you and you have other things that you want to experience and you're not going to be able to, if you're pregnant, because 99 out of 100 guys the guy's not going to be there anyway. I exaggerated that 1 a little bit. Not much

[urevdi]

Well I wasn’t necessarily talking about in bed but I’ll still take the advice. Thank you

[ohsheeT]

You're welcome. And yes, I knew that about your question.

But I also know, guys. And thought any information you have will help you some in life

[SteveSmith1985]

If he doesn't have much experience, that's fine, as long as you like him enough. It does of course mean you're going to have to be patient. You're going to have to show him stupid little things you won't even think about... until he does them wrong... or weird.

You'll have to take the lead a little. But if he's a guy you like enough to be worth it, you should for sure keep talking to him, and see where things go.

[urevdi]

Thank you, but yes very true about being patient can’t really have much of a expectation either cause again he doesn’t have much experience

[SteveSmith1985]

That's right. But it doesn't mean you can't whip him into a half-decent boyfriend. He's just unseasoned. How much do you like him?

[urevdi]

Yeah, I like him, but sometimes I worry that me taking the lead will become a habit.

[SteveSmith1985]

It will with this guy for the foreseeable future. If he's not sure of his footing, but knows you do... he will gladly let you take the lead until he is way more comfortable and sure of himself with you.

What you said there, makes me think... maybe he's not someone for you. He is not going to suddenly be different about taking the lead and everything else. It's fair if you aren't willing to put in the patience and all that for a guy who doesn't have any experience. But its better to not try to hold him to the standard of a guy who does have experience.

[Zack-Bann]

I tried that about a year and a half ago


She was the sweetest ever.


But her lack of experience and therefore stigmatization of a lot of things did make it difficult


I would ideally date someone with moderate experience
Just enough to know what they want but not be completely jaded by it


But if I have to date an unexpected person I do think I can make it work

[Nikki1989]

I didn't even want that when I was myself inexperienced.

[egarcia1360]

Sure. If anything, that's probably preferable since it tends to mean less baggage and comparison.

[Shiprex]

I did and married her. If I had to do it again I would.

[AgentG111]

I believe you are taking about interaction as opposed to intimate things.

You will most likely have to lead him into social interactions and tell him what you are and aren't okay with.

[RedInnocent69]

Sure, if they wanted to become experienced

[RedInnocent69]

Just be gentle. He’s scared of you, and the first time may be rubbish, but I’m sure he’ll learn fast with your help

[urevdi]

Lmao, he quite literally does—he stumbles and stutters over his words just talking to me.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, I also have no experience, I never had a date, nor a kiss, and I'm a virgin.

[Cristi019]

I am that way so... I don't know.

[Lilly1979]

Sure as long their not to young.

[MasterKS]

yes to make her experienced.

[unknowngurll1212]

ys ofcz

[ThebestIndian]

You are all over my gag but not in my dms. 😞

[unknowngurll1212]

@ThebestIndian Oops, looks like my DMs are on a little vacation! 😂 But hey, the comment section is always open for good vibes! 🤍...

[ThebestIndian]

lol. Let me know when your dms are back to work.