If you had to choose between these 2 options to date, which would you choose and why?

[HawkPerception]

Option A: Not very responsive, and therefore, you're not sure if they're truly interested in you. However, evidence (your observations) suggests this just seems to be the way they communicate with everyone. They're just not on their phone often and prefer to take things slow. They message you once a day on average (many messages in response to what you sent them previously in one burst). They seem to be extremely compatible in terms of views, way of communicating, sense of humour, interests, etc.

Option B: Extremely responsive. It's clear that they're interested in you. The compatibility doesn't seem to be as high, and you may not align in terms of goals in the future (having kids). But they seem nice, and you get along with them.

Both are about equal in physical attraction.

What's your pick?

[D_Bone_Steak]

Option A.

From my experience, a woman who makes so much time for meaningless phone garble, is probably dependent on others for everything from validation to entertainment.

For instance, I'd expect option A not to be on the phone constantly and probably not on social media constantly stalking her friends, suffering from FOMO, or posting thirst pics because her ego needs it.

Again from my experience, option B is WAAAAY more likely to be like that. They hardly self-validate at all and require interaction with others for entertainment purposes and thus will be more prone to cheating, girls' nights, being too needy, et cetera. I mean, just imagine work or something has you busy and then she starts getting up your ass about ignoring her, or you finally get a vacation where you just want to chill out and do nothing, and she fills it up with shit you have to do. That shit sucks unless you're just like her.

Option A is just more long-term compatible for me. I entertain myself and have shit to do that doesn't require another human soul bugging me with shit or needing shit from me. Option B girls start to get on my nerves more often than not and because I don't make time for them... they get bored and feel ignored, and that leads to bullshit. Something about the Devil and idle hands or something like that. 😔

I will also add, you need to be interesting yourself if you want serious attention from option A. If you're just a fucktard, she's probably going to get bored with you in an entirely different way.

[Drumlin2001]

No point picking B.
Give A a chance, need conversation on expectations.

[Screenwriter]

A good, meaty call once a day is enough. Don't need to be texted to death. That's annoying.

A hearty call after work or early in the morning is enough to know someone's interested in me. Doesn't even have to be every day. Every other day, or two days and a nice long call and then getting together is enough.

[PeachyPie93]

If I had to pick, it would be B.. since I like to know that someone is generally into me. A might not even like you as anything other than a friend and you are just wasting your time. But to be honest if everything wasn't a 100% I wouldn't bother dating either cuz why fall in love with mediocre.

[DishLady]

A obvi… you know my type already, lol.

[queenofcardio]

Option A. At my current age, I'd prefer a partner that aligns with my goals in life.

[greyislife]

Option A if were able to have quality time
in person

[Xawyx-2]

If I get along with them, and the physical attraction is the same, I'd say B.

[Dongie]

Oddly enough I find A to be the one.

[HawkPerception]

Don't find it odd at all man

[Dongie]

It seems so after reading the others.

[Ironco]

I'm a lot like A, so I suppose I'd pick A.

[Panthero80]

B as she is interested in me.

[thegreenyogi]

Option A.

[jamesgoldman]

A, I'm busy a clinger sounds like hell