Is meeting 2x a month a boyfriend girlfriend a relationship?

[Sugar100]

I never had a boyfriend 😔 I’m always crying anxious confused. I never had a real boyfriend that sees me weekly , attends functions with me, calls me his girlfriend , I never lived with a boyfriend.

i met a new guy last week. 3 days together. And he ask if I’ll be seeing him ( weekly on weekends ) we been texting daily since then , he tells me daily good morning, how’s work, what he’s eating, when he came home from work, where he went, when he goes to sleep, we update eachother like that all week.

but it’s the weekend and no plans to see me. So now I feel single confused sad. Meeting just 2 weeks per month I think isn’t a boyfriend. It has to be weekly , daily, few times a wk.

😔 then during the week days I go out alone to pickup food or do an errand and I feel single. Boys show interest as I’m alone and it’s exhausting. I have to continue talk to 100 boys as no one comitts to me , makes me feel like a girlfriend? 😔 or is this a relationship be alone?

[Communicationisking]

aw I feel what your saying is this guy not close enough to see all the time?

If not try finding someone to be in a relationship with in person rather than on the interwebs

[Sugar100]

I never met a guy that is clingy wants meet me all the time 😓 I’m alone how is being alone all the time a boyfriend?

[Communicationisking]

You didn't answer me but I think maybe from what your saying this guy is close enough to see you regularly but doesn't. If this is correct then maybe move on or treat it as a casual till you can find someone better.

[Sugar100]

He has no car. I have to go to him.

[Berethor]

Long distance relationship is a thing so you can be girlfriend even if you don't see each other much.

[serious]

Given your question, no that is not a relationship and he is not your boyfriend if this is what is happening as you said.

[Sugar100]

So what is a boyfriend?

[Twalli]

When my girlfriend and I started dating it was once a month. Then became a few times a month, then became every weekend. Then after COVID-19 restrictions were lifted, it was months at a time. Now she lives with me.

[WonderingManII]

I think it should be more frequent. So that the relationship can grow and be more healthy.

[NathanDavis]

it would not work for me

[wkhan_87]

at least start of a relationship

[Sugar100]

So at the start of a relationship how many times do u meet per week/month?

[wkhan_87]

It can be different and depends on the couples , anyways my marriage was arranged marriage, dating less

[wkhan_87]

And i hope best wishes for you

[Sugar100]

I saw a new guy last wk and now I’m alone this weekend 😓 I feel single I don’t feel I have a boyfriend still

[wkhan_87]

I can feel you , sorry for your loneliness, I wish you find a better husband forever.. Amen

[vj0090]

Check ur inbox

[RedInnocent69]

Not a very good one