i’m not a very particularly handsome guy but i’ll put some pics down below. whenever i talk to girls i talk to them like we are friends but add some flirt moments and i always speak with confidence. i am probably around 5.5 and pretty lean. i do pull a little for example this 1 friend and another older friend bolth liked me and i talked to bolth of them for 2 or three weeks befor dating one of them. people often say i have a great personality and once they got to know me i was a really different person then who they thought and that i was rlly sweet and nice. my ex girl made a rumour that i used her for head although i broke up with her only becuase our relatio was way too public and she told her class ever detail about what we did at her place ( sex, head, etc. )
I must ask you, what is your goal? Do you want to casually date a few girls or do you want a relationship with one girl? Either way, personality plays a very significant role here. I cannot, in my good judgment, ever date a man who does not treat me right or have the traits I expect in a partner.
As long as you are healthy and have a good facial structure, girls will find you attractive. I find myself being drawn towards men who are charismatic and can hold scintillating conversations. Confidence can boost a person's attractiveness to a great degree. Personally, I do not see myself dating someone who does not have enough confidence in their own abilities.
Myself and so do my girl friends, prefer gentlemen who are loyal, kind, caring, romantic, trustworthy and honest. We do not want bad boys, we want guys who are not afraid to express their emotions in a healthy manner. We do not want guys who are emotionally immature and play mind games, we want guys who are straightforward about theri intentions from the beginning.
Also, just a small tip, putting out your personal social media (TikTok, in this case) is not a wise idea.
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tysm also i didn’t post the video it’s jus in my drafts but ty
Talk to them and behave maturely. Hopefully, you don’t wear hats or sweat pants. 😉
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what’s wrong with sweats?😭 but here’s an example of what happened with the last girl. i was talking to this girl for a few days and hung out with her quite a bit. i went swimming with her at her house and jus chilled by a fire the other time. she always laughed at my jokes and said i had nice lips so i took that as a hint but ig no. after flirting for a few more days, i asked her what her intentions with me where/ what she sees us being in the future friends or more then that. she said something along the lines of “ohh im kinda stuck on the last dude i was talking to and have to still figuer stuff out with him so friends” i don’t rlly know what i did or nun but more then 90% sure she jus didn’t fw me like that
Most of the time that’s what we get from women. One of the reasons so many guys wot spend money…and go to the bars for the ones who will be more involved 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
