Does a man choosing you to be his one, his woman, his girlfriend out of all other women mean he saw something in you he didn’t see in others?

[Anonymous]

I mean I know I’m a catch. I have my own home. I raise my three kids well. I’m a CNA. I’m going back to school. I can cook. I keep the house up and before having a man I took care of it all on my own. Mortgage and all. To top it off, I’m a great person. I take care of people. I took care of my grandfather until his last breaths. So I can see why a man would choose me over any other woman but it sometimes feel surreal.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Not necessarily, it could also be a matter of time and/or convenience.

[Asker]

But how likely is it that a man who has other options just choose out of convenience? That seems to be more for men who can’t really get women. Not men who have options at work, when they go out, social media etc so why would they date out of convenience or just timing?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

You'd be surprised how many "men with options" go with the most convenient option because it's the one that requires least effort and time.

[jahaims]

It means you fit his parameters within what he could get.

[In_Trance]

It might just be that you're available and others aren't