Of course, they do, women value social proof. If other women want him then it triggers them to think that there must be something of value of that man to be wanted. That's why women will usually seek approval from their friends to even consider someone as a potential. If women don't find that man attractive then women will start to think something is wrong with him to not be likable maybe he is not as tall, not as handsome, and not as financially stable to some degree.
Women don't like competition, men do. But for both they would feel there's something severely wrong if no one else wants you but that can vary bc maybe the guy is really mentally challenging but usually if a guy doesn't have options at all he's not a wonderful guy. It's not like they want to see girls flirting with you.
Girls can tell if you have options even if you don't know it. Like a well educated/financially stable guy who chose to focus on building rather than dating and now wants to settle, he might not see it as much but when women pick men they're thinking about their offspring. He can provide a good life for them & this kind of guy is more likely to be loyal. So the only extent that women care that other women want you is because you might have those things together but not because they want what someone else wants. That's a man thing. Men are visually driven & they want someone that other men want. They even use that as an argument to guys who treat their woman bad "You've got a girl that other men want." That comment would not work on a woman.
Men think women want men who have women but they don't. Girls are always making fun of guys who think posting photos with other women on dating apps is going to get them likes when we all avoid them. Girls are actually incredibly turned off by a guy who is showing off other girls especially if it's several. It's just gross.
Guys on the other hand if they see women with men who are around her, they feel like they have competition. Notice women don't go around on dating apps posting with all of their male friends to appeal to men. We all post/make decisions based on our own minds. Men assume women think like them and women do the same.
Well, people tend to want something everyone wants. Even if a person is not your type, if they are popular you start to wonder what they have that's so special. "Marketing makes or breaks anything".
And yet a marketing degree is one of the pointless degrees in university, how ironic. It’s not about marketing in my opinion. It’s about authenticity and with marketing you can't replicate authenticity. Immature people don’t know any better, a genuine person will. If I had a choice between having sex with 20 beautiful female models that meant nothing or 1 down to earth cute girl where I had great chemistry with her, I’m choosing the one girl.
How’s that a saying from a country? That’s pretty much used in Canada and the United States and around the world. Not sure why you’re saying CHILL when I was merely gave an opinion so I guess you should RELAX.
4. The most important thing. Women like men who attract other women! I would have thought this was common knowledge by now.
So since that is true. Don't just approach your "crush" and hopes she likes you. Always date a few women. If you are young, I would suggest dating many. None of this has to be serious. You don't even have to be attracted to them. Go to the movies with them, go bowling, skating, to the zoo, park, play sports, go to the bar, have a group of women you can go out with. And always focus on having fun, laugh, smile, flirt. . . all the while, keeping your crush in the loop. Even if it does not work, more than likely you will eventually meet someone where the feelings are mutual. But you will find it easier to ask your crush out on a date and you will find she will be more open to your advances.
This is sadly extremely true. It was insane how much more friendly (and often flirty) other women treated me when I had a girlfriend. But ladies this is something you REALLY need to work on about yourselves. Here is a list of ways this fucks everything up:
1. Taken guys gets tempted. Sure he as moral obligation not to cheat. But all the sudden he has ton more options which is something he wasn’t always used while single. 2. Single guys get unfair judgment. Especially if they have been long time single (I am coming up on 3 years now). Single women are usually voluntarily single and they get judged far less. 3. Girls waste their time chasing something they can’t (or at least shouldn’t have). Meanwhile you are ignoring plenty of decent single men. 4. The woman with the taken guy gets more paranoid. While a hint of jealousy might healthy (shows she really likes her boyfriend) but some women go nuts over this. It leads to a bunch of unnecessary shit testing.
Feminism has demanded radical changes in men over the past few decades. They actually (destructively in many cases) accomplished to influence late swathes of men. But can’t women change for more selfless reasons for once?
No question that when a guy is in demand with women other women find him attractive. Sure you're always going to have that insecure oddball woman that says "I'm not attracted to that guy". But she says that because she's insecure and doesn't want to compete with other women. It's not that she doesn't really find him attractive. This is nothing but sociology at work. People like to think they're such individuals but the reality people are influenced by others more than they'll readily admit. This is where it ends though. Once a guy and a girl is together women can envy that girl if they like. But the women who go after the guys who are already with a girl are the worst girls. Avoid them at all cost! No decent female does this.
IT'S 100% TRUE! I know from experience. When I post that I have BDSM Submissives and show pics to biitches on social media or dating sites like Facebook, Reddit, Tinder, POF, Bumble, etc.. they not only want me more, but they are willing to play with my subs too. Even chics who say they want a 'relationship' on their profile. This is 100% the fuuckin truth. Having a hot biitch is like SOCIAL CURRENCY to get other hot biitches.
Yeah I think that’s true a lot of the time. I’ve had times when girls I deemed to be “friends” have wanted guys just because I wanted them.
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I’ve noticed this as well. My friend’s sister is an insta model with a… less than average looking boyfriend. But because he’s dating this stunning girl, now suddenly he’s getting a lot of girls interested in him. It’s weird af
It’s jealousy in that case, I also had jealous friends who did this because they thought they should have anything I could have and that would confirm they were as “pretty” as me
Yes if a woman see a man being picked by another woman she gives him a higher value, if she see another woman reject him, she lower his value and are more likely to reject him if he approach her. Women has always rank themselves based on what man they could get. And taking another woman man is the same as out rank her, while taking her rejects is being below her. Female nature in a nutshell.
I ran a little test in that , and it’s true I’m not married never have been. , but one of my bro’s told me to do this and it would open my eyes. Go get a wedding ring put it on go to a bar or club where you are not known , and see what happens. It’s crazy I got hit on that night like crazy. Yep true.
I think you may be on to something there. It’s kind of like not many recognize a movie star on the street as fast as if several others are staring at them (or making a fuss about them!) Especially if the woman with the guy is talking him up, it certainly makes me think one’s eyes would be checking him out to see if her friend is right.
Most assuredly. You could, and many no doubt do, claim that it's just selection bias: a man who's seen as a good prospect by one woman is likely to be seen that way by others- but that wouldn't explain why previously unappealing men suddenly become appealing when they start dating someone.
There is a vast literature on social interactions which shows that women are much more averse to risk than men are. Neurological literature shows how risk appetite depends on testosterone levels. The absence of testosterone leads women not to want to take risks. The fact that a woman has preselected a man means in her view that he has qualities. Therefore women implement a minmax-type strategy. In such a strategy it is minimizing the maximum possible loss, or alternatively maximizing the minimum gain. Unfortunately for her the preselection is often fallacious in approximating the qualities of a man.
Seems like it. They're gonna go after the ladies man for that wholesome type of relationship which that's going to turn out to be a competition on various levels.
If not, the ladies don't want a relationship and will go after the man whore. I'm sorry for saying that so bluntly but in a realistic sense... it's true.
If not, the ladies will go after the sugar-baby, sugar-daddy, baby-daddy and/or side-guy. that's going to give off that there's no wholesome relationship there at all.
Obviously. It's called Hypergamy. Also known outside of dating as the 80-20 Rule. 80% of all women only want the top 20% of all males. The other 20% of women are gay and the other 80% of men are below a 7 out of 10 and most definitely under six feet tall.
Depends on the woman, but generally speaking, if someone is demonstrated as "socially safe" and of value, then others awareness and interest in them goes up.
It's probably more that "success brings more success" and the attributes that person projects are desirable to others.
I think the inverse is true as well, failure brings more failure... because of what the person is projecting of themselves or their value.
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Do people have time for games like these? I only desire a man i can have a good chat with, that we'll be comfortable with each other, who'll help me be a better version of myself and vice versa. If what you asked is true, it's toxic and not exclusive to only women but men as well.
I'm not a ugly guy. Back in my 20's I used to have game. However I never got hit on more as I did when I had a ring on my finger. It seemed like the more loyal I was to my ex, the more random women would want to steal me. Now that I'm divorced and older, I rarely get hit on. Hypergamy is just part of women's nature unfortunately. This is why 90% of women are completely full of bull shit.
I think there's some truth to it. Why exactly? I often hear women view each other as "competition", and even just looking at the questions on this site alone, I have no doubt that's true sometimes (maybe a lot of the time? lol), so that's probably why?
I know my own personal experience, I never get looks or noticed from women, but when I've had a girlfriend and out in public, all of the sudden I get looks from women. So I think it's true.
Hope not would like to think women are more level headed than that seems a bit immature for a women to go after another dude who is with someone just because, but I guess there's those who would do something like that, shows lack of character a person who does so and if dude was to take the bait well would you really want to go through that each time you're out with him
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