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Guys? What first attracts you to a girl?

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  • Chazmatazz269
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    Appearance, obviously. Despite what some people like to suggest about themselves, physical attraction is the primary compulsion in every human being with their full faculties, where mating strategy is concerned. It’s a simple fact of evolutionary biology.
    I tend to notice height, hair and eyes. A short woman with long hair and kindness in her eyes can wrap me around her little finger faster than i should admit.

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    • SueShe
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      I'd like to be the 56th. person to be blocked because I fully disagree with you. In my case, physical attraction plays a minor role if one at all. I don't pay any attention to those trivial things that are attraction, height above the ground, 6 pack, penile attachment and the like.

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      You are lying.

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  • WonderingManII
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    Both looks and personality put together. Looks kinda turn me on, but once she doesn't talk to me, I feel hopeless, and let down.

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  • ohsheeT
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    3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    First her eyes Because.
    They tell me who she is on the inside how beautiful her heart is how kind she is and as we would talk She would be talking with her mouth but also with her eyes her body language I don't care what anybody says but beauty comes from the inside And reflects to the outside

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  • Orion84
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    Well, looks attract me first, just because that's simply the first thing I know about a girl.

    However, personality is more important in the long run, and can definitely be the deciding factor in whether I would date somebody, or not.

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  • BonzoInBitburg
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    Good looks attract and a great personality makes me stay

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  • AndrésC64
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    587 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Anyone that says anything other than looks is lying. Looks are the first thing and the only thing you know about someone until you get to actually know them. Looks are always first.

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  • soe11
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    • look first then personality.
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  • AnonAndrew
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    Looks at first. I love a nice pair of big boobs myself, but some men are ass men or face men. But for most of us it's looks first.

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  • LiamJHayden
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    Eyes and smile. If she seems like she's a happy person.

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  • jeremy_09
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    Always looks, and then I see whether she's interesting in other ways. But if we're both interested in each other only because of looks, that's ok too.

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  • LiamS95
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    A great personality is awesome but more often then not the initial attraction is something physical.

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  • Anonymous
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    Observing how she treats other people. And when I mean other people, I mean people that she has absolutely NOTHING to gain by treating them nice. And when she's not aware I'm observing this.

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    KIt can be personality, then appearance because what if a person without character is beautiful?

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    • Anonymous
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      Must have character

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  • PaleDale
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    At the very first, looks. But personality is a keeper.

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  • Hispanic-Cool-Guy
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    Her physical looks.

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  • Jeff51
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    Smile

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