Is a little effort in the relationship being superficial?

[Anonymous]

Im wondering if a date a month is too much to ask? We have a kid together and I feel like I don't matter sometimes. He's good at everything else

[ohsheeT]

Well when you in any type of relationship it's your job to stay Connected and you should be able to read the person deep enough.
And understand that person enough. To know what they want what they need. Even if it's just a walk around the block holding to get an ice cream. Just something anything to say hi, how are you? I love you You have to keep a relationship alive You can't Just do the same thing. Over and over every day it gets old

And then when that happens, you both stop growing and then sooner or later, somebody can't take it anymore. And they need to escape and need to be challenged. They need something they need to feel alive. And that's when bad things happen. Or stupid things, but it happens.

If you can't get him to go out.
Then get some type of board game Something some kind of activity anything
I'm sure he probably doesn't want to get up off the couch. Or get up out of bed if you were to do that. Sometimes you have to train them LO. L to become romantic again anything? There's a lot of other things. You can do to wake him. Just depends on how far you want to go to

[Shiprex]

It's not much of a relationship if it's only 1 date a month. What about the other 30 days?

[Iron_Man]

No and one date a month is nothing especially when you have a kid together

[ChrisChapman4400]

I'm divorced. I gave her all my effort but she still fucked other guys.