Do you like kissing with tongue?

Question

I absolutely hate it. Have never seen the appeal. Grosses me out to no end

YourFutureEx · Accepted Answer

This is the only physical activity where I need a connection with the girl to do it. I have been extremely selective about kissing because it's too intimate for me, but over the years, I've been a bit more liberal about it. Kissing with the tongue? That's another level. When I had it for the first time, with the girl I didn't really build up enough of an emotional connection with, I ended up feeling humiliated. The tongue felt so foreign, so invasive. I didn't feel like I was in control of the situation. She was too aggressive. I handled it well and even reciprocated it, but I kept my true feelings hidden and while returning home. I was in turmoil. On one hand, I was so happy that I experienced such an intimate act with her, on the other hand, I felt powerless and scared.

It doesn't disgust me at all (or maybe it does and I do not understand it). I just need to feel more secure with my partner and more experience at doing it. Maybe then I'll be okay with it. Cannot wait to have a long term partner who would make me comfortable with it.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Depends on the person not just anyone no but someone I feel love for yes but it’s normal to have things you dislike even hate. So don’t feel weird that there is something many people enjoy that you just simply don’t.

Maybe with the right guy someday you’ll like it or maybe you never will… There is probably men out there who are grossed out by it too. So that’s a more compatibility thing with partners if he loves kissing the way and it’s a dealbreaker if someone doesn’t. Neither of you are weird just not meant to be.

I assume you’re asking because it feels weird and different. Everyone has something or another about them that would seem weird to other people… But that’s you. It’s okay to be grossed out by it and never do it again if you don’t want to. Tongue kissing isn’t all there is to a relationship

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Then you’re not doing it right — or the guys you’ve been with weren’t doing it right.

As the girl you should set the pace, but very slow, very sensual, baby steps, make him want more. Make sure it’s not an isolated activity. Brush up against him a little, use your fingers for light fleeting touches. Be the irresistible goddess he’s been craving. 😉

NordicInScandinavia · Accepted Answer

No, thought I was quite odd for the longest of times and one of many things I just did because that is what I thought was expected of me when in a "relationship".

Have fortunately found myself someone who isn't particularly a fan of tongue kissing, so I don't have to (and wouldn't want to) deal with that anymore.

HawkPerception · Answer

I'm never too into it honestly. I've tried it a couple times and it always feels a little weird. I always used to do it because my partner was into it.

Finchie40 · Answer

yes I do , I think it’s sexy and Hot AF to passionately kiss and tongue each other , I could kiss for a long period of time with a girl that has My heart and rocks my world , Why don’t you like it?

AviatorTom · Answer

French kissing should be saved for special times of passion. It can be stimulating if you're both into it.

Simslover92 · Answer

I hate it. It's not really my thing at all.

NathanDavis · Answer

my face every time I heard someone saying  "and the we were making out for  hours " more than some minutes?

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I remember the first time doing this was as a kid with my first ‘girlfriend’. Her tongue felt cold and foreign. I didn’t care for the activity which my friends thought I was off my rocker for feeling that way. Then later would come a different girlfriend who did not feel cold but warm and well, heavenly. I have been an ardent advocate ever since. Granted, I think it makes a difference who you kiss. There is a LOT of incompatibility in kissing out there - same goes with sex. So much so that if I not had the positive experiences that I have had that I too would likely fall into the, “not for me” category as well.

petitedollbabee · Answer

Nope, same as you, never understood the appeal. The feeling of it is horrid. I’ve tried it many times, hoping I’ll see what the hype is, but all it’s ever done is disgust me.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Oh wow I don't think I've ever heard a woman say that. I absolutely love it. It is very sensual and even erotic. Apparently there is something about it that you don't like. We are all individuals, so there will be those who don't like it? No judgement.

Communicationisking · Answer

Guessing because some bloke was trying to be a gecko on you or it was all sloppy so I don't blame you but a good pash is so sexy and doing with a person that can do it well too is the best beginning of a hot bang session with either someone you have only just met or a partner you have been with for a long time. I would say It is significant or sometimes essential part of foreplay that leads to a wild time in pound town.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Ah, well, I'm french... So it was a common activity for most of us, during high school years. I was cool with that. It had downsides though, because ritualizing anything sensory via social pressure makes it less spontaneous, so less pleasurable than it should be

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Depends, Kissing, and "enough amount" ? Yes, but Not like a Dog Licking a windows glass 😅😂, and you say you don't like it!, what about "eating you out" ? Do you think the guy will do it with his... chin, nose, just lips? No, he will shove that tongue nice and dee, and lick that clit ti'll the whole body will shake, so next time when you think about... Tongue, remember there are "other benefits" for it also..😉

Lliam · Answer

I love it. It's hungry, physical and passionate like sex. Any other kind of kissing seems chaste or platonic.

The tongue has lots of nerve endings, way more than lips. Two moist tongues rubbing together feel tingly and sexual. A woman's mouth reminds me of her vagina - sweet, tender and juicy. I love swapping spit with a lover.

loveslongnails · Answer

My first girlfriend taught me to "French kiss", and that's all I've ever known. I dated a girl once who felt like you do. I tried it for a while, but it feels like taking a shower with your clothes on. LOL It became a deal breaker for me.

DangerouslyCute · Answer

it depends... but, in general, I like everything he does to me with his tongue and teeth :D

slatyb · Answer

Hmmm... it comes pretty naturally. I don't think I've ever had a kiss with a partner that didn't involve the tongue. How do you feel about sexual intercourse?

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is totally hot if it is done right.

naartjie · Answer

I actually do. Only one guy I’ve ever kissed that was the best kiss I’ve had my entire life. I haven’t seen him for a very long time but if he last minute reached out I’d fold…

Levin · Answer

If she's attractive and has good hygiene, breath, sure. And it's something that a person should feel. It's not a mental abstraction, ie many people are in their heads too much.

molonski2 · Answer

Absolutely adore it , just brilliant , very much a Western thing and it's one thing I really miss in Asia , passionate kissing in a public location.. Nothing beats the tounge.

alli-112 · Answer

Really depends on the person, but I usually like to stay pretty light with all that, ya know? I'm def not a tongue down each other's throats for ages type.

Zack-Bann · Answer

It takes a certain mood to get the tongue going the right way So I like it when it’s done “tastefully”, no pun intended  But I don’t think it’s constantly necessary

7Phoenix7 · Answer

Oh I would never kiss with tongue with just anyone, id be disgusted af. But with someone I'm in love with, its different...

Screenwriter · Answer

Well, you might have some trouble with the kissing public. I think most folks like it the French way.

Orion84 · Answer

I enjoy it quite a bit, but I suppose it's not for everyone, apparently.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Only if his mouth stays clean like mine. If he’s licking 2 dollar whore buttholes, he should brush his teeth 3 times and use an antibacterial mouthwash before he tries to kiss me. It’s more important to actually BE clean than “looking clean”.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Love it if I like the person. I used to think it was gross back in ninth grade, then I met my first serious boyfriend and I loved it.

beenherebefore · Answer

Love it! Me and my Partner kiss each other every day but when things get hot we always kiss with tongue.

chrissykerdock · Answer

tongue kissing is and a great precuser to the blowjob as i often suck the tongue as i like to suck

Apple1996 · Answer

I like tongue kisses if its a romantic moment or during sex. If its just a random kiss id prefer a quick peck without tongue

Likes2drive · Answer

I’ve never had any complaints from doing it, French kissing, which is very passionate and intimate to me and women are very into it that I’ve been with but it’s only girlfriends I’m dating and intimate with, nobody else

RavVid · Answer

Not a fan of toungue. I like talking with lips touching, quite erotic to feel your girls move against yours and very intimate as well.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I love it since it feels soooo good, I could do it for hours, til my lips go numb lol

serious · Answer

Absolutely not. In fact I see that as disgusting.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

😆👍 It doesn’t gross me out, I just find it clumsy and unnecessarily complicated.

rienna888 · Answer

Yes only if I like/love them and their breath smells good. I tried kissing my man with tongue and his breath stank, I’d reject him

exitseven · Answer

yes, the first time I did it I didn't even know what was going on but I go to like it.

soe11 · Answer

Absolutely I love it, but not with everyone though.

linguistrosey · Answer

One of my favorite things about kissing. Things can go very hot when it's involved

stratford · Answer

There are a lot of things I like doing with my tongue :-)

Grond21 · Answer

It doesn't gross me out, but it does seem rather pointless.

shortster · Answer

I didn't care for it at first, but have grown to enjoy it. I think that it depends more on who you do it with.

Harry_Backside · Answer

Everyone’s got their likes & dislikes. There’s nothing wrong with that. As long as whoever you’re with respects that then everything will be great. They can always find someone that does.

Nerdvana · Answer

Sorry, but I really it. Making out is so sexy

LiamS95 · Answer

Each to his or her own. I love french kissing and so do most of the women I've been out with

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes I love it kissing is a very intimate thing for me and a major turn on when done right. What is it you dont like about kissing

rizzzz007 · Answer

I like kissing with tounge but on special moment not every time.

HДLILБΞУ · Answer

Yes, I love it very much, kissing with tongue is my job..

Chocolatetwopointtwo · Answer

seems gross, like I don't know where you’ve been with that. id probably be sick.

Jerre · Answer

I enjoy tongue to tongue kissing, turns me on.

placid_storm · Answer

Yes, I learned to give the tongue a massage and found ways to suck the tip to bring the sensations to the tongue.

Yaboozi · Answer

Ye, but it's doesn't really matter what we like. if it's not your thing, then it's not your thing 🤷‍♂️..

Anonymous · Answer

Love it It's my favorite thing  I can do it for ages By comparison sex only takes minutes But I don't like kissing my wife I haven't kissed her in 20 years

Paige90 · Answer

Kissing where?

katiesmuff · Answer

Not a fan of that either!

BadApple69 · Answer

I do like it but I understand people who don’t.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I do

TheLovelyWoman · Answer

It depends how his breath smell, but usually I do.

Jennz6 · Answer

I don’t kiss my clients on the mouth 👄

NotLongKindaGirthy · Answer

No, I prefer kissing with lips.

Kokishin · Answer

This seems very exciting to me.

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