I absolutely hate it. Have never seen the appeal. Grosses me out to no end
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11 moThis is the only physical activity where I need a connection with the girl to do it. I have been extremely selective about kissing because it's too intimate for me, but over the years, I've been a bit more liberal about it. Kissing with the tongue? That's another level. When I had it for the first time, with the girl I didn't really build up enough of an emotional connection with, I ended up feeling humiliated. The tongue felt so foreign, so invasive. I didn't feel like I was in control of the situation. She was too aggressive. I handled it well and even reciprocated it, but I kept my true feelings hidden and while returning home. I was in turmoil. On one hand, I was so happy that I experienced such an intimate act with her, on the other hand, I felt powerless and scared.
It doesn't disgust me at all (or maybe it does and I do not understand it). I just need to feel more secure with my partner and more experience at doing it. Maybe then I'll be okay with it. Cannot wait to have a long term partner who would make me comfortable with it.
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11 moDepends on the person not just anyone no but someone I feel love for yes but it’s normal to have things you dislike even hate. So don’t feel weird that there is something many people enjoy that you just simply don’t.
Maybe with the right guy someday you’ll like it or maybe you never will… There is probably men out there who are grossed out by it too. So that’s a more compatibility thing with partners if he loves kissing the way and it’s a dealbreaker if someone doesn’t. Neither of you are weird just not meant to be.
I assume you’re asking because it feels weird and different. Everyone has something or another about them that would seem weird to other people… But that’s you. It’s okay to be grossed out by it and never do it again if you don’t want to. Tongue kissing isn’t all there is to a relationship
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3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Then you’re not doing it right — or the guys you’ve been with weren’t doing it right.
As the girl you should set the pace, but very slow, very sensual, baby steps, make him want more. Make sure it’s not an isolated activity. Brush up against him a little, use your fingers for light fleeting touches. Be the irresistible goddess he’s been craving. 😉32 Reply- 11 mo
The best kissing is with the tongue! One of the things that I miss about not currently being in a dating relationship.
- 11 mo
Nah just makes me feel icky
11 moNo, thought I was quite odd for the longest of times and one of many things I just did because that is what I thought was expected of me when in a "relationship".
Have fortunately found myself someone who isn't particularly a fan of tongue kissing, so I don't have to (and wouldn't want to) deal with that anymore.
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11 moI'm never too into it honestly. I've tried it a couple times and it always feels a little weird. I always used to do it because my partner was into it.
00 Reply 3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. yes I do , I think it’s sexy and Hot AF to passionately kiss and tongue each other , I could kiss for a long period of time with a girl that has My heart and rocks my world , Why don’t you like it?
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11 moFrench kissing should be saved for special times of passion. It can be stimulating if you're both into it.
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11 moI hate it. It's not really my thing at all.
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I will try it for a while with the guy I like or love but doing it too much is just meh
- 11 mo
If you ever have a positive experience doing this it will make all the difference. I wasn’t a fan of the act in the beginning either. Later I would meet someone I would become involved with who would change that verdict. Regardless, as my own response points out, there is a lot of incompatible kissers out there. It doesn’t surprise me learning how many responded feeling as you or the poster does.
- 11 mo
Yeah I suppose you're right. Compatibility is everything. I sort had that with my ex but not completely.
- 11 mo
“Sort of” always falls short. I can tell you know this now. You’ll get there.
- 11 mo
Hopefully.
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m 11 momy face every time I heard someone saying "and the we were making out for hours"

more than some minutes? 33 Reply- 11 mo
lmao... I mean, I like kissing of course... but if there's going to be some tongue action, I definitely need to be very much into the mood of all of it... and in love with that someone as well
and even then... preferable if there's not an excess of tongue... - 11 mo
Same. I can do it but not for a long period of time even if it is with someone I love.
- 11 mo
@Simslover92 exactly... lol
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11 moI remember the first time doing this was as a kid with my first ‘girlfriend’. Her tongue felt cold and foreign. I didn’t care for the activity which my friends thought I was off my rocker for feeling that way. Then later would come a different girlfriend who did not feel cold but warm and well, heavenly. I have been an ardent advocate ever since. Granted, I think it makes a difference who you kiss. There is a LOT of incompatibility in kissing out there - same goes with sex. So much so that if I not had the positive experiences that I have had that I too would likely fall into the, “not for me” category as well.
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u 11 moNope, same as you, never understood the appeal. The feeling of it is horrid. I’ve tried it many times, hoping I’ll see what the hype is, but all it’s ever done is disgust me.
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11 moOh wow I don't think I've ever heard a woman say that. I absolutely love it. It is very sensual and even erotic. Apparently there is something about it that you don't like. We are all individuals, so there will be those who don't like it? No judgement.
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11 moGuessing because some bloke was trying to be a gecko on you or it was all sloppy so I don't blame you but a good pash is so sexy and doing with a person that can do it well too is the best beginning of a hot bang session with either someone you have only just met or a partner you have been with for a long time. I would say It is significant or sometimes essential part of foreplay that leads to a wild time in pound town.
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m 11 moAh, well, I'm french... So it was a common activity for most of us, during high school years. I was cool with that. It had downsides though, because ritualizing anything sensory via social pressure makes it less spontaneous, so less pleasurable than it should be
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11 moDepends, Kissing, and "enough amount" ? Yes, but Not like a Dog Licking a windows glass 😅😂, and you say you don't like it!, what about "eating you out" ? Do you think the guy will do it with his... chin, nose, just lips? No, he will shove that tongue nice and dee, and lick that clit ti'll the whole body will shake, so next time when you think about... Tongue, remember there are "other benefits" for it also..😉
00 Reply 2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. I love it. It's hungry, physical and passionate like sex. Any other kind of kissing seems chaste or platonic.
The tongue has lots of nerve endings, way more than lips. Two moist tongues rubbing together feel tingly and sexual. A woman's mouth reminds me of her vagina - sweet, tender and juicy. I love swapping spit with a lover.00 Reply- 3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.
11 moMy first girlfriend taught me to "French kiss", and that's all I've ever known. I dated a girl once who felt like you do. I tried it for a while, but it feels like taking a shower with your clothes on. LOL It became a deal breaker for me.
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11 moit depends... but, in general, I like everything he does to me with his tongue and teeth :D
30 Reply13.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Hmmm... it comes pretty naturally. I don't think I've ever had a kiss with a partner that didn't involve the tongue. How do you feel about sexual intercourse?
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Weird question... i like sec lmao
18.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. It is totally hot if it is done right.
40 ReplyI actually do. Only one guy I’ve ever kissed that was the best kiss I’ve had my entire life. I haven’t seen him for a very long time but if he last minute reached out I’d fold…
00 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. If she's attractive and has good hygiene, breath, sure.
And it's something that a person should feel. It's not a mental abstraction, ie many people are in their heads too much.
00 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Absolutely adore it , just brilliant , very much a Western thing and it's one thing I really miss in Asia , passionate kissing in a public location..
Nothing beats the tounge.00 ReplyReally depends on the person, but I usually like to stay pretty light with all that, ya know? I'm def not a tongue down each other's throats for ages type.
00 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. It takes a certain mood to get the tongue going the right way
So I like it when it’s done “tastefully”, no pun intended
But I don’t think it’s constantly necessary00 Reply313 opinions shared on Dating topic. Oh I would never kiss with tongue with just anyone, id be disgusted af. But with someone I'm in love with, its different...
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11 moWell, you might have some trouble with the kissing public. I think most folks like it the French way.
10 Reply I enjoy it quite a bit, but I suppose it's not for everyone, apparently.
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11 moOnly if his mouth stays clean like mine. If he’s licking 2 dollar whore buttholes, he should brush his teeth 3 times and use an antibacterial mouthwash before he tries to kiss me. It’s more important to actually BE clean than “looking clean”.
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11 moLove it if I like the person. I used to think it was gross back in ninth grade, then I met my first serious boyfriend and I loved it.
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11 moLove it! Me and my Partner kiss each other every day but when things get hot we always kiss with tongue.
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11 motongue kissing is and a great precuser to the blowjob as i often suck the tongue as i like to suck
00 Reply 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. I like tongue kisses if its a romantic moment or during sex. If its just a random kiss id prefer a quick peck without tongue
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11 moI’ve never had any complaints from doing it, French kissing, which is very passionate and intimate to me and women are very into it that I’ve been with but it’s only girlfriends I’m dating and intimate with, nobody else
00 Reply 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not a fan of toungue. I like talking with lips touching, quite erotic to feel your girls move against yours and very intimate as well.
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11 moI love it since it feels soooo good, I could do it for hours, til my lips go numb lol
10 Reply 5.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Absolutely not. In fact I see that as disgusting.
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m 11 mo😆👍
It doesn’t gross me out, I just find it clumsy and unnecessarily complicated.00 Reply Yes only if I like/love them and their breath smells good. I tried kissing my man with tongue and his breath stank, I’d reject him
00 Reply8.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. yes, the first time I did it I didn't even know what was going on but I go to like it.
00 Reply657 opinions shared on Dating topic. - Absolutely I love it, but not with everyone though.
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11 moOne of my favorite things about kissing. Things can go very hot when it's involved
20 ReplyThere are a lot of things I like doing with my tongue :-)
00 Reply999 opinions shared on Dating topic. It doesn't gross me out, but it does seem rather pointless.
00 Reply4.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I didn't care for it at first, but have grown to enjoy it. I think that it depends more on who you do it with.
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11 moEveryone’s got their likes & dislikes. There’s nothing wrong with that. As long as whoever you’re with respects that then everything will be great. They can always find someone that does.
00 Reply455 opinions shared on Dating topic. Sorry, but I really it. Making out is so sexy
00 Reply459 opinions shared on Dating topic. Each to his or her own. I love french kissing and so do most of the women I've been out with
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11 moYes I love it kissing is a very intimate thing for me and a major turn on when done right. What is it you dont like about kissing
00 Reply I like kissing with tounge but on special moment not every time.
00 ReplyYes, I love it very much, kissing with tongue is my job..
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11 moseems gross, like I don't know where you’ve been with that. id probably be sick.
00 ReplyI enjoy tongue to tongue kissing, turns me on.
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11 moYes, I learned to give the tongue a massage and found ways to suck the tip to bring the sensations to the tongue.
00 ReplyYe, but it's doesn't really matter what we like. if it's not your thing, then it's not your thing 🤷♂️..
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Anonymous(45 Plus)11 moLove it
It's my favorite thing
I can do it for ages
By comparison sex only takes minutes
But I don't like kissing my wife
I haven't kissed her in 20 years00 ReplyKissing where?
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11 moNot a fan of that either!
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11 moI do like it but I understand people who don’t.
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11 moI do
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11 moIt depends how his breath smell, but usually I do.
10 ReplyI don’t kiss my clients on the mouth 👄
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11 moNo, I prefer kissing with lips.
00 ReplyThis seems very exciting to me.
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