Do you think, as 24F, its ok to date 19M, who's also 2 months younger than your brother?

[Anonymous]

So there's this guy in my class at uni who likes me a lot, and keeps hitting on me. I have a sibling who's 2 months older than him. Is it weird for me to date him?

[worldscolide]

I love how the pink responses say go for it, yet if the roles were reversed, and it was a 24 year old man going for a 19 year old girl, people would be screaming pedophilia.


Here is the real answer, my wife is 9 years my junior. We met when she was 20 and I was 29. It didn't feel wrong.

If you don't feel wrong about your own situation, and it's not illegal, which it's not. The way I see it, he is old enough to fight and die for you as part of this country, then he is old enough to be with you. Just know, men don't really mature mentally until they are 25. Hell I want marriage material until I was 29. If you can deal with him being immature here and there, and you feel good about it, go for it.

[anmari2001]

When I was 21 I dated 33 years old guy

[worldscolide]

I don't really see anything wrong with that.

[Alex-Snow]

Sure why not. I do not think it is weird. Does he like you also? Is he new to dating or sex?

[Asker]

On the contrary I'm the one who's new to both, he has experience ☠️ he's very open about liking me

[Alex-Snow]

Have you had sex before?

[Asker]

Nope

[Alex-Snow]

Well hopefully he can introduce you to the joy of sex and some great orgasms. Have fun!!!

[Asker]

Plzz that made me laugh 😂😂
Thankss!

[Alex-Snow]

Well I hope you can get together with him and learn about the pleasures of sex. He is a young guy like me and is probably horny 24 hours a day and has to jerk off daily like every teen guy.

[MannMitAntworten]

It is only weird if it bothers you. If not, then who cares?

[Asker]

Tbh, initially it did for a coupke of days, then it stopped bothering me
At that point I think I started overthinking and wondering maybe I'm just overlooking it cuz I like him (hence me asking)
You're right tho, if I don't find it weird I shouldn't care

[MannMitAntworten]

Bingo! Whatever decision you go with, I hope it works for you.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[MannMitAntworten]

You are welcomed :-)

[MasterKS]

Whats the link between brother and boyfriend? why you comparing?

[Asker]

No direct link like that, just knowing he's the same age as my brother makes a part of me go fcking hell he's so young

[MasterKS]

@asker you talking like you are so young... LOL who cares, just go for it, if he won't comes out good, start to call him 'brother'

[Asker]

Bwhaha good point 😂
Will keep in mind, thank you!

[MasterKS]

@asker i encounter almost similar incident. The end was quite funny! LOL!

[Asker]

Hahaha mind sharing what happened? 😂

[MasterKS]

@asker i wish but its bit private thing so can't share here openly, DM if you think worth to know.

[MasterKS]

@asker dont want to know it?

[Asker]

It says I have to be xper lvl 2 to send messages oof (new to this platform (

[MasterKS]

@asker follow me i will message you, that can work.

[anmari2001]

Go for it

[Asker]

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