Why are some people smarter at a young age?

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Is it just experience? I met my ex in college and he taught me a lot about life... cheating.. abuse.. partying.. deceiving and lying. He also mentioned taking things to the grave and etc... I was still hoping for a fairytale ending with this guy 😂😂 i was totally naive

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

No your looking at it wrong. Only you can get your fairytale but only if you learnd what you don't want. See you like most girls. Who meet a guy they fall in love. And all the above happens to them they become heart broken because they really love the guy and somewhere down the road they fall in love with the same type if guy because they miss there x.

In stead of looking at it and being honest. That guy came in to your life and did all the above to you. Teachingbyou and showing you what kinda man that you dont wanting your life. He was only a learning experience. And if you didn't learn anything you will have to do it again and again. Be honest. He was either good or bad you can't have it both ways

So either do it again or now you know things learn and then go get what your dream guy is

When some one abuses you and takes and hurts you that is not love. Right so learn from it that's why we live in the world we live in today. Because we have been brainwashed to love people that hurt us fuck them
Become onevwith self one with others one with the universe . We are all meant to bring heaven to earth. That's why we are all here.

But with the politicians and all the virus cheaters and thieves. We are bringing hell to earth instead of heaven

We need to start becoming smarter. Look at things the way they are abd change them we are running out of time

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Welcome to the world of being a empathic person when you truly project yourself onto others just to find out that not everyone is a great person. It can be demoralizing and you can easily become the monsters that have hurt you if you choose to do that.

But you can also learn and grow from it. A lot of narcissists can act like a fairy tail and believe me they want that too. In fact they live in a delusional world but it’s all about them.

Some are better then others. But narcissists can come off too good to be true they know how to pretend to be really anything they think you want.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Life experiences at a young age usually shape how things will go for the rest of your life.  Wisdom is found in the courage to ask meaningful questions. Always stay curious. Live and learn.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Inexperience and frankly a lot of younger women get with the bad boy type because they crave the danger, drama and excitement.

aaron13547 · Answer

Awareness. I think it all comes down to how much a person cares to think about things and ask hard questions. Smart people aren't afraid of failing they thrive to learn more everyday. To experience everything where else would the knowledge come from. You learn from experiencing things or reading about it both are ways to understand something. A smart person understands there experience and the rest of the world all at the same time. Thats awareness

glennos89 · Answer

Some people are thinking more then others do.

I will use myself as an example...

I'm a introvert, I only talk when I need to talk about important things but most time of the day I'm simply in my head thinking and observing the world around me. I'm observing people's behaviour and body language instead of expressing myself

Anonymous · Answer

Some people are just born into toxic environments. So those people from start point go ONLY know how to use, exploit and abuse other people.

Don't feel bad, it's like this for men as well. There is an epidemic of toxic women raised by single mothers. It's very hard for a man to find a worthwhile woman to date/invest in as well. I feel bad for the generations even younger than you and I because there generation is exponentially worse in this area.

Ask105 · Answer

Parenting , resources, environment , the ability to study lots of things apply it and be open to criticism

slatyb · Answer

Is he much older than you are? These behaviors are usually learned at home.

SotiCoto · Answer

They're not. Age just makes people jaded and less willing to waste time discussing things they don't want to think about any more.

exitseven · Answer

When people are young they don;t know what they don;t know.

Anonymous · Answer

Are you still talking about me? Get a lite girl move on

jahaims · Answer

It's nature and nurture

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