I really want this guy who lives across the hall from me. How do I get him to be with me?

[SandyBeaver]

[ohsheeT]

First your going to havebto change your name. Because. Sandy just sounds like so much pain

Maybe to moist or sensual beaver..

Then ask yourself why you want him and you have to be 100% honest

Weather they reasons are real or fantasy

If there real then you have to approach him in a real manner

If it's more?
Fantasy then you have to approach him in a flirty free spirit type of way

Or you can just say I can believe we live this close together and you haven't asked me out yet

[SueShe]

Crushes are usually a one-sided affair. It is not because you are infatuated in him that he is reciprocating your feelings. Also, you cannot force anyone to like you. This is something that has to grow slowly.

If you like that guy so much that you want him to be with you, then you will have to get out of your comfort zone but always bearing in mind that you should keep your dignity and self-esteem and not do something that shows you have no class or even worse.

If he is not receptive to your advances, then leave it be and concentrate on more important things in life.

[Abbycado]

Or she could…

[SueShe]

@Abbycado Mrs. Abby Cado, I need to have a serious word with you. Come to my office please 🤭

[SandyBeaver]

@Abbycado I actually think THAT is a great idea. ^_^

[Abbycado]

Do you think that is that guys "moneymaker"? 🤔

[Abbycado]

Hey, no harm in shaking the bootay and seeing what happens!

[SandyBeaver]

@Abbycado I'll have to be careful our mom doesn't see me shaking it for him.

[SueShe]

At age 26? Or are you perhaps a minor?

[Abbycado]

Do you talk to him?

[SandyBeaver]

All the time.

[DryGermanGuy]

Just show him your beaver? 🤔

https://youtu.be/jh1GXnzENKE?si=k4Idctpsw1GQlfju

[SandyBeaver]

Yeah? You think that'll work?

[DryGermanGuy]

Oh, it should be a fairly safe bet!

[SandyBeaver]

I'll try it.

I'll have to wait until our parents go out but then I'll give it a try.

[Summeroflove]

Talk to him and ask him out directly

[BadApple69]

Say hello and then just ask. He is probably thinking the same thing about you too

[SandyBeaver]

Really? You think so? I mean, we see each other all the time. We even sit across from each other at meals sometime.

But I'm too scared and shy to ask.

Maybe I should drop a hint?

[BadApple69]

Guys are not good with hints. We sit around double and triple guessing what that hint meant.
May I ask…. Are you looking for a date or to hook up? Let me know and I’ll give you an idea what to say.

[SandyBeaver]

I'm looking to hook up. I don't think we can date because that would cause a lot of problems.

[BadApple69]

It’s joke time (I’ll be serious after the joke)
So with a name like “SandyBeaver” you think men will want to penetrate you?
Ok back to serious business.
I’m sure you have said hello to this guy already…. If not make it a habit. Then it should be as simple as after you say hello some evening… tell him you don’t feel like being alone tonight. Would he like to come over? If the guy has any interest he will jump at the idea.

[DCVsMarvel2]

Just remember that if you break up, you'll then have to deal with the fact that you'd be seeing him every day, until one of you moves

[Anonymous]

Take some initiative, maybe he likes dominant girls ;)

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

It would be a golden rule to not date neighbors. That said, just ask him out.

[SandyBeaver]

Doesn't that seem a bit forward?

Shouldn't I drop hints? Be seductive?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Look, you aren't in a romantic comedy.

[SandyBeaver]

How do you know?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Honestly I don't and I don't really give a fuck.

[slatyb]

Invite him in to your place.

[Anonymous]

Why do u like him

[SandyBeaver]

He's really sexy. He has great hair, amazing eyes and a lovely smile. He's tall and handsome and just a dreamboat.

[Opinion Owner]

How do u both look

[SandyBeaver]

like brother and sister

[Opinion Owner]

lol 😂 Wdym

[Anonymous]

You don't.