Anyone get broken up with and you realize you were the last one to find out?

[red324]

Let's just say they told everyone before telling you? Wonder how often this happens? Guess I should have put the iron in the fire first when the indicators were there.

[Zack-Bann]

It does go that way


But you shouldn’t be offended


Because at the end of the day you’re the only person who’s knowledge of the breakup even matters


She probably got every second opinion available


And since “single girls keep girls single”
they all told her to end it


But in the end it’s on her that she did


So move on. She didn’t deserve you
(Unless you’re cheater and a liar, in which case I don’t know what to tell you)

[red324]

Yeah her jealous cousin probably did

[Nikki1989]

No, luckily my partners have never been that immature.

[PeachyPie93]

Nah since I never been dumped..

[Anonymous]

It happens all too often these days.

[red324]

I was hanging out with her cousin when the girl I was dating calls and then I overhear her say, oh you mean so and so is there? She didn't know I was there and she was on speaker phone. She was mad I was at the bar she frequently goes to and that she was going to have to find a different bar so she wouldn't see me anymore. I didn't even say anything to the cousin, but it was like my confirmation after not hearing from her from a week. Honestly, I wasn't even all that alarmed not hearing from her for a week, until she said that in a disappointed tone. Oh well... oh yeah and her cousin didn't say anything either so she already knew.

[Opinion Owner]

You can find better than a person who is too much of a coward to tell you herself. She is not worth your time.

[red324]

That's how people do it these days. Imagine living with the person and you come home from work one day and find she hired a moving company and moved her stuff out while you were at work

[red324]

That's not what happened, but I'm just saying in my experience girls just will just ghost the guy and never be seen or heard from again. I personally think this is a female thing, guys will come out and say they're breaking up.