Would you date me Girls?

[Anonymous]

So I am a writer by profession, earning decent money, I look average, I am kind of hairy, have high hair growth on whole body including head. Although chops it down time to time.

I am fat, like not too much fat, but fat, you will see me, and call me fat although I am like not too much fat.

Umm I have never dated anyone, nor had female friends, although have had female collegues and all.

I don't know what more I should share here

[SueShe]

Looks are not really important to me and what is inside is what prevails. A good character, personality and intellect is what I would be looking for in a person if I was interested in dating.

I don't date so this is a scenario that is not likely to become reality for me. However, if I was obliged to date, then a person that has those 3 most important assets would be a person of choice.

The only problem would be: what are you writing? If it is anything political or erotic/pornographic, then no, I would not date you in that case. I would be fine with most other topics.

[Asker]

I mostly write fictional stories for entertainment purpose, mostly the ones you can with with family.

[SueShe]

This is already a plus in my opinion.

[_Maya_]

Plus plus

[_Maya_]

I am fat, like not too much fat, but fat, you will see me, and call me fat although I am like not too much fat.

That paragraph bothers me. Now I don't have to contemplate dating you because I'm with someone. However if I were single and you told me just what you posted I'd find you very insecure that you had to mention. The word "fat" four times in one sentence. It seems as if perhaps you are preparing a potential date for something. Like yes I talk a lot but not too much unless the conversation is good then I talk a lot but otherwise I dont talk much. See what I mean? It seems like something that is on your mind and a worry. That's what insecurities come from. That would be a no go and not for the reason you think.

[Asker]

I can understand you, I am maybe insecure that's why I am asking the question here, besides you are right I did a fuck up there mentioning fat four times, anyways thanks for your opinion.

[_Maya_]

The thing is that it is something a person can work on and change. Right? It's no different than someone being unemployed. That can change too. It's those that dwell on it and maybe so much to the point that they let them get it in the way through psychological changes of not being themselves because they are hyper focused of something they let it consume them during a first meet. Get what I mean?

[Asker]

Yes, obviously I got you.

[_Maya_]

Good luck to you and be yourself. Wish you nothing but the best and good for you in your career. Impressive.

[Anonymous]

I don't know any professional writers who would begin a sentence with the word 'so.'

[Asker]

Well, I don't write in English usually, besides I am not working here, am I? Am I writing a show here? No.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, I love artistic types.

[Asker]

Glad to know that

[Anonymous]

Are you a Jew, Arabic or Indian?

[Asker]

Why do you ask?

[Opinion Owner]

Because if you are one of these there's no hope for you. Otherwise you are okay.

[Asker]

I am surprised, you didn't add muslim there.

[Opinion Owner]

Goes with arabic. Girls are racist

[Asker]

Honestly, I have only seen guys being racist, girls only do racism based on gender, that's what I have seen until now.

[Opinion Owner]

Depends where you live
My mom is racist as hell

[Asker]

My mom doesn't even knows the meaning of being racist

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope

[Anonymous]

they might