Do they find you attractive?

Question

I don't want a desired woman, I want someone who loves me because of my character.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I have meant some very beautiful women in my life.
And the moment they open there mouth and start talking your realize ugly comes from the inside.. there is no changing that

I have meant very beautiful girls in my life that other guy would say no she ugly to them and I would say then you don't know her . You have never talk to her.. I would ask why do you think she ugly. And they might say of a Character flaw. I would laugh.. .. they would ask me why I'm laughing. I would say your to quick to judge. That is a beauty mark. Once you talk to her. And you will find out who she is on the inside how beautiful her heart is how sharp her mind is how she thinks of others before her self. And look deep in to her eyes everything about her is beautiful

And it all starts with the Character flaw that your talking about this is what makes who she is and has become

Anyone can be attractive. Just with the clothes they wear. But true beauty come from within from the heart and who you choose to be

We are all Characters flaws and all. its the confidence we walk with even the shyness we hide behind until we believe in ourself to show our true Character.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I'd rate myself about a 6/10 in terms of physical attractiveness. 7/10 on a good day. I don't exactly turn heads. I am definitely in shape and pretty ripped so I do get a little attention if I'm at a beach, but other than that I'm just an average dude in terms of physical attraction.

As for personality, I think people who get to know me appreciate my honesty, kindness and intellectual curiosity. I'd say I go up a little in attraction once people get to know me.

And in terms of financial status, I'm rock bottom. Girls dodge the bullet as soon as they learn I'm still figuring it out 😂

Overall, below average attraction level

DangerouslyCute · Accepted Answer

yeah... men find me attractive... and as I don't really like attention... I would trade it with someone who wants to be seen as attractive :D

Valdemort · Accepted Answer

I'm sure some do and the majority doesn't. Not really my concern anyway, at least I'm considered funny by most 💀🤡

Zack-Bann · Answer

I think a beautiful character manifests in a beautiful appearance.

At some point a person that lets themselves go. Is out if shape and looks homeless is typically battling all kinds of internal demons that make them undatable

So I do factor physical attraction in my selection of partners

Tarifa · Answer

I don't know, you should ask my wife.

I think that mutual attraction is important at the start of a relationship, but it isn't a solid base for a relationship if it's the only argument. So yes, in the end, it's the character that counts. Being compatible and willing to give in a little bit along the way is what will make it last.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I suppose so physically I am not considered an ugly person by any means. My character is simply complex I am considered in general a somewhat cold, logical and calculating and something of an asshole. But I try to be warm and kind to everyone and I am a very loving and passionate person towards my partners.

Geo1970 · Answer

She or he should most definitely love your character in all ways, exactly the same vice versa. That’s very important to me, but I will say this I, do like a dominant woman!!!

Anonymous · Answer

Most women don't at first. They get to know me. Then they become attracted to me. And they shoot themselves in the foot doing that. Because I already know I have character. I'm sorry it takes her so long to figure it out. But if I see you date a dozen other guys at the drop of a hat, and then with me you need to think about it? Then you've lost me regardless. I'm rejecting you.

Of course I want her to love me because of my character. But if she's clearly not physically attracted to me then it's only a matter of time before she cheats on me or looks for someone else. And why get involved in a relationship that you KNOW will be just temporary to her.

OneViewpoint · Answer

"Attractive" covers a wide range of variables beyond physical appearance and means something different to every observer. Also there's a range of attractiveness. A scale of 1 to 10 so to speak. 5 different people may rate the same person 5,7,8,8,7 for example. Really impossible to predict with any accuracy.

nawtee_me · Answer

I don’t see why anyone wouldn’t like you for who you are. I think you are a wonderful person and I am glad to know the little that I do about you.

conanbdetective · Answer

Looks makes a difference. Things are a lot easier when you're well-kempt in any relationship type (romatic, platonic, or professional)

Shiprex · Answer

That's a heart warming and noble approach @red-lipstick-girl. This is all most people want from a significant other who is loyal and kind.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Well they can love you for your character later but at first it will be because of how you look cause when you meet someone for thre first time you don't know their character or if they have a cool personality cause you just met them

WonderingManII · Answer

I don't think anyone finds me attractive sadly. But I do want a woman that has good character. I try to have a good character myself.

NYlatefun · Answer

Of course, love is more than a mere physical attraction, but we’re not floating souls, we have a body that attracts other people and makes us feel good about ourselves, doesn’t it?

Grond21 · Answer

Ideally, you man will love your body and your heart both. If he wants all of the would be wonderful

NathanDavis · Answer

some do find me attractive, sure... and not just because of my character

DannyUk2017 · Answer

So you're lesbian/bi? 🤔, teying to make sense of your post?

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

They're out there, just look for the right partner.

nudeNhorny · Answer

Looks is important but character is definitely more important.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls I find attractive usually don't find me attractive :(

Lynx122 · Answer

Shouldn't you want both?

Anonymous · Answer

You looks so average 😌  Maybe it's difficult for you.

retarb · Answer

I have no idea what this question means

Anonymous · Answer

Nobody does and that's perfect for me

blackeagle007 · Answer

I’m confused. Thought you have a boyfriend?

katiesmuff · Answer

Do they who?

curiousguy99999 · Answer

Best of luck 🤞

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