I want to be with this guy but he lives in another state. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

(First off if you are going to be judgmental don't bother commenting)

I met this guy on Facebook in a group and we've been talking for almost a year. We haven't met in person yet but we've been talking about. We were supposed to meet before but I bailed I really want to meet him. I want to be with him but I live in Michigan and he lives in Chicago. I know one of us would have to relocate I don't mind moving to Chicago. He said he wants to buy a house I told him to get one in Michigan he said he would. But I don't know I just have anxiety because I really want to be with him.

[Maellyiod]

I was with this girl: Canada - France. No doubt honey, try to make it work. Find a compromise, buy a house in the middle. Meet half-way. Save money in case things f*** up. I waited a year to see her and be in her apartment for a month. If you put. your mind to it and will to it. anything will be good. Best of luck to you

[Asker]

Sometimes I feel like I might do something reckless just to be with him lol.

[Maellyiod]

Don't Rush. At first just meet him and see how it goes. Then if you feel he is worth the hassle, save up, buy the house with him.

[Asker]

He's financial stable and can afford to buy it himself.

[Maellyiod]

But wouldn't it mean more if you both threw money for it?