At what stage of being attractive Vs unattractive is someone the most invisible?

[Summeroflove]

For me I would say it’s mid range where you’re average. Between a 4-6 once you get much higher people are probably checking you out at least enough people. If you’re in lower tiers you’re getting looks but probably dirty and disgusted looking ones.

When you’re a average looking people most people that don’t know you are going to pass by and not even think twice. Maybe there is exceptions but for most people they just see you as one more person they see today.

For the more attractive people and the higher the number the more there will be. Are obviously getting attention but ugly and even hideously ugly people are getting attention. Just not the right kind.

[14gurlz2gagonit]

I know what you're saying. I was a fat fuck and people would only talk to me when they needed directions to places or something like that. Getting buff and ripped changed everything. I'm talking random strangers wanting to take pictures with me, getting hit on waaaay too much. Even the chick at McDonalds slipped me her number and I was just ordering food. I'd get offered things by just walking around. I'm talking jobs, sexual things, and yeah... it's a different world.

When I was fat people wouldn't even look twice at me. I wasn't super fat so they didn't double take for that, but I was fat enough to be ignored completely. Going from that to so many strangers approaching me was a huge change.

There is a dark side to it too, but I won't go into that. I will say there have been times I wished I was back to just being ignored.

[Panthero80]

It's kind of like in teaching. You remember the really good students and the really bad ones. The average students it is easy to forget.

[BDRick]

Exactly. The ones in the middle don’t really matter so you forget them easily.

[Nikki1989]

NOBODY is invisible, unless you suffer from blindness.

[Summeroflove]

It’s figurative obviously

[LiamJHayden]

Average looking shy people tend to be the most overlooked. Being conventionally unattractive can be a conversation starter.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah just due to the simple fact they blend into the crowd.

[Jeff51]

If your asking age I think high 30s but weight is different. I think 15% body fat is fine.