How to trust again? I don't have the energy to invest?

[Shihab_91]

Im trying to find a partner after more than 8 years of being single, and now i feel i can't trust that i can find someone who will truly love me, and each time i find a girl i start texting suddenly i lose interest, i don't understand did i get used to be single?

[ohsheeT]

The only person you have to trust is yourself. And understand You cannot control anybody. It's a 50/50 deal at any given moment things can change for any reason . so trust yourself that you making the right choice. If you trust and love yourself then you can do with others They break that trust. They break the trust, not you. So why are you eating yourself up.. You're wasting time. That's that other person worried about it. They did it You're letting what they did to themselves You're allowing yourself to feel their pain. Stop what they did was there choice. It has nothing to do with anybody else.
So stop worrying about something that has not happened yet with this new person. If somebody does something wrong to you When you're together, that's on them. That has nothing to do. In a way. You're worried about something that you cannot control anyway


When you trust
somebody, you're saying okay. I believe in you.

If they break that trust that's on them
Did it kill you no if anything it should piss you For there too.
Find Somebody Else.
Until one of your choices works out.

I don't know how long ago this happened Do you think it's about time to stand up? Brush yourself off

Quit getting yourself up, move on.
You could say well.
I was in love and it hurt.
but then you also have to say how can I love someone That cheated on me.

Then you might as well thank her for showing you who she truly was

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Yesterday the girl I was friends with and had a crush on told be she now has a boyfriend. She was the only girl I ever had such a deep and great connection. Now she is gone.
I never had a girlfriend in my life and feel like you now. Like I have to cope that I'll stay alone

[Shihab_91]

You should have made a move

[Fromdusktilldawn]

It wasn't possible due to distance. It was an online thing only with very few real meets

[Shihab_91]

Oh i see, well then... Now nothing can be done... move on fine a new woman

[Shihab_91]

Find*

[Nikki1989]

It is not that complicated. Just start ignoring the negativity you read on websites like this one. It will only do more harm than good.

[Shihab_91]

I know but ugh, i feel at this age itd harder

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe you were betrayed and find it hard to trust again. Or maybe you’re just happy being single.

[Hellraiser1984]

Get used to being single the dating field has changed a lot since 8 years ago.

[Shihab_91]

Ugh, yh but im not planning to stay alone i got sick of it