How can I tell a man is forcefuul where it counts?

[Pameaaai]

I can’t relax if a man isn’t forcefull

[Miah06]

Where does it count🤔

[Emma-QoS]

just be honest !

[Summeroflove]

Why don’t you focus on more important things then just sex. You’re 35 years old now if you haven’t figured it out by now I don’t know you ever will.

[Avicenna]

Takes experience with him

[Pameaaai]

I don’t want to experience bedroom before we get married so I have to tell before then

[BarryLiverstone]

You obey what he tells you to do

[Pameaaai]

What’s he gonna tell me to do

[BarryLiverstone]

Depends on what your relationship is and if he thinks you are able to do it

[Pameaaai]

How about if we just met

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes. You can meet.

[BarryLiverstone]

But you will not have earned his trust if you just met. That takes time

[Pameaaai]

Huh? I have to trust him since he wants me to “obey”

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes. When you first meet there is not reason to obey each other as you are strangers and haven’t built up trust and love. Only after those are solid can you hear commands from your partner and choose to obey because you fully trust them. They communicate their needs and you fulfill them

[BarryLiverstone]

No one should obey if they just met someone as they can’t know the persons intentions and can’t feel safe around them

[Pameaaai]

You think it requires that? Because I have done it after just texting a stranger online and yeah he ended up using and leaving me after we met.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes it requires trust and love. If he left you I’m sorry that happened but he didn’t need you in his life. What did you do with him?

[Pameaaai]

He definitely didn’t. I don't know why he felt the need to lie and lead me on or do anything he did. But oh well. We almost did everything. It’s pretty normal for guys to do this to girls though so while I don’t understand it, it’s not abnormal.

[BarryLiverstone]

Sometimes guys feel the need to lie and manipulate due to their insecurities. He may have felt like he needed to act that way in the beginning to catch your attention and make you fall for him. When in fact that wasn’t how he actually acted in general with others

[Pameaaai]

That’s a good point I never really thought of it like that! Maybe the guys leave after because they can’t keep up the facade. What about you, did you ever act like that?

[BarryLiverstone]

Other times it could be ignorance. If a guy lacks experience, he will be less confident and how he interacts and the actions he takes, even if he’s attracted.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes in my first relationship I lied and pretended to be someone I wasn’t :(

[BarryLiverstone]

Guys leave for many reasons

[Pameaaai]

What reasons will guys leave? I’m assuming many just lied to get laid and never planned to stay or keep their word anyway.

Who did you pretend to be? That’s curious.

[BarryLiverstone]

Guys may leave because:

He is cheating and with someone else
He doesn’t like her and only wanted instant gratification
He gets spooked that she’s falling in love and he only wanted casual
He moves and doesn’t want LDR
He gets in over his head and worries he can’t take care of her
He is a jerk and just uses people
He falls out of love
He gets betrayed by her and loses trust

[Pameaaai]

From what I noticed it’s mainly that they want to use her body and leave after and it was the whole point from the start. It’s an acting gig for them.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes that’s the 2nd reason I listed.. he only wants gratification and doesn’t want an emotional relationship. Girls do the same thing

[PaleDale]

Tell him, "harder!"

[zagor]

Take him for a test run.

[BobbyLee789]

He needs to explode forcefully inside you

[In_Trance]

Fuck around and find out

[alice55]

What?