Instagram crush?

[Anonymous]

So one day I was watching this reels on ig and there was this guy that works in a construction company and they were making videos of it. It’s his account that he’s posting this videos, I found him super cute ( 100% my type ) so I started following him ( he has about 8k followers) I liked few of his videos, when he posts something sometimes I give him like, I even commented on one of his story, but he never even saw it. I don’t know if it went to request messages or he just ignored me. I did the move of texting first about what he was talking in his story but nothing. If I like videos etc, nothing. And I don’t know what to do anymore, I get it that not everyone checks who liked your video etc but damn I send a message, however it could go to the request. Any idea what else I can do? I found him very attractive and I really would like to talk to him and go out with him, but I don’t know how to even get him to see my message… or do you think that he’s not interested? I don’t want to brag but I never had this situation that man wasn’t interested so I’m a bit confused

[Staximus]

I'll never understand how people have a crush on people they don't even know. You don't even know the guy, you don't know if he's your type, you don't know shit about him. You just saw somebody that you think is attractive. Maybe he has a girlfriend and he does not fuck around on her. Move on with your life already.

[Asker]

That’s true, not crush, was just a title, but I found him physically attractive and I just texted him a massage about what he was saying, I don’t see it anything wrong with that. Have you ever saw someone online attractive, maybe you friends friend or someone, you never wanted to have a convo with that person?

[Staximus]

Yeah that's great but you're sitting here moping about because the guy didn't message you back. You don't even know the guy, he doesn't even fucking matter when it comes down to brass tacks

[Staximus]

He's just another dude, there's a million more out there

[Asker]

I’m not mocking I’m asking a question, why you boys instead of just giving an opinion or advice just mocking us for asking? Isn’t this app based on asking questions and responding to them? Or it’s about just telling people that they are stupid and making fun of everyone here?

[Staximus]

What I'm saying is you're putting too much thought and worry about some dude that doesn't even matter because you don't even know the guy, so stop feeling devalued by somebody whose opinion does not matter

[Staximus]

Stop feeling devalued and stop questioning your worth just because the guy didn't message you back, he doesn't matter

[Staximus]

You should be cherry picking all the stuff you don't agree with that I'm saying and not even reading what I'm trying to tell you

[Tempest_Flame]

if you're good looking he probably thinks you're a hooker

[Asker]

My pics are not like that, I don’t post pics in bikini, and I’m Engineer so I have posts of myself in normal clothes or my work, no way someone can think I’m a hooker

[Panthero80]

I would recommend finding someone in the real world.

[Asker]

I would prefer that too, but I work a lot, then gym, after I’m done it’s late, I just found his account and found him attractive. It shouldn’t be a problem especially that we live in times like this. And it’s not like dating app or anything ( I used it long time ago and it’s waste of time and people are weird there I must agree with that )