Girls-If a guy seemed nervous while asking you out.?

[rob117]

I've seen this girl I find walking around my school. She is not "conventionally" attractive, but I personally find her very attractive. Apparently she lives in my area and I didn't even know. I saw her working as a cashier at a CVS and just decided to ask her name tell her I'd like to get to know her better right on the spot. She gave me her facebook and IM. People were behind me on the line so there wasn't much time for conversation; plus I admit I've never really just approached some woman I don't know so I was a little outside my comfort zone.

My friend works there and I told her to ask her about me. My friend said she just asked who I was and said I seemed nervous which I was.

So, girls: if a guy is visibly nervous when approaching:flattering, or "lack of confidence?" It takes balls to approach at all so I would think that counts for something.

[Deline]

Yeah, it does bro. Congrats on that. I diminish nothing of your effort and accomplishment.

Now go approach 100 more women until you stop being so nervous. Seriously. That's the next level.

Most women know it's hard to approach them. Half of them really really really wish more guys had balls like you, but they all DAY DREAM about a smooth, confident dude that just walks up and takes what he wants and needs nothing.

You're still a ways off on that, but well on your way. Step it up.

[Anonymous]

I personally think its cute when a guy is visibly nervous,its not neccessarily a "lack of confidence".I had a dude just walk up and ask for my number one time and I told him no because he seemed way over the top confident-cocky.Like he just knew I was gonna say yes.Turns out it was a good thing I said no because about twenty minutes later he sent his eight-year old sister to tell me off.Sackless jerk.Anyway,back to the point.I think it makes the guy seem more genuine if he looks nervous.

[ACoate3]

What's the difference between nervous and lack of confidence?

[AmanderBananer]

It's ok if a guy is nervous. Girls don't want cocky over-confident guys.

We want a guy who we can flirt and playfully banter (a shyer guy).

As long as you weren't completely at a loss of words and looked like a complete idiot, being nervous is perfectly fine.

A lot of girls think it's super cute.

Seems like you've been doing a great job, keep up the good work, man. =]

Don't get cocky! But try to be a little less nervous if you think it may be a problem.

[ACoate3]

I thought girls hated anxious guys

[aly-marie]

This kind of depends, for me. If I was initially interested in the guy before he even approached, then I'd probably see the nervousness as flattering; I tend to be turned off by overconfident guys lol.

I think just the fact that you got the courage to approach her could only say good things about you, so how she feels about it now is completely her decision :]

[hockeygirl]

Depends, if she is into you, or thinks your attractive it's cute. If she's not into you, then it's not so cute. Either way approaching her does count for something, you'd rather be the guy who comes off nervous, than the overly cocky, "thinks he's the man", kinda guy! That guy is one thing only.gross!

[TheoryOfAvarice]

Well, I'm rather shy myself, so I give credit to anyone who can bring themselves forward. It shouldn't matter too much if a guy seems nervous, but it depends on the girl. Honestly, though, I don't think it will affect her too much that you were nervous.

[lost-angel]

I think it's cute.

Iv met a lot of guys who got really shy around me.

I would try to make them feel comfortable. I don't know if it worked, but they always came back to me :)

I get flattered when a guy gets nervous around me.

[ACoate3]

You really do? How would you try to make them feel relaxed?

[ALWAYSclassy]

I actually think it's good because that shows that you're special and more than just another girl to him. It's better than being really cocky about it. And at least you asked, so it's not like you don't have any confidence

[daisyELECTRIC]

It would actually make me feel a lot more comfortable because I know I'd be nervous too. I'd be cute too.

[Simply-Irresistible]

I think it's cute : ) It does count for something either way.

[insanely-amazing]

you are right because its counts for something when you get enough courage to approach them,but its kinda show a lack of confidence and that's not attractive.

[prettygirl]

flattered!