Going back since homo sapiens arouse a million years ago, women lives have been more in men's hands than the reverse. One million BC, good hunters would have got the girl/s.
Despite recent feminist nonsense, tribal women didn't run down game animals with a baby balanced on their hip as claimed. At most they might have capture the occasional lizard.
A million years is quite long enough for instinctive mating patterns to emerge.
So you are dealing with girls who in their unconscious brains are sorting guys into good hunters and no good hunters who haven't even got a spear..
Sadly I think 15K debt is going to put you in the bad hunter red flag group. You might need to bring out other skills/attributes that might be seen as valuable. Girls seem to like guys who are funny.
You earned the best answer! Pretiest of girls are not after comedians, they are after and settle with rock stars, astronauts, sthletes, lawyers, engineers & succesful entreprenuers. Top hunters as you mentioned, except in middle/high school where bad boys were cool!
Some women here already judged me without caring about any other quality! The more heat I get from girls in here, the more I start thinking what is love if not a business transaction. They are making themselves look like gold diggers! So the jokes on them!
It's all in your mental. If you love yourself and love other people your situation doesn't matter that much. But we all have hangups from the past that make it difficult. Just try and learn from your experiences and keep going :)
So, completely disregarding the virgin part, poor financial standing is a bad sign. At this time in my life, stable finances with minimal debt and a credit score that does not scare a bank is something that would be very important for me if I was dating.
I can and do hold my own financially in my relationship, but I really place importance on my partner being in good financial standing as well.
@SecretsofKB he didn't say what his debt to income ratio is, if he makes 20 grand a year it's bad, if he makes 75 grand a year it isn't bad at all. It could be the balance on a car ok, 15k in credit card bills, or gambling debt not so good. There is a lot of missing information.
I make about 1.6K a month. 1/3 goeas automatically to government for the debts. I work! Debts from past failed entreprenuership times is not on the future date's plate to clean up. It's on me and nobody else!
But dating is not supposed to cost money except for condoms & birth control pills!
15k debt is not that bad, but poor credit indicates someone not able to handle money, and that's a red flag. To some people, being a virgin at 40 would be a green flag... waiting for marriage.
No. I live alone in a government owned cheaper apartment than private sector provides for same quality. I can and do pay my own bills but can't afford to pay another persons living.
Many women brag about how independent they are, but rarely they choose a guy poorer than them.
being poor is one thing... someone else having more money than you is a very different thing
to have both, bad credit and debt... it's just not a good thing for anybody though
if you can't afford something then just don't do it... whether is dating, expensive hobbies, vacations... first and foremost, fix your financial situation
Dating is not supposed to cost money! I have friends I play sports with, talk on the phone and sometimes go eat with, no matter how much Im in debt.
Their money is their business. My money is my business. And the reason the real friendship works is because there is no money or treats going any direction, just a passion shared for cheap activities!
But when it comes to dating, women brag about being independent here in Finland. If they can feed themselves, and so can a guy with a job and debt, why does it get so fucking complicated?
Not enough information. If it's consumer debt, then no way, you're a loser. If you've financed, say a saw mill that's going to make you $1000 a day, then sure it's good debt and that's a green flag.
Based on most of these answers, the debt is unbearable by most! Its in the level that it makes me question the purpose of a relationship. Its like a business transaction based on these comments.
Took me a while to find the field I was good at. I do learn but just not as fast as normal people. I spend 10 years in different career schools studying different things.
I just tried and failed untill I succeeded, and that journey left me in debt but did give me the skills to make my own money instead of getting fired for not being as fast, smart and efficient as normal people that dont share my learning difficulties!
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