Is it possible for people to have liked you and you didn't know it?

[Johtolol98]

[Anonymous]

Yes. I can't tell you how many women from my past had at least minimal interest in me and I didn't realize it. When I was younger I always assumed a woman would tell you when she liked you. It wasn't till I got older that I realized that few women do that. I don't really regret it though. Because my attitude is this if a woman can't even be honest enough to tell you how she feels then clearly she's not THAT interested. Or that if there is something between you. You'll always be pulling teeth with her.

[Johtolol98]

understandable!

[TheSpaceGnome]

I would think that sort of situation is fairly common.

[Johtolol98]

i guess so lol

[lyrem04]

Very much so, I feel like most crushes aren’t announced so I think yes. But then for me, I’m very clueless —the person could be as obvious as one can be and I still would think he’s just trying to be nice and be friends. So many instences a guy told me they liked me and I was like “whattt since when?” It always catches me off guard I just can’t ever tell lol. BUT when it’s other people im like Cupid I can tell when a guy likes another girl very easily

[Johtolol98]

this reminds me lol there's been times where a person i knew would tell me a woman either had a small crush on me or one was flirting and im like huh? im so bad at it!

[lyrem04]

Same!!! It’s lowk a sad realization when I was rlly just thinking i vibing with a guy as a friend and boom they like me especially when I don’t like them back like y did you have to catch feelings boy 😖

[Johtolol98]

lol unfortunately that happens i wish it was easy to tell sometimes. one woman told me she liked me and i still couldnt comprehend it lol

[Chayce]

Of course

[Johtolol98]

it just makes me wonder i thought no woman has ever liked me but I don't know lol

[Chayce]

You won't catch all the signs all the time. A good rule of thumb I go off is does it seem like this woman is going way out of her way to help me in a way she wouldn't normally help any other person? Probably means she finds me attractive in some way. And them making the first move because women are a lot more insecure and afraid of rejection than we are.

[Johtolol98]

thats a good way of putting it !

[GuybrushFunkwadd]

I know everything

[Johtolol98]

thats good!

[hello4433]

Yes, happened before

[Johtolol98]

i hate when it happens lol i always miss it

[hello4433]

That sucks

[Johtolol98]

it happens