Why would you NOT date a virgin?

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Orion84 · Accepted Answer

Honestly, it depends on why she's a virgin.

I have nothing against virgins, and would happily date one, unless she was waiting for marriage. I don't necessarily think waiting is a terrible choice; it's just that I consider physical intimacy to be an integral part of a serious relationship.

I don't use women for sex, nor is it the most important aspect, but I would have a hard time getting serious enough about one to consider marriage, if we had never been intimate with each other. Without physical affection, you're really just good friends.

Aside from there, there's really no reason why I would refuse to date a virgin.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A lot of men would prefer to date a virgin. But at the same time if she’s over a certain age, still a virgin, then it makes you wonder why. What’s wrong w her? To me if she’s 25 down, still a virgin I’m ok w that. But if she’s older than that, still a virgin, it raises a lot of red flags. Especially if she’s beautiful. A lot of men love to be a lady’s first in a lot of things, especially sex. The only time men may not really want a virgin is when it comes to a one night stand. That’s where we prefer experience.

MemeSupreme · Accepted Answer

i dont wanna ruin them lol they should experience what normal is before handling my baggage and weird hot/cold behavior with that stuff

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Have you ever had sex with a virgin? It is not fun.

ohsheeT · Answer

I can't really thing of any reason I wouldn't

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

Because I don't have the patience to teach her and I would assume something is weird with her, especially if she's over 25.

I don't know, it feels like I would be wasting both my and her time. We can be friends though.

Zack-Bann · Answer

I have before on two occasions

In one case she was a virgin but wanted to explore things and have sex
So we did and it was great

In the other case she was a virgin to please her religious family (as well as her own)
It was way too hard to have an intimate relationship.
We did everything a couple does except for penetration
Eventually the frustration got to be too much and I realized I can’t have a sexless relationship
So I ended it

lexxiliesbae · Answer

I wouldn’t mind dating a virgin. It might be a little awkward but at least he wouldn’t be trying to sleep with me all the time.

Anonymous · Answer

It would definitely be a positive to me personally, due to my own history. I assume any girl in my age range is not one, and I don't expect finding a less experienced partner. The only downside would be a potential dead bedroom in the future. I wouldn't mind waiting until she is ready, but I don't want it to become an annual event afterwards.

Berethor · Answer

If she stay virgin forever, but otherwise I clearly prefer a clean virgin over a dirty ho.

TrimmedTip · Answer

It’s not the virginity itself—it’s the baggage some virgins bring (jealousy comparisons, over-romanticizing sex). Not all, but enough to make some wary.

slatyb · Answer

I would be wondering "Why is she a virgin?" If it's for some religious belief, then we're not compatible.

SotiCoto · Answer

Because trying to fuck a virgin is like trying to fuck the eye of a sewing needle. Girls are better when they actually have some room in there.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Dating a virgin is something precious to me, because i'm a supporter of anyone who stays virgin until marriage!

glennos89 · Answer

I would date a virgin because I wouldn't mind having to wait until we get intimate

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a virgin too, but I would prefer a girl who knows what she is doing. I like dominant girls.

Asgard356 · Answer

I don't care if she's a virgin or not. I have higher priorities.

Abbycado · Answer

Why are the anons becoming more retarded?

capriVib · Answer

There is no such rule.

Alex-Snow · Answer

No reason I would date one any day

In_Trance · Answer

Experience speaks volumes

qwerty2469 · Answer

Because almost all of them are underage

Panthero80 · Answer

I would date one.

cavedweller1973 · Answer

I would date a virgin

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