Girls how would you feel if a guy you barely knew in your college class asked you on a date over instagram or snapchat?

[r3gail]

[SueShe]

It would feel totally totally wrong because that would mean that I am addicted to social media since those 2 applications are considered to be social media.

I pride myself not to have any social media and if it would be the case that a male would contact me through one of those, that would mean that I lowered my standards to such an extend that I have social media. This would be really bad news for me.

In general, I don't answer to date requests. It is simply something I don't do. I am not interested in dating as I concentrate solely on my studies and don't want to have my mind diverted by something unimportant.

I would of course reject that request like any decent girl would.

[Nikki1989]

If he needs social media or messaging apps to communicate, then he is not worth mine or anyone else's time.

[Summeroflove]

Depends on the girl but it depends if she’s not someone he knows very well or talks to all the time that’s one thing but some women feel weird if you’re someone you see all the time but asked online instead of just approaching.

Making some sort of move is better then none but if possible talk to her directly.

[RedInnocent69]

Well, it is one of the better ways to get know someone

[EmmaMary]

If he can't use his tongue and ask me in person, then he's not worthy of my time... Simples.

[r3gail]

so if you found the guy attractive and he asked you out via social media instead of irl, youd reject him solely on that? really?

[EmmaMary]

Correct... I've absolutely no time at all for texting or such like.

[In_Trance]

Lame

Ask in person

[r3gail]

i won't get the chance for like 5 months considering summer has started

[In_Trance]

If you won't get the chance to ask her out for 5 months then how are you going to have the opportunity to take her out?

[r3gail]

we live in the same city due to college, im not gonna stalk her during the summer to ask her out irl

[In_Trance]

I can already tell you're not ready to go on a date with her or anyone else. But whatever works for you