How would you describe your ideal woman (physical appearance, personality, etc.)? What are your top five most important traits?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

My perfect ideal?

When I was 36, I had a 30 year old girlfriend who was my physical ideal.
Her figure was perfect and you wouldn't know that she was only 5'1" unless she was standing in a crowd.
Her wavy-curly, light-blonde hair was cut just below her shoulders and looked like a golden halo.
Her voice was soft and feminine, not deep and not squeaky. And the way she enunciated was charming.
Her face was adorable. She had blue eyes, perfect lips, and a smile that lit up the room.
Her fair, very glabrous, peaches and cream skin was absolutely flawless.
She had full, medium-size breasts and flaring hips that curved smoothly from her narrow waist. I don't know her measurements, but aguestimate would be 35"-25"-37".
She had just the right amount of padding on her flat tummy.
She had a perfect little, round, plump, bouncy, woman's ass.
Her legs were perfectly sculpted with round, tapered thighs that weren't thick.
She had small, delicate hands and feet and her nails were always painted and well maintained.
She didn't wear much makeup and didn't need to.

Other things about her that were ideal were: She never raised her voice. She was very smart, plucky, hard working, and determined, as well as sweet, kind, compassionate, caring, ethical and honest. And, most of all, she was hypersexual, orgasmic, and more adept at sex than any woman I ever knew. I experienced peak sexual rapture with her. And she enjoyed sex with me so much that I felt like a sexual god.

Even though I loved her with all my heart and she loved me, the years of trauma she had experienced in childhood made it impossible for her to open up to me and be vulnerable even though she tried. There was an invisible barrier. She was trying to deal with it through therapy, but she couldn't even face it herself. She kept it locked inside. And she was unable to trust completely for fear of being hurt.

I didn't ask her to marry me for the simple reason that I was afraid that we couldn't have made it through the rest of our lives together with ups and downs, "for richer, for poor, in sickness and in health, until death do us part". Something told me that she couldn't have handled it. She was too afraid.

So, even though she was my ideal in almost every way, I also need the stability of an equal partner who believes in the vows of marriage. To admire, adore and respect each other. To trust and confide in each other. To be best friends and care about each other's happiness and fulfillment. To work as a team toward our future together.

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

1. Be fit and relatively attractive to me.

2 She had to be a good woman, good wife potential which is the exact opposite of most western women, family oriented (not career oriented), doesn't smoke or do drugs, no tattoos and piercings, not promiscuous, not masculine, doesn't cuss like a sailor, not into getting drunk and clubbing, not on social media endlessly posting pictures of herself and seeking validation, marriage, family and kids are her main goals in life.

3. Share the same core principals as me regarding handling money, kids, faith, monogamy, sex.

4. She is a good communicator and doesn't argue meanly calling names, lashing out, silent treatment but communicates clearly like an adult and expresses what she wants or feels.

5. Be a woman of faith. The only compass most women have these days is just what makes her happy day to day. Nothing deep, just superficial stuff. A good woman has a deep, moral compass bigger than just herself and her changing feelings from day to day.

chocolatetwopointo · Accepted Answer

so basically, from all of these comments. short, blonde, skinny, big ass, big tits, submissive and feminine traits

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Respect 
 Confidence 
 Intelligence 
 Sense of humour 
 Shared interests and values — audiophile, atheist etc.

Finchie40 · Answer

Attraction is important but not as important as her personality and her moral values. My ideal woman, knows what it means to be in a relationship, she is respectful, honest and loyal , she wears my shoes the same way she wants me wearing hers. She stands by my side and makes me her top priority the same way I make her mine. She works with me and not against me , intimacy and affection isn’t an issue whatsoever. If she is submissive , even better , I love submissive girls’ that know how to treat me right. A good girl will bring happiness into my life , a bad girl will bring misery. Bad girls’ are selfish and only think of themselves , they do not know how to give the same way they want to receive , A good girl will stay under the sheets with me a bad girl is meant for the streets

ohsheeT · Answer

She has to Have a beautiful heart She has to be smart and wise She Has to be kind She must be able to speak with. Her eyes And she has to be happy love herself

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I'm not settling for just 5.

She has to be a virgin and have no STDs.
She has to be unusually clever, like inventor clever.
She has to be silly, bubbly, goofy, and full of joy, the type to have an "infectious" laugh/smile.
She has to have a cute face, very thick scalp hair, a petite body, and huge boobs.
She has to not want any kids.
She has to be an artist/illustrator, being an animator, programmer, and musician as well is a plus, but not required.
She has to like science, sci-fi, fantasy, CGiI, practical special effects, and anime/cartoons.
She has to be a collector of geeky/nerdy things.
She has to be good at difficult video games and not a sore loser or gloating winner.
She has to be altruistic, but not a martyr.
She has to be lewd but not promiscious.
She has to like bugs, spiders, snakes, dinosaurs, cats, etc
She has to be an atheist.
She has to have never drank any alcohol, never smoked, and never did any other recreational drugs.

Karachan · Answer

1. Long straight light brown hair

2. Olive skin tone

3. Green or blue almond-shaped eyes

4. Cat-eye eyeliner

5. Cute nose with a tiny crystal-clear diamond nose stud

6. Full lips, prefers glossy lipstick

7. Beautiful smile

8. Oval face

9. B-cup breasts

10. Waxes arms regularly

11. Flat tummy

12. Thin waist

13. Belly-button piercing

14. No pubic hair

15. Wears only g-string underwear & bikinis, because she has a small toned butt free of cellulitis

16. Loves crop tops, yoga pants & shorts

17. Likes anklets

18. 170 cm tall

19. Normal weight (not skinny, not chubby)

20. Likes high heels

Top 5: 7, 10, 13, 14, 15

Staximus · Answer

My friend once told me my standards are higher than a yeti smoking weed on top of Mount Everest. I'll start with honest, loyal, kind-hearted, loving , a contributor, is street smart, has common sense, has never been a hard drug addict, is not on psych meds, is not religious, and is not a left wing lunatic snowflake libtard. I'm not that picky about looks, as long as she's not fatter than me and doesn't have a face like a bulldog. She needs to be able to hike a mile uphill at 7,000 ft and not be scared of bugs when we go camping.

Lokiion · Answer

Physical appearance: just someone who's fine and knows it, with a good style and a nice smile, doesn't hurt, and she must carry herself with confidence, basically "I'm that girl".

personality-wise: She can't be boring, must have a good sense of humor, can take a joke, be smart, have low drama, and have her own goals and chase them.

- Authenticity

- Loyalty

- Sense of Humor

- Got Her Own Drive/Goals

- At least a few shared interests and values

I kinda just described Megara from Hercules now that I'm thinking of it 😂

Stevepro68 · Answer

She is a 5 foot one inch Filipina Mexican. Has long straight black hair. The most beautiful eyes I have ever seen. Lovely kissable lips and a lovely smile... natural with small imperfections that make her smile unique. She gets mad when she wrongly thinks the waitress is attracted to me in a cute pouty way

Amur8711 · Answer

Its hard to give a ideal description, physically. I would say 5'7", hourglass, medium size breasts, fit butt, maybe a little healthy fat.

Personally, sweet, supportive, has very similar values, not afraid to get hands dirty working or having fun.

All I can think of at the moment.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Slender, athletic curvy build. Long dark hair. Light tan skin. Pouty lips. High cheekbones with a narrow chin. Dramatic eyes.

Personality: gentle, honest, adventurous/curious, affectionate, disciplined, creative

RingOfFire · Answer

I can only answer by saying I'll know her when I see her.  There is no one thing or even several things that make her ideal. It's a symphony of pleasures to behold, an artistic masterpiece.

Anonymous · Answer

Instead on focusing on what Guys find attractive and what you look like try focusing more on respecting that Guy you like instead.

I bet you there is at least few Guys that want to date you, But you don't, Right?

Trying to look Attractive is irrelevant if you already have people that find you Attractive.

WonderingManII · Answer

Christian like me. Kind, Quit. Forgiving. Has a nice rack. Has nice hair.

Apple1996 · Answer

Men who have a type of any kind give me the ick 🤢

glennos89 · Answer

Feminine energy, pleasant to be around with.  Natural body with long hair  Difficult to get, low body count She can cook Honest and loyal

soe11 · Answer

Honesty. Trustworthy.  Smart. Intelligent.  Comprehensive attractive sexy body, love to wear revealing outfits accordingly

MrChinaski · Answer

Worldy, curious, adventurous, smart and sassy. So long as she looks after her body and isn't morbidly obese, then she is good.

Renegade_Sailor · Answer

5'9" blonde, 125 IQ, not overweight with a pretty face, sweet personality, e-h cup.

Shiprex · Answer

Kind, open, friendly, happy, not demanding, fit and healthy and loves animals.

Iron_Man · Answer

Brunette hair a beautiful body with curves beautiful face and eyes great skin a great nose, with beautiful Marilyn Monroe lips 👄

Anonymous · Answer

- Beautiful face, nice hair, pretty eyes - Fit body, sexy legs - Sporty or casual fashion style - Self-confident, assertive, dominant

PaleDale · Answer

Submissive, big boobs, thick thighs, shaved pussy, nice feet

robocop666 · Answer

Denise Milani

Godihateyou · Answer

Whitty, intelligent, skinny, dark haired, old fashioned.

Anonymous · Answer

Well there is no such thing as a perfect woman. But,  Funny, loyal, compassionate, honest (at least as far as women go), attractive.

Gaylordslav · Answer

Attractive (hot or cute), loving, kind, shy, and has a caring heart

CindyRuns · Answer

Strong, Smart, Powerful, Kind and Loving

BobbyLee789 · Answer

Big boobs are all I care about, I like to squeeze hard

Aol2Acela · Answer

Big booty, wide hips, hourglass figure, small tiddies, dark hair, green eyes. White or Latina

Aldan1609 · Answer

Good personality, nice figure, likes to try adventurous things (outside and in bed) , common interests

Anonymous · Answer

Some chubby, with bigger ass and breasts and maintain high hygiene prectice. Always keeps it shaved 😔

Anonymous · Answer

Petite Curvy Beautiful face Small features Kind

biraileeşkadını · Answer

None, and the chest is visible.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Fit. That’s all

Sal_Monella · Answer

Sally Field in her prime.

Jeff51 · Answer

5ft 5. 105 lbs. Blonde with blue eyes.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

She looks pretty close

Anonymous · Answer

You seem female

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