Does I have a shot or is it fan service?

[Calico01]

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9 mo

so I met a guy at his show and he’s nowhere near famous. He’s done things of like look me up and down. Tell me that I can do better than my ex, Continue to ask me about my ex, and ask about my personal life. We talk time to time and during his last live stream he said I was his favorite interaction. We do dm. been known to ask fans out on dates and hit on fans. I wish I could type the whole story out, long story short do I have a chance or is he just doing this so I’ll come back to his shows?

[ohsheeT]

You have to remember one thing in his line of work he makes a living by being nice and flirty. And telling girls what they want to hear.. so when he's talking to you he's going to be nice and kind because he wants that tip. You said he's not famous yet. But how do you think they become well known and liked. They play a role and show you weather its true or not there going to understand who you are and what you want and there going to give you that

Because when they do. They make you feel something dream something and if and when they can do that, they get bigger tips and the more people they get to do that, they get bigger tips. And that's what happens. They become famous not for all the right reasons, though.

Now for you, there are things that you like about him that he does to make you feel certain. It gets you going. It makes you feel something and you want it

Let's just pretend for a second that he gave it to you.
And you became a couple. Then you would start thinking about the truth and the truth is he does this to every girl. He makes them all feel something because he gets that tip

And then in your mind you start thinking about it and asking yourself. Does he treat those other girls? The way he treats you're gonna find out if you're honest. You don't want to guide like that in your life

I take that back. Yes, you want a guy like that in your life. To make you feel those things


Because that gets you hot and turn on and that's what you're looking for

But what you don't want is a guy that does that to you but he does it to fifty other girls too

I can also tell you this. There are many guys out there that cannot only do what he does. But do it better

But they have to wait until the girl comes along wiwhere. He has a way to promote himself. Because that's his job

And the guys that can do it better than him. It's just by chance you run into that guy.
Because because for him.
You only want to give it to 1 person like that because that's who he is the fan guy he's gonna give it to whoever has the tip

[TrimmedTip]

It’s probably fan service—but test it.
Fan Behavior: Asking about your ex/life = flirty engagement bait. Stream shoutouts? Free promo for him.
The Test: Slide into DMs with “When are you taking me on that date?” If he deflects or ghosts, it’s performative.
Famous-ish Men: Even ‘small’ creators love ego kibbles—attention from fans fuels their hustle.

TL;DR: Unless he plans a 1-on-1 outside his fan ecosystem, assume you’re audience-building, not girlfriend material.

[Nikki1989]

Well, since he's known to hit on and ask fans out on dates, it could also be part of a broader strategy to build a dedicated fanbase and keep people coming to his shows.

[AI Opinion]

In TV shows and movies, "fan service" often refers to moments that cater specifically to fans, sometimes without adding to the storyline, like romantic tension between characters that isn't meant to develop further. If you're referring to a character relationship, consider the context and how writers typically develop these in the storyline. If it seems like there's genuine development, it might be more than just fan service. 📽️✨

[Anonymous]

What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

He wants to sleep with you. He may or may not want a real relationship.

[In_Trance]

Lame