How do I get more women?

[seanjean]

I'm a college student I'm not a terrible looking guy but I struggle getting the women I want. How do I make myself appear for valuable to these women?

[drakethibault1]

Before you get a lot of women, you need to learn how to socialize with them, so you can keep em on hook. First, attracting women is not the most difficult thing; fit body, good cloth, nice haircut, perfume, soft flirting (complimenting their shoes or dress) and some manners (opening doors for women) will help to get some attention. But, you also need to hold interesting conversations with them, otherwise you will be 'just another guy, who feel for me'. In order to fix that get a lot of female friends. For example, find a lot of female friends, strictly friends though, and announciate that to them. Eventually, if you do everything right, you will pick few skills that can help in the future.

[WhiplashMonkey]

Take my advice and focus on your studies. It will help you far more in the long run.

[Anonymous]

Damn you're 29 and still don't know how to get girls?

[seanjean]

I'm 21

[Opinion Owner]

Okay here's some advice:

1. FIrst work on your social skills in general, around men, women, of all ages, attractiveness levels, etc. Don't think about dating. Just think about being more charismatic, personable, assertive, witty, and considerate. Learn to be a good communicator. Don't be socially awkward (https://thepowermoves. com/socially-awkward/)

2. Work on your confidence. For this, work out regularly, find your purpose in life and build a vision for the next 5-10 years, work hard towards a career, be passionate about topics that interest you. Be nuanced and critical in your thinking. Develop self-respect and build healthy boundaries. When in a group of guys, assert your (nuanced!) opinion, be a good listener, be decisive. Join clubs and try to attain leadership positions.

3. Women are attracted to men they respect. Inspire respect and admiration in women. Pick up interesting hobbies, work on your humor (watch comedy), read books on all sorts of things to be more knowledgable (philosophy, art, history, politics). Adopt a golden retriever.

4. Work on your looks. Whiten teeth if needed, lift weights, google skincare routines for men, google haircuts that fit your face shape, upgrade your wardrobe to be more form-fitting manly/classy.

5. Learn your attachment style. Do you have insecure attachment styles? Work on developing a secure one. Don't neg women, don't try and manipulate or undermine their confidence just to pull yourself up.

[seanjean]

Thank you

[Randalama]

Earn more money. Display it in the form of wardrobe, cars, etc. Also display stupidity. Make it clear that this money can be stolen from you at any time without consequence.