Is this older guy interested in me?

[Anonymous]

i’m 19 and i know this guy who’s in his late 20s. he initially started talking to me in a social setting and now we’ve hung out a couple times one on one and i really like him but he never makes a move or touches me, nothing. he always says he really enjoys hanging out after and suggests future events or talks about “next time” but hasn’t made any plans. and he’ll text me, send me reels and stuff. i figured if he wanted to hook up he would’ve done something by the third hangout but now im not sure if he likes me like that at all or is unfcomfy w/ my age. thoughts?

[ohsheeT]

Ok good question. But not the right one..

Understand this. Every guy on this planet is going to be interested in you.

Your question should be for what reasons

Are they real are they only until he gets what he wants ..

Don't focus on the age it doesn't matter until you start getting

Depending on the two people

10 year age difference
15 year age. Difference
20 year age difference

But that's a whole other question
If the boy is talking to you if he's calling you, if he's texting you, if he's hanging around with you. Yes he's interested in you very much so

Now it's your job to relax for a minute. Not get all excited. Listen to his words. Watch how he treats other people watch if he talks about other people
Because how he talks to them, how he interacts with them if he is negative whatsoever. That's who he's going to be with you. So he has to pay attention with all that right now. Don't worry about being in a relationship with him, just be his friend and have fun. Let things take course. Don't dream, don't wish just let things happen and listen to his words and watches eyes all at the same time. If he's fake he will tell you by what he saying with his mouth and saying with his eyes at the same time do they match up

[Avicenna]

You’re both adults. Do you like him? If so, ask him out

[SueShe]

I would be happy if I were in your shoes if you found a man that is not going to jump you the second he talks to you. Apparently, there are still a very few men that don't want to get into a girl's pants right away. Be happy about it and enjoy the fact that he is decent.

There is a large age gap that could also play a role in his behavior. He may like you but that does not mean that he has the urge to date you. He may be comfortable just talking with you and not have deviant thoughts in the back of his head. Enjoy that rare moment while you can.

[Zack-Bann]

Damn, late 20’s is “older guy” now 🥲


Trust me in a decade you won’t feel any older
He’s just a guy.


If or not he likes really comes down to what type of relationship you guys have

[Anonymous]

Eh, kinda a significant age gap, I would feel weird making a move or even hanging out with someone that young in the first place

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope