Do you girls realize your like a chess game?

[Ask105]

The older I get, the more it feels like dating is a chess match. Back in school or — before social media — it was simpler. If a girl liked you, she showed it. Now, getting someone to stay committed feels like running a ninja warrior course.

Every conversation is another maze. Hot and cold, on and off, saying one thing and doing the opposite — it’s everywhere. Whether it’s conscious or subconscious, it’s manipulation tactics love bombing attention seeking , and it’s exhausting. Guys can never express themselves and then their ghosted or there's actually a definition where women show all her friends look what this guy sent me or did this and their connecting over it

It’s gotten so bad I’ve started studying psychology just to understand it i mean in three message i can already tell who I'm talking to and it sucks or i hear a girl on a topic speak and im like fck great here we go again. And honestly? This generation, and the ones coming after, are in trouble. Genuine communication is almost gone. I genuinely love women but all this ain't it

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I encourage all women to read this post

[Nikki1989]

Just please tell me you don't intend to homeschool your kids.

[Ask105]

Unfortunately probably won't even happen for me or a wife im in shape first responder etc and all these women dont give a genuine fck anymore all them party in 20’s 30’s to damaged sure as fck need a miracle at this point you can see the concern i expressed honestly scared to have kids because my mom was damaged 30yr drunk most my life father abandoned me before 1 you think i just pick anyone hell no

[Ask105]

After a woman keeps picking a bad guy she can not pick someone good like me its too late Im barely finding enough energy to pursued some women to like me anymore none of them don’t mean to sound rude i no they have nothing to offer i even talked to nurses they ain't gonna give me 1 dollar towards anything i want to with them not even excepting that but i kind of realizing how most men are detached from women and its happening to me i do cold approaches its exhausting also but i don’t usually speak for myself thats me talking to bunch of good men not what you thinking

[petitedollbabee]

Stop interacting with women that play mind games then. Many of us don’t.

[Ask105]

In no way im i being rude but i think you dont notice because men come to you so its like picking candy out a bag it’s harder because were trying to fill the bag and its like fck how this piece get in here and all these other ones because we have to do so much persuading before we realize wtf we just got ourselves into before we even see who we’re dealing with unfortunately i can tell right away now but yet to see a girl internally communicate with me for example have been looking everywhere and still am the filtering them etc its so many of are reality’s unfortunately

[Anonymous]

I like chess game, but I also like some other games ;)