Would you lose all respect for a man who gives into daily flirting with a taken woman?

[Anonymous]

I'm talking to this guy, and the subject of how people cheat came up. He told me that there has been a couple times where a thirsty girl who had a boyfriend, would go after him, and guve her number to him. He said that he doesn't blame a girl for talking to him when she hates her relationship. He claims that the women would want to be "just friends." He kind of spoke about it like he was proud of it. It totally turned me off.. it made me question what kind of guy he really was. In my opinion, I feel like a guy being a sneaky link and texting a taken girl "platonically" everyday is degrading and embarrassing. Not to just plan on hooking up, but to date her. there's no self respect in that man or "bro code."

[Anonymous]

50% of the blame is on her, not just the man.

It would be easy to say, "yes" To this question. And I'm not saying no. I'm simply saying life is a more complicated than that. Let's say I'd lose respect for that part of him, even though I might understand. I had a boss that was not opposed to doing this. I told him it was foul to do. And his response to me was, "I had standards and didn't this at one time, it didn't stop it from being done to me". I told him I understand, but wrong doesn't stop being wrong just because someone hurt you". This guy (my boss) overall is a good man. It's really unfortunate some succubi f***ed him up.

[Cormac995]

Yea guys like that are nothing but problems the dude you're talking about sounds like a douche

[Ms_Facesitter]

I lose respect for him for going after a taken woman. I lose respect for her if she lets it happen.

[Anonymous]

Yeah he’s trash

[jahaims]

Duh.