How valid is this? can dating be repaired or is it damaged too badly?

[DexWest]

https://youtu.be/zZpeHFkTbTc?si=3I_jfxrg3Q9CximW

[Zack-Bann]

It’s called natural selection and it REALLY doesn’t give two shits about you or anyone else


There is no “repairing the world” because the world is not broken.
Some people are.


And yes you will meet them
And yes things won’t go well
And yes you’ll be heartbroken


But there are always more people. Different people.


You either find “yours” or you don’t


In both cases the world will move forward
In both cases it will NOT care
It just is what it is.


So instead of trying to fix the world just focus on fixing your own world:
Don’t date the blue haired HR chick and expect her to be wife and mother material.


Become the person that attracts the women you want to attract.
(Want a “wife” be a “husband” etc)

[msc545]

When you can repair the fact most men are not stupid enough to take a chance with their freedom and their finances in order to date women who are more likely than not going to try to take advantage of them, then perhaps it can be repaired. I won't be holding my breath to see if this happens. Women suddenly realized that simply by making false accusations they could make money and everything went to hell after that.

[msc545]

Thanks for MHO

[LazerBean]

It's valid for people who are not marriage material. However it is not much of a problem for people who are marriage material.

[msc545]

It's interesting that you think that people actually understand what you mean by marriage material. If you were talking about men, I would think that you were probably talking about men who are suckers. Are just reckless.

[LazerBean]

I'm just answering the question. Your lack of knowing what makes a man marriage quality is a completely different matter.

[msc545]

No I know what makes a man marriage quality for women. Lots of money. Good good looks and a lot of height.

[LazerBean]

I pray that one day you let go of your bitterness and start choosing accountability. Have a blessed day ❤️

[msc545]

I pray that one day you start dealing with reality instead of the way you want things to be.

[Chazmatazz269]

It’s not valid at all. That post is rife with females accepting responsibility for their lousy behavior. That has never happened in modern western culture.
Men are always wrong and women are always right. This is the pervasive through line of heterosexual relationships and interactions for the last century. Now that it has permeated every form of media, there is little chance those interactions can be “repaired” before they’re completely destroyed.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I don't have any issue in dating and I enjoy it, I don't undestand how it's such a problem for other people.

[msc545]

Yes, well just because things are okay for you for right now does not mean they are okay for every other man. He might want to consider the fact that your personal experience is not reflective of the overall situation.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

@msc545 he asked how valid that was. For me it isn't, and it's not my problem if it is for other guys. What can I do about it?

[msc545]

Nobody expects you to repair it, but when you decide that there is no problem, just because you aren't currently having one, you inadvertently encourage other men to take the kind of risks that they really shouldn't. Actually, you shouldn't be taking these risks either. Just because you've not had any trouble at this point. Doesn't mean you won't have some in the future. You might want to consider the reasons that most men are avoiding women these days.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

@msc545 and if I do that, then what am I supposed to do, go with men?

[msc545]

Try prostitutes instead. They actually cost you less. They won't be a legal risk and you are sure to get what you want every single time.

[msc545]

Try asking Harvey weinstein or Johnny Depp about those things. You won't have any trouble at all until you do. And when you do, you will have a tremendous amount of trouble. I sincerely hope that never happens to you but you are playing with fire.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

@msc545 I don't like prostitutes, I prefer to go with hostesses and attendants that cost more but you can also bring out on public occasions, and actually have a culture.

That said, while I am not looking for a relationship right now, I still like dating and remarriage might be a future plan.

[msc545]

The hostess or attendant you refer to are just prostitutes with a different name. You are kidding yourself if you think they are anything different.

[msc545]

I should mention that if you are not living in the US, none of this that I have said may apply to you. This is another one of those lovely and uniquely American problems. That is because the feminists in our country managed to weaponize our legal system against men such that men are hideously discriminated against in court now.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

@msc545 they cost a bit more and have more flexible skills. My father always said that prostitutes are for terroni and n-words, and while I don't share his racism, I'm not risking it with streetwalkers.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

@msc545 I got business and a home in the US but I am mainly in Europe (Switzerland, Italy, Luxembourg).

[msc545]

So I would suggest to you that you never date women in the US or women that are from the US. They will turn on you in a second, particularly if they think you have money and they want some of it. Or all of it. We have horrible income inequality in the US as you probably know and people will do just about anything up to and including murder for money. Accusing you of crimes that you haven't committed is a way of women getting money from you and they do it all the time. Accusing men of sex crimes that they have not committed is the most common method.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

@msc545 I don't think I am getting remarried or in a committed relationship for a while now, I got married young so now I have to catch up a bit.

[msc545]

Okay if your marriage is going well and there are no problems. Be thankful.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Dating looks fine around me, nothing to fix. And even if there was something to fix, it's faaaaaar above my pay grade.

[msc545]

When you get falsely accused of something by a woman, you will be changing your mind about this very quickly.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Well, after 30 years around women, I'm not going to get in trouble magically, I assure you haha

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

We don't live in the same world you know, you have no idea about mine, and I have no idea about yours. But after hearing you saying this, I don't envy your world lol

[msc545]

There is nothing about my world to envy, trust me on that.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It is sad, it is very sad, yes

[Vegasrunner]

TBH if you are a man of Value it is the Golden Age of Dating.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, I never had a date.