Do you have to be an ass in order to get a date with someone?

[Anonymous]

[Changiis07]

No you don't have to be be an ass in order to get a date, maybe they just aren't that interested or ready for a relationship

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Absolutely not. If I ever had to be a jerk & pretend to be a baddie, I wouldn't date at all, to be honest.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Lol no, in fact this myth that we only prefer "bad boys" isn't because they are assholes. They are usually very charismatic and then eventually show their true colors. Confidence is what gets you in the door.

[Hellraiser1984]

Pretty much. Oh and you need to be as abusive as possible. And have no respect for women whatsoever and have substance abuse issues and spend about 6 months a year in jail. Or be rich. Other than that if you're not those things you're going to be lonely for a long time.

[NoDecision]

I don't know about that, but it seems to me to be the worst way to get a date. 😫

[Shiprex]

LOL yeah I think I would agree unless you are aroused by misery and unhappiness.

[ProbablyClueless]

Nope! Just be authentic, fun, and have boundaries.

[Shiprex]

I doubt it unless you're trying to get a date with someone who wants to have a fight with you

[Anonymous]

No. But you're more likely to be invisible to the majority of women until you do. Unless you super attractive yo need something that gets you seen or you might as well be camouflaged.

[MannMitAntworten]

Nope.