Ladies, is it true y'all like men that are desired by other women, and don't like men who aren't desired by other women or don't have a woman?

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Little_Bumblebee · Accepted Answer

Sure, some might think like that. Kind of like how some people clutter where there are more people. Like people see a crowd and they go there to see what's going on, or people would rather enter a store or a restaurant when there's a good flow of people.

Personally, I avoid that. I'm not into crowds and prefer when there are not too many people. The same goes with the guy. I'm not into fighting for their attention. Would rather have someone I can have a one-on-one where we can focus on each other.
If a guy is in a relationship, I don't want to do anything about any attraction.

desidoll · Accepted Answer

Not true for me, but true for some women. They go for men who are attractive by society standard or likeable by other women for an ego-boost/trophy partner. Personally, I am not a fan of men like this because only few of them can resist the temptation, since they are aware of their “value” which is understandable.

I’ve no interest in taken men, while some women view them as “desirable” because they feel like he must possess some good qualities that other men don’t, which is why his girl got attracted to him at the first place.

stanhope5 · Accepted Answer

Women view men that are single deemed to be like that for a reason, he's undesirable and it's worth the time. The guy who has women all around him like a player is deemed desirable obviously but when women see this they wonder what's he about and they simply can't miss out. This counterintuitive I know but that is women for you

chulo1992 · Accepted Answer

Let me just say this, in my experiences, women ALWAYS would want to get with men that already have women. One woman said to me, "I rather date married men because after we have sex, they go home to their wives" Another woman told me, she rather date men that have women because he MUST BE good if they want them.

AZandrea · Answer

It's not about the clout you've got... It's about who YOU are and what is special about you.
But... usually... people who have their best traits on display have a lot of clout around them.
If you don't then that means you are hiding your best traits and therefore you should develop your best traits and put them on display so that others can see what's good about you.

But sometimes if you are lucky enough... the right girl will notice your best traits right away at the right time... even if you are not desired by other women... but... that requires some sort of divine intervention I'd say.

But... The more confident you are in being your true self, you will attract exactly the type of people who's company you'll enjoy.

Also... The more you love yourself, have confidence in yourself, show yourself a good time... The happier you'll be and people are naturally attracted to other happy people because they wanna have a fun time too.

DizzyDesii · Answer

No i would prefer a guy who i find fine af but other girls legit feel is not their type. I want him to myself. Fck sharing with these raggedy ass hoes

KrisPW · Answer

I wouldn't date a man that was already seeing or married to someone else. But there have been times where I have given a guy a second look after seeing other women interact with him. I look for how a man interacts with others just as much as I do his look. If his female friends or women around him are comfortable and friendly with him, then that tells me there is something more to him.

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

I interpreted "desired" to mean "chased"...

In those cases, women chasing a man are desperate for something superficial like his money or power.
He probably also has a few male frenemies...
... I don't like drama.
Never seen a handsome janitor man being desired/chased. And yes, I have seen handsome laborers.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. To quote Chris Rock the main difference between women and men. When men see a woman they like that is taken the say "I need to get me a WOMAN LIKE THAT". When women see a man that they like that is already taken they "I got to get HIM".
Women are competitive, and though most will not openly admit it half of their interest lies in denying other women their spoils. It's quite toxic behaviour when you come right down to it.

meetkitty123 · Answer

No hells no I want my own man I want a handsome smart fella of my own. A ring on the finger and I won't even look their way twice... Oh and I dont mind the underdog type either nothing wrong with getting to know the shy guy

DarkCarousel · Answer

I know that it’s true for some. I prefer a reserved, more introverted type of guy. I’m sure he’d be desired by other women but this type doesn’t seem to be surrounded by women like the picture.

Apulu_Imback · Answer

No it isn't true. at least for me I crush on my classmate because of his sweet personality. No other girl desires him or something like that.

Dragonstarterplus · Answer

Damn we got a lot of women here who don't realize what they're voting in the pill doesn't match their actual actions in real life lol

Anonymous · Answer

Its not true for me i wouldn't want a man that has other women chasing after him I would hate that. Personally its the other way around for me. I know that most women ik like men that are adored by women but thats not my thing.

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

Yea there's a lot of stupid s**t on the internet and I've heard of things like the topic you mentioned. I've heard the same regarding the opposite. It's all propaganda.

Anonymous · Answer

I used to think this was a myth but over the years I can confirm it based on my personal experience... I've had many girls crushing /hitting on me right after they saw another girl visibly attracted to me...

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

Do men not also covet women who are objectively hot?  Hot people have it better, whats the point of this question.

Iron_Man · Answer

They don’t care the lesser the body count the better for them

Themostabsurd · Answer

I don't think its a conscious thing per se, but it seems to be true.

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

It's 1,000,000% true and even more true when a female doesn't like you.

Snsl153 · Answer

No, that's not correct.

EmmaMary · Answer

Just where have you heard or seen this nonsense?

TheFlak38 · Answer

those who say "no" are lying.

Blackcupcake · Answer

no.🤡

Ladies, is it true y'all like men that are desired by other women, and don't like men who aren't desired by other women or don't have a woman?

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