To elaborate on the title, do girls think it's really hard to hold onto really attractive guys if they're hitting on them and that it would be easier to just have a one night stand or friends with benefits scenario with them because they might be unfaithful (because they have options)?
In other words, are girls scared to commit to being in a relationship with a guy who is really really good looking because of his looks he might be a player?
Most Helpful Girl
In a way yes, it's rare but some guys definitely are more attractive then girls plus maybe they're better off in life too! Guys like this can get any girl they want, thus will chase him, when typically it's the guy chasing the girl. However some girls don't like to chase guys so if they really like him they will be extremely flirtatious around him and be all over him to give the idea that it's time to go to bed and finish getting to know each other! Once the girl has hooked up with him and say the guy doesn't want her as a girlfriend and goes to another girl, the girl that fucked him can feel confident and somewhat proud to say "oh well I fucked him first! Enjoy my sloppy seconds" it's a very complex situation1
Most Helpful Guy
Similar to how guys choose more attractive girls for relationships, they do it because they can. For casual sex girls can usually get men who are 1-3 levels more attractive than they are to hookup with them. So an average looking girl isn't going to hookup with an average looking guy when she knows she can easily find a hot guy willing to fuck her brains out.
I dont think girls are scared of commiting to them. They often want commitment from those guys, but the guy was only interested in them for easy sex. So its the guy who turns the girl down for commitment.0