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Do women want the men who are wanted by other women? (Page 2)
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I haven't read your responses, so my response is NOT biased by them. I used to read Cosmo back in the 70's to understand women and culture. Men's magazines did not get it. I saw 2 articles about that destructive behavior:
1. One wanted to "destroy" 4 men (using sex) before she got married
2. The other talked about exactly that -- having sex with her girl friend's lover.
It seems to me that sometimes our "sex drive" can' get twisted into other behaviors.
We all want an attractive man, a man who will look after us and can provide.
Sometimes it's his assets and confidence that makes him more attractive... So look around and see. Alphas aren't always wow for one particular thing, but they're attractive
In my case yes. Because the man I was obsessed with looked like this….
And he had a hot tough New Yorker accent. Also all the girls banged him
😶
I don’t know if this will make you feel better but that guy is like the antithesis of what I like. Lol. No competition here, you can have him!
@Medicalbug So you like feminine men? Lol No shame on being a lesbian tho
Not a lesbian, just not a fan of steroids and extreme levels of bulk and blockiness. Lol. Like I said, you can have him!
What is bad feminine man?
@KejKej Nothing is wrong with men who don’t look like this picture. What is “feminine” anyway? I love delicate features and men with smaller statures - to me this is the form of masculinity that appeals to my tastes. The person who posted the pic has different ideals. Also nothing wrong with that. I just saw this photo and had to laugh because it is so very much the polar opposite of what I like in men. Lol.
@Medicalbug So can you be attracted to this guy? https://ibb.co/album/TmsDdM
No, he is a standard white looking guy - I’m more into South East and West Asian guys like this guy:
https://wiki.d-addicts.com/Xia_Teng_Hong
@Medicalbug So is he unattractive?
@Medicalbug It's weird , because girls are attracted to him in real life, but when he shows his photos online, every girl says "he's not her type".
He is not unattractive - he’s just not physically my type. I think that there is a huge difference between photos and real life. Maybe this guy has a personality that makes him attractive in ways a photo can’t convey. Not all people are photogenic.
@Medicalbug If every girl on internet says he is not her type so it has to means unattractive? In real life quite many girls are attracted to him initially even before he can show his personality
He doesn’t look unattractive on the photo, he looks pretty normal to me. I doubt you’ve surveyed enough people in objective situations to get a conclusive answer to that. I would vote neutral.
Also again, in real life he may seem totally different - not everyone is photogenic. So maybe he is exceptionally attractive if you meet him in person but that is lost of photographs. You can’t capture everything on camera. Sometimes you capture the wrong things too. Like I’ve seen super good looking photos (and even videos) of people who look weird or boring in real life.
*on photographs
@Medicalbug Did you he improve his looks after getting muscles and hair transplant?
https://ibb.co/album/5Wt7zs
Not really? He looks like the same guy who put on some weight and grew out his hair.
I mean he’s not ugly - just he’s a boring white guy to me.
@Medicalbug But now many girls check out his muscles
I can’t give you a definitive answer. In general, fit looking people (of any size) tend to attract favorable looks. I mean I don’t look at peoples muscles when I admire them - more just the overall picture. I especially focus on the face. I have this thing where I start noticing small things about someone I find attractive, which can even just be the line of their collar bone. I’m not really fixated on muscles. The guy on the pic I linked is actually quite skinny. I think it fits his overall appearance and like it.
But again, I’m not the muscle fan - you might want to ask the girl who posted that picture of the guy in uniform.
@Medicalbug Do you like grey t-shirts and sweatpants from guy I posted?
@Medicalbug You’re right when you’re talking about not just the looks & arms and such playing part.
For example the guy I was obsessed with not only looked almost exactly like that image. But his personality was extremely unique. This guy would confront anyone “ girls , guys, whoever wants to fight him. Not only that but his type of voice played a big Part, he had a deep thunderous voice, and it was kind of loud, he’s young Like 25, so he had a mix between teenager voice + strong man voice. On top of all this he would stare at anybody he wanted to for long periods of time. Specially when it came to a girl he was attracted to. He would have no fear of it. In fact there was even stories of him beating someone up, getting into fights. Stories of him standing up to those who judged him or his own bosses. Stories of him being a badass overall. Aside from this , he had some tiny tattoos on his hands or fingers. And really large veiny hands. You could just smell the manliness and testosterone radiating off of him. He had the thickest eyebrows I’ve ever seen , and most of the time his expression was an angry one. It doesn’t matter who was around him, he always looked absolutely angry. Also he was a manger and took his job way too seriously, which made such a crazy character seem interesting. There was just a lot going on with him.
You could also tell he had a lot of experience with girls and dating. You coullddd tellll.
Encountering this man felt really like being in front of some celebrity. He had already 2 young kids at only 23 years old. So he was even a father. A thing pretty girl came to our job one day and he was able to sleep with her within a month of meeting her. That made me feel discouraged and I decided no to do it.
But that’s the story of the real life alpha male I met in real life. Nobody had to mention he was getting all kinds of action, and all kinds of pretty girls, because everyone just KNEW
https://ibb.co/album/TmsDdM Are you attracted to him?
@EmyyWolf Your description of that guy just goes to show how vastly different my tastes are from yours. I like friendly guys with a more gentle temperament who don’t fight people. Not cowardly (I am not either), but not aggressive or confrontational either. More like me, a mix of many things, and also knowing when to back down. A lot of the stuff you described would majorly turn me off, like someone staring at me and not breaking eye contact. I would not be impressed or inclined to get to know them, if someone did that to me. Lol. It’s quite amazing how we have really polar opposite tastes in men. It’s great though, because we will never have to compete with each other.
@KejKej No, he is still not my type. I think he is more attractive than the police uniform guy, but he is not the kind of guy who I’d go for just on the basis of those photos. He’s just an average white guy to me.
@EmyyWolf It was question for you. Is he attractive for you? https://ibb.co/album/TmsDdM
@KejKej Not really because he looks older than me. Way older. I don’t date guys that are 3 years older than me and such and it is a turn off for me. But maybe if I was your age. Or I don't know your age. I’m 24 . But I think your hairline is making you look way older than you really are. No offense. But you do have nice eyes. I suggest you shave and get one of those hairline tattoos, everyone does it. Just like how women cover their strech marks with tattoos. Good luck.
And like I said personality plays a big part as well and manly behavior.
@EmyyWolf I am already after hair transplant on most photos (not all of them) and I am also taking meds, so now it looks better. I already plan second hair transplant. However I won't shave, I don't have a shape of head for it. Did you check all photos? Can you photos when I will have a better hair in the future?
@KejKej I don’t think that hairstyle is helping you. Because of your hair line; that hairstyle doesn’t go. Also you have a big forehead. No offense, it’s just the truth, I have a big forehead too. But in your case I suggest you try to go to the gym and bulk up and try to work on your jawline. I believe if you try to make your jawline more prominent than that’ll help your case. Also get on steroids. The more testosterone you have the more you’ll grow hair. I think some psychologists can provide you with testosterone specially if you say you’re depressed. Those meds will help you with having a deeper voice as well. TRUST ME.
Also, keep away from P0RN0 , that’ll only make you weaker and keep you comfortable. In fact it’s known by everyone that those who keep away from P0RN push themselves to go out there and work on themselves and get what they want. P0RN is poisonous to men. It turns regular men into lazy slobs. It’s sad but it’s true. P0RN actually doesn’t allow your natural testosterone to build up. And the more you bust nuts on yourself the more you’ll stay at that level of high estrogen. And that’s what happening to a lot of men these days. They are very feminine and lazy because of the instant gratification of P0RN
I already have deep voice and I lower my hairline by hair transplant, but like you said I have naturally big forehead and receeding forehead, so my hairline always will be starting "on the back". Testorone is cause of losing hair, so I won't take it. It's weird because girls are attracted to me in real life, but not on photos. Also check my photo here I got more muscles mass and more hair on the front during 6 years https://ibb.co/album/5Wt7zs
Personally, no. It shows that he has his attention on other women and that makes me feel like "one of many" which is of course a not-so-good start for me being attracted to a guy. Honestly, I like guys who don't have many women being interested in them, because that allows me to approach them easier. Also the most guys who had the most interesting and decent personalities where those, who haven't had many women who were interesed in them.
Yes, from experience women were more likely to want me for themselves only after seeing me with other women. And watching these women engage in conversation around me was very entertaining, if not brutal. They assault each other using compliments. Something I call complassaulting.
This is partially true. I can confirm this. Not too sure if women have secret radar or something but once they noticed you had sex with another woman they think is interesting then they seem to look at you differently. They seem to know. Not sure if they talked with each other.
Not too sure about "like" but more like "curious".
If a clever and cunning woman is with a man in women's society, prostitute-spirited women, because they cannot use their minds, turn to the man whom that woman has acquired with her mind. but when she is a smart-cunning and prostitute-spirited woman, she makes a child from the man she snatches and weeps in the female society. And to those who say why you are not getting divorced, he says I have a child or else I would be divorced. but its purpose is clear. is to protect the man she has captured from other prostitute-spirited women.
This is so true it is unreal. I have seen women smash and destroy their entire life, ruin their relationship or marriage because they just had to sleep with some other woman's boyfriend or husband. You can set your watch by it.
For this reason I purposely avoid women and thus, women tend to see me as not valuable. And leave me alone. Good. Go waste your life chasing Marsha's boyfriend Chad. We'll both be happier. Bye.
In what environment is that?
@lightbulb27 Planet Earth
i'd get a new "planet":) seriously, not everyone is like as described but we are all human with flaws. Majority of those in my circle are faithful and it's across cultures and religions. It's your life though and what you do with it. There's a lot of women out there looking or a man like you... after you change your mind...:).
@lightbulb27 I qualified all that with my exact words bro. Sorry if you're triggered. Go live your life. I will be living mine and not wasting any more of it listening to you have a breakdown. Bye dude.
It says enough about the women if that's how they choose to carry themselves. Just because there's value, doesn't mean it's for her to claim.
If a man entertains other women, then there was nothing valuable after all.
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Based on my experience I would say that's true. If i were to hazard a guess why that is, it's because people are afraid of missing out on literally anything and for women, this includes good men, so when a man is off the table, women want him.
As the saying goes, a man is like a key, a woman is like a lock.
Very true.
Usually it's either the rich or the top 20% of men, that 80% of the women are running after. The rich or the top 20% of men get to get laid tonight.
These are not real numbers but a close enough approximation.
The rest of us? We can go home, watch some pornhub and have a good wank or two. Or hire an escort or a prostitute. That's what we do on our freetime.
Of course. The same is for men. It’s our nature to judge value through consensus. What’s important is that the metrics used are weighed long-term and not superficial.
Cheers
It’s the age old saying that nothing is as more attractive and valued than something that someone can’t have.
if you don’t think that’s true then ask yourself why people kill people over new shiny cars they don’t have, women they don’t have or even money they don’t have.
heck Theirs reports that Hitler was so handsome and charismatic at his rallies that women often killed or gave up their own babies for him. Don’t make sure but I guess being handsome makes people primal.
Women naturally are not risk takers so instead of taking their chances with a guy who may or may not be a loser, they'd rather go after a guy who's already been tested in a relationship with another woman. They basically think "If he's good enough for another woman, he's good enough for me."
I asked are voluntarily celibate men attractive and all women said no. They said the strangely find men more attractive if other women do and also if he has been dating.
I said I know men who are good looking and have no interest in women. 100% said this strangely puts them off.
Its true. I usually keep multiple girlfriends or fwbs. The first one is harder to get than the second. The second is harder to get than the third.
Absolutely. I've had an easier time finding playmates when I have a wife and girlfriend than being single or just having a wife.
No, I prefer the guy who sits in his room and plays video games or does artsy things.
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Aaaannnnnd watch... every male user on this site will private message you lol
I would have to say it's sad but true. I think, in a lesser way, a guys friends can also make him attracted to a girl if all the other guys are attracted to her as well. So it goes both ways.