What do guys think of a one night stand?

[Anonymous]

So we are all grown adults here and I want to know a guy /men’s point of view or opinion. Would you see or treat a women different because she slept with you on the first night? Do you guys lose respect or view them different? I feel like it’s okay for men to do it but women get called names if they do it. So I need a mature men’s opinion. If you like the person do you contact them back to hook up or move on?

[Buckzor]

I'm just going to state my opinion, take it as you wish.

I don't care if you sleep with someone on the fist date, it happens. You get attracted to some and really vibe with them and it feels fine to sleep with them.
Sometimes you're just attracted to them and want to sleep with them too.

I don't lose respect or view them differently - well actually if someone slept with me on the first date or something i'd be surprised, and it'd change my view on them a little bit. It would make me feel like they actually like me and find me attractive. Which isn't a normal thought process for me. '

It's hypocritical that only women get shamed for the most part, although the "fuckboys" get discriminated against in the same way but that's never bought up.

If I think someone would be open to a ONS or anything similar, or if someone thought I was, I wouldn't think any less of them.

Go for it, see what happens.

[Asker]

Thanks for your honest feed back. I appreciated! Last week to his place which I haven’t seen him in a few years, well we talked for a few hours
, laughed had drinks etc. one thing let to another, so we ended up hooking up. I don’t remember much because I was a bit drunk and so was he. I left in the middle of the night, he messaged me in the morning asking if I was okay and that I had left my earrings and ring at his place. He said I had fun, let’s chill again soon. I said I’d love too. I sent him a text two days later and he never replied back but he will like my pictures I post on IG. Is that a bad sign? I’m not one to hook up on a one night but it was in the moment. My worry is I don’t want him to see me any different or think I’m an easy target. We are both grown adults and I don’t think it should change our friendship.

[Buckzor]

I doubt he's going to think any less of you. But I can't read his mind so I can't tell for sure.

It sounds like a bad sign I guess, or maybe he just got distracted when he saw it and forgot about your text? Maybe try make a smart comment on IG about him not replying or reply to a story if he makes any.

[Asker]

Yeah maybe your right. He might have a girlfriend I don’t know. I guess I’ll leave it as how it is now and wait for him to text me back. if I don’t hear from him in a few days. I’ll let it go and move on.

[Buckzor]

Sounds like a good plan, sorry that this happened to you.

[Asker]

No need to apologize, I don’t think he would react distant after what happened. When he’s the one that came on to me and then text me in the morning saying I said fun etc let’s chill again soon. Sounds to me like he might have a GF! Really thinking about it.

[Buckzor]

I personally don't think that sounds like he has a girlfriend, but I really have no experience at all so take my opinion with a grain of salt.

[Asker]

Will do. Thanks again!!

[Optymistyk]

I would like her more for being sexually confident enough to sleep with me when she wants to. That doesn't lower a woman's value in my eyes

What does is if anyone could have her, like she's going around begging to be fucked. It's like a desperate guy begging for sex

[Keeshatalks]

Had it... better than relations

[Davezzz]

I slept with the woman with the woman who i have been with for almost 15 years and have three children with the first time i met her. I have a lot of respect for her.

[Cowboy6666]

If you are my one night stand I won't think less of you, In fact i would treat you like a lady and as friend too because you have trusted me before sleeping with me. So i won't judge you darling ;)

[Browser101]

I like one night stands, we are all human

[grega239]

Never had one so I don't know.

[Anonymous]

think it's very uncool

[Fuentes]

Normal