I don't think that in general men lose respect for women they sleep with but I agree with the guy that recommends waiting a while for sex. I don't think I'd say "as long as possible" but I usually recommend waiting until the non-sexual part of the relationship has started to develop. In other words, establish that the two of you enjoy doing non-sexual things together, enjoy talking with each other, and are beginning to care about each other's lives before starting sex.
Why do I say that? Because I think that if sex starts too early in a relationship that it's easy, especially for the guy, to think the sex is the basis of the relationship and I think the emotional bond should be the basis with sex adding to that. Plus, there are guys that are mostly only interested in sex and by waiting at least several dates before starting sex, the woman can find out whether the guy really cares about her as a person or just as a female body.
I think there probably are some guys that will lose respect for a woman that has sex on the first date or even the second or third - maybe because they worry that if it was so easy to get her to sleep with them, she'd probably pretty easily sleep with another guy too?
But overall, I think the best reason to wait is to let the emotional bond build to where it's the core of the relationship and also to make sure the guy is not just wanting sex, not because of concern about him losing respect for her.
Some people won't respect you if you're too easy. This isn't meant to be slut shaming at all. All I mean is that if you don't treat yourself with respect, whatever that means for you, neither will others.
Depends on the guy some yes some no I mean my boyfriend is pan which means he more for emotional side rather than sex and to woe him I needed to be more romantic rather than using other means and sex was great but he draws closer when kissing and cuddling however I have been on the other side were my friend with benefits ended up lying and said he was single when he wasn't and when his girlfriend wasn't giving him her goods he ended up running to me and being there sucked hard and I ended up being used as a pocket whore and she lets say wasn't that impressed with me eventhough I swear I didn't know now I have been labeled a town bike because off it
I don't know why guys do that because they're the ones having sex with the girl so you'd have to loose respect for him too
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As a guy with a very high count, I can tell you that I've really only gained respect for sleeping around with as many women as I have. People are more than entitled to judge me negatively but this has been my experience. I was admired by other men and with women, they thought I had something to really offer if other women were throwing themselves at me.
Here's how I saw it. Women would immediately see me as a douchebag with no emotion and who treats women poorly. I was a steroid using muscle head so I gave off that image. This actually benefited me though... and that's because I could only move up from there. As soon as I'd present myself as this articulated well rounded rational guy, then all of those negative of having a sexual history became seen to be positive. It made them think, wow he's not what he looks like and maybe he really does have something to offer. Maybe there's a reason why so many girls threw themselves at him. They now think my experience is a plus because I'll be able to give them the orgasm of their life.
Guys dont lose respect for girls that they sleep with though many guys they just want to sleep with the girl so and they don't want anything else once they get that.
Well yes if she wants relationship. She immediately sleeps with a potential long term. He will definitely not see you long term. Cause actions speaks louder than words. If you want be long term. Stick to your game plan at lleast 90 days recommended to filter out real men v. s horny dogs.
nope it depends on the guy. That's like the worst advice.. treat people like individuals stop grouping all guys together.
I've heard plenty of guys say that if a girl gives it up straight away their trust in them drops dramatically.
It depends on what you mean by respect, as well as the circumstances of the sexual encounter.
Not at all, you'll only be used if a guy had intentions of using you beforehand.
Depends on how long they made me wait. If it was on the first date or a hook up, zero chance for a relationship.
Douchebags do.
I've only been intimate with one woman and I still respect her quite a bit.
Not at all. We rarely respect you in the first place.
Only if it's like a one night or casual. but in relationships Nahh
I expect some do but I think it's nothing close to a majority
In my experience no.
Bullshit.
No, but boys do.
Not really tbh
Yes...
Well I would
Yes, we do.
I don't think so
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