What’s disrespectful behavior that will cause you to never see someone again?

[Summeroflove]

Being entitled. Disrespectful. Standing you up or constantly being late, making you initiate everything obviously if they were really interested they would show a equal amount of interest. Being rude to you without a cause.

I don’t expect someone to be perfect all the time. But especially if it’s the first couple dates and someone’s acting out. Or it’s all the time and they never take accountability or say sorry unless you call them out and sometimes not even that.

[Anonymous]

The asshole demi cheated on me while i was sick with cancer and taking care of my best friend who was dying from his own cancer and i was about to be homeless. She left me when i was at my lowest. But years prior when she was at her lowest i was there for her even though her coniving manipulative backstabbing mom put a block on all incoming communication at the hospital. Then there was her running off and getting married to the guy she cheated on me with. The way i see it, let him deal with that disaster family of hers especially mommy dearest dianna lord knows i had enough of that shit show for 6 1/2 years

[Summeroflove]

Narcissists man…. They expect you to be there for them. But they will never do the same for you

[Dongie]

It could be a number of things. Context is the key to answering this.
Is she a psychotic bitch?
Almost anything.
Does she have flights of FANCY?
Eeh, it'd take a little to fall apart.
Is she a conceded asshat?
Fuck her then!

[Summeroflove]

Or better yet don’t fuck her lol

[Summeroflove]

But seriously. Yes

[Dongie]

Yeah, that second one could be a good ride.

[DishLady]

One person I will never look at again is a lunatic who accosted me in the middle of a conference to argue with me over a guy… a guy who doesn’t give a shit about me, by the way, who had just freshly been outed as an all-out womanizer.


Ironically, he’s been trying to make amends, but she’s the rare person I’ve set firmly in my “no fly” zone. We could have had our chat in private, but she chose to make a public scene, which was unacceptable.


Also, if I’m just getting to know a person and see they’re disrespectful I don’t bring them into my inner circle at all. I don’t need negative energy in my personal or professional space.

[Anonymous]

Lies, rude to me or someone else, manipulative, always late, don’t respond, ghosts, don’t offer food at his place, don’t pay, questioning what I’m telling him, mansplaining, condescending, don’t make plans in time, not consistent, not transparent, aren’t in contact every day, not respecting boundaries, negging, talking about his ex all the time, calling his ex crazy, flirting with others, still in contact with his ex, trying to change me (like get me to wear other things, style my hair different, more/less makeup etc), don’t show that he’s interested.

[Summeroflove]

I agree. But womansplaining for me….

It’s like a woman who tells men how they need to be a certain way or not do certain things. Yet because they’re a woman it’s okay when they do it. Or don’t do it

[Summeroflove]

But more the less. All of those go the same for me. Treat me with love, dignity, and respect and I’ll do the same. If you don’t I’ll leave

[TrimmedTip]

Hard dealbreakers for me:

Chronic flakiness – If you can’t respect my time, you don’t get access to me.
One-sided effort – I’m not a backup plan or an emotional vending machine.
Unapologetic rudeness – Life happens, but habitual disrespect? Bye.
Playing dumb – If you ‘don’t notice’ your behavior hurts others, you’re either selfish or lying.
I don’t need perfection—just basic human decency.

[Ask105]

You know what you should put up with! these women go on 3 dates a week minimum don't lose sleep over it hope you find the 1 percent girl treats you right

[Summeroflove]

Correct. But it’s weird when they come back and wonder why I haven’t initiated anything. When they have shown zero interest and probably been out banging dudes left and right.

No thanks

[Ask105]

Dude its bad i know it so bad i started studying women psychology with good text books and interactions with them check this out last night one came back to me and i just said you already gave me your answer whether it was one or not and i don't ghost people wasn't raised like that and few other things i said she turned to dr Jekyll and mr Hyde on me i laughed it off and she is a nurse to they all fkn insane

[cora1]

Entitlement for sure. Not being respectful or having manners for service workers. If I see they don’t treat everyone the same I am out. 👋

[Dongie]

You need to check out Access 2 Care. Those employees get puffy and snippy like you're to blame for them having to answer the phone.

[cora1]

@Dongie oh you’re right, there’s that exception, but I usually just feel bad for them. It must be some kind of bad job if everyone acts the same, I can’t imagine living upset all the time 😅

[Dongie]

But they just answer the phone and book medical transportation. Takes maybe five minutes and they are offered the sweet sensation of helping a sick, injured, or terminal person. There has been a couple that was normally sweet and happy but most are lame, a bore, and couldn't care less about ensuring the person makes it to see their doctor.

[Dongie]

Oh, that puffy was spell check. I said HUFFY!

[Summeroflove]

Entitlement is one of the WORST traits someone can have. It’s not the worst but it’s up there.

I agree that’s a dealbreaker. I don’t owe anyone SHIT and nobody owes me shit.

[Dongie]

Right O!

[Amy2004]

When they suddenly change and stop giving me the same amount of effort I give.

[Summeroflove]

Agreed

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Rudeness, don't know proper etiquette, unreliability.

Also, as I mentioned a couple of days ago, if I invite you out, don't you dare pay the bill behind my back.

[KennethNoisewater]

The trifecta. Only takes one of these three. Lying, Cheating, Stealing are all grounds for termination

[Nikki1989]

Misogyny and entitlement.

[Summeroflove]

Agree. Misandry and entitlement gets me.

If someone is going to take their frustrations of men or women beofre someone on someone whose never done them wrong. They don’t deserve to have that person

[Panthero80]

Being on her phone instead of being with me.

[Abdulw]

Touching my food at date, being too dictator like at the table, bad hygiene habits etc

[AngryCarl2]

Physical violence, intruding on my privacy. That's all I can think of.

[exitseven]

Somebody that keeps lying to me

[SotiCoto]

Wearing contact lenses.

[qwerty2469]

Treating people poorly

[Anonymous]

Betrayal and snitching.

[nojdug76]

Betrayal