How can I get more girls to like me (as a girl)?

[Anonymous]

I’m bi with a preference for girls, yet I have trouble getting girls to like me. Lots of guys are into me but I heard that guys just have very low standards so I’m insecure thinking that I’m just not pretty enough or interesting enough for a girl. Sometimes I wish girls were less picky the way guys are but I understand them as a girl myself

[ohsheeT]

Ok this is what I like smart. Wise. Confident funny. Happy. Can smile... can speak with her eyes is passionate. Sensual and a good lover


Ok so if you liked me what would you do. To either become that person so I would see you.


You have to think the same way if you want a gurl to see you.

I mean do you want to be seen as a girly girl. Do you want to be seen as a stud. Or all the above

[Asker]

Im def a girly girl but I don't know how to get girls specifically bc i act very kind and all around them. For guys they just come easily u dont rlly have to do much but no matter how hard i try for girls it doesn't work

[ohsheeT]

Well, with girls that you're trying to become friends with, are they straight or go both ways..

[Asker]

The girls I’m into are usually lesbian or bi. I’m just not their type ig

[ohsheeT]

Hmm, I dont get that . Maybe its because most lesbian girls i know like other girls lesbian and 6 seems like they are both more girly girls. Maybe that's it. But in a way I feel you being girly girl kinda

[ohsheeT]

Well, im going to have to say you're probably a very beautiful girl, and for some reason, im also going to have to say it's their loss because I feel you're very sensual and passionate

[Staximus]

You have to show them that you're attracted to them. Make your move, dude

[Asker]

I do. My lesbian friend rejected me and got with another girl. I’m also not trying to be mean or anything but the girlfriend is mid. (I’m not saying I’m super pretty or anything but I’m just being honest)

[Ask105]

Simple way is does a guy you look at have high standards and values his job maybe some traits you see you have to spend time around some people and is he attractive to you then? and does he also like you then no doubt definitely in your head and most of the time when we get trapped in are head it becomes are reality it’s freaking hard i understand.

[Stevepro68]

My girlfriend is bisexual and when we were just friends 7bor 8 years ago. She had way more success than I ever did with meeting women. If you like women it's a burden you have to deal with.

[Asker]

It’s so hard to pull girls