Guys, what is wifey material to you?

[bobalife]

Someone told me I’m wifey material, so I’m just curious 🙊

[McLlovin]

A woman who is loyal to you. Is willing to be with you even when you’re broke. Thats a woman i am willing to spend my money on. Im not talking about men that aren’t trying to do nothing to fix their situation. Men with vision but just isn’t their yet. A woman that’s willing to build with you. Willing to let you lead and not be combative all the time. Nothing wrong with disagreements, but disagreement shouldn’t be where we live.

A woman that you can go through life’s hardship together with and not flee at the first sign of adversity. Thats a woman im willing to die for. Unfortunately what i mentioned is a unicorn in today’s society.

[bobalife]

That’s beautiful ☺️

[Still-alive]

This is really going to depend on the guy but for me its just someone who i feel very compatible with. Someone who’s very loyal, compassionate, sense of humor, good communication skills

[Still-alive]

Someone who i can feel extremely comfortable being myself around

[bobalife]

Very well said

[Finchie40]

A girl that is loving and kind and respectful to me , that is honest and trusting to me , that has my back the same way she expects me to have hers’ a girl that brings happiness into my life, over constant misery , a girl that wants to be my partner , basically her and I vs the world having each others’ backs through the good times and bad times. A girl that isn’t selfish , that wears my shoes the same way she expects me to wear hers , When a girl values and respects me and makes me feel wanted and loved , I do the same for her. I don’t Get into a relationship to be single , I get into a relationship with her because she is my top priority the same way I hope I am to her. A girl that I want in my arms as much as possible , that I feel safe and loved by , because I will so protect her every which way I can , especially if she holds my heart and loves and respects me as well. I also love a girl that is submissive to me , a girl that loves me for me , but if she is an unsubmissive girl , she is better off finding a simp instead. I like a girl that treats me like her King and she will so be my Queen. My ex use to be submissive until she decided to be selfish and only cared about herself , that’s why she is now my ex.

[dwreborn]

Yup I hear you my wife right now is only thinking about herself and it's the opposite of what she is I really believe it's a midlife crisis and I want to help her through it but it's tough I can't quit on her iam just doing everything in my power to help her figure it out at her pace but I can only do that for so long once my feelings disappear I will have to leave and then she will prob come around

[Finchie40]

If she is going through a midlife crisis or
Menopause , Good luck with that shit man , when my ex wife was going through it , she changed on me completely and became very selfish to the point I no longer really mattered to her , all that mattered to her was herself , I literally didn’t know who she was anymore , all I saw was a selfish bitch, before I ended it with her , I did a lot of research on midlife crisis and menopause and what I found out is most women have affairs during that time , which my wife was showing every red flag possible , so I ended it with her and told her to go be the white she is

[dwreborn]

Ya it's exactly the opposite but she is just hanging with friends doing coke and I get the social part of it I've been there myself unsure if I wanted her anymore she helped me get clean and owe my life to her and I want to do the same thing for her I just need to be patient til I can't take it anymore

[Finchie40]

I wish you the best of luck my friend , when a girl has toxic friends that influence her , usually the guy is doomed , Females’ are very vulnerable to their friends’ and then they wonder why they can’t last in relationships, So if your wife is prioritizing these friends’ over you , then you are best to start making your plans to leave her ass , Friends’ should never come before your partner whatsoever, so if that’s happening to you , kick her to the curb where she belongs

[dwreborn]

Iam starting to let go but I went through the same thing hanging out with friends doing drugs and things got bad I thought I went through midlife crisis then she helped me get sober I've apologized and been 100% sober and doing nothing but working and family stuff been fine until now she's doing same exact thing don't I owe it to her to be there the same way she was for me I want to be but everyday that goes by those feelings start to diminish and iam scared for her and everything else

[dwreborn]

But I have to let her come back I've done what I could and now it's up to her but she better hurry

[Finchie40]

That’s the thing , Double Standards usually don’t work in relationships, just because you messed up first , it doesn’t mean it’s ok for her to mess up the same way, She should already know what occurred when you were messing up , so by her now doing it to you , is just her excuse to be a POS , Again Double standards do not work in relationships. She is clearly a hypocrite

[dwreborn]

Ya I believe she isn't doing it on purpose and I don't think I will ever get over what she has done especially since she doesn't think she's doing anything wrong but it's about seeing her sober again and around for our daughter it's not about me but iam gonna help her anyway I can to make sure she gets back to the real world even though it's not gonna be with me

[dwreborn]

I shouldn't even care but I do iam at the point of just wanting her to be happy no matter what even without me iam gonna have to see her because of kid iam done trying to get her to come back just can't stand to see her go down the road of destruction

[ohsheeT]

She has to be a best friend passionate kind smart wise happy
Beautiful heart can laugh at the most stupidest stuff and herself must be able to speak with her eyes must be able to smile
If she sees someone down and out give a helping hand she must care

[bobalife]

That’s sweet

[ohsheeT]

Thank you. But its more real than anything

[HawkPerception]

I actually made a MyTake about this if you care to read it at all.

[AviatorTom]

Female, and a desire for a long-term commitment. Being a good cook also helps.

[aaron13547]

For me its about the idea not the act. If she wants me to marry her she is not wife material. I would marry the women I'm with now because she makes me want to marry her by not tryin to make me marry her... that sounds silly I know but the expectations ruin it for me. Marriage is a idea I learned we can't catch. Trying to ends up hurting. It just happens. And when you have the idea you just know

[bobalife]

Interesting. The key is natural, I’m hearing.

[dwreborn]

It's just a woman that you can see yourself spending the rest of your life together with it means what it says you would make a good wife honest, trusting , funny, caring, and if you mentioned anything about liking or wanting kids

[bobalife]

Aww… I love this, very sweet🥹❤️

[InknKink]

Someone that knows how to take a joke and does their best to maintain a positive attitude/outlook. Someone that laughs and smiles when your messing with them for your own entertainment. Someone that's gonna "get you back" for fucking with them.

Nice buns doesn't hurt nothing ether.

[mysteriousNicholas]

A woman who's clean, humble, kind yet not overwhelmingly kind (I'm not a guy who wants someone who's too self giving, you gotta have some selfishness lol) lol - I mean I like charitable giving, yet I do have my maximums ☺️🙏and obviously attractiveness to me is looks, personality of a kind and humble / doormat nature ☺️😋

[dwreborn]

Ya one of the things I hate and love about my wife is her willingness to help people I love that about her but some take advantage at her sacrifice to our marriage and it's been a problem at times

[mysteriousNicholas]

@dwreborn 👀 I have been having an extraordinary, blessed gifted Friday and weekend so far, - I'm praising the deities 🌌 😋 and i just had a delicious take away mmm vanilla shake 😋 🥤 after all, it's so me. Tomorrow is Pepsi day. Mmmm 🤤 once again, it's so Nicholas

[dwreborn]

Ya I need to get to that point with my wife going through this mid-life crisis it's been hell so I know what I put her through except I stuck around and worked my issues out and she doesn't want to but iam getting better each day

[Zack-Bann]

It’s about the inherent motherly instinct that makes her someone who can help raise our children and care for them in an involved way
As well as her general sense of loyalty and how easy it is for her to build alongside a partner


That’s what I think it comes down to

[TallAnon]

Someone you want to invest in and spend time with in the long run, not someone that just gives instant gratification, but enriches your life as a whole.

[bobalife]

That’s beautiful :)

[Shiprex]

You are your own person, kind and pleasant and loyal.

[bobalife]

Simple but sweet :)

[Joshydavid25]

Just being nice, faithful, and supportive..

[bobalife]

Nice :)

[MannMitAntworten]

This will be so different for each guy answering and in the end, what we say and who we marry still could be worlds apart. It is just a saying. Don’t read into it or dwell on it. Any woman can be called, “wifey material” in the right setting at a given moment.

[Bklynbadboy12]

You are wifey material. For me a woman who is wifey material is intelligent loyal humble beautiful goal oriented with a great personality and a fantastic sense of humor

[bobalife]

Thank you☺️

[ilistengood]

Hmm devotion to your chosen mate, a certain amount of independence/ self confidence, physical compatability, common interests,
Hobbies, and just a hint of the mysterious.
( note: this list was from the hip, subject to modification )

[whiskeyontherocks]

just be of good character would be enough for me. This would definitely include some form of awareness to improve oneself mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially. Obviously everyone is going to have different goals around these categories but as long as she is trying that’s the part that matters.

[RavVid]

Since you have to live with a wife, her liveability rating is important.

Her being genuinely nice makes her liveable with.

[Berethor]

To me it's a virgin, to other men it likely be woman who cook and fully satisfy them in bed.

[SixFootSexy]

... Why not both?

[Berethor]

The best of both worlds. :)

[BeenThereLovedIt]

After experiencing all the world has to offer in terms of relationships, there's no woman on the planet that would be wife material for me. Marriage is a scam and the concepts of it that are sold to men are manipulative illusions. Don't do it.

[JohnnyB123321]

I would say kind, upbeat, a good communicator. Maybe a few of their own unique qualities that make them special, that could be an endless list of potential things….

[aceleon]

doesn't expect shit from me, she is only happy when i do anything for her when i do it willingly.

selfless, animal lover, patient, matching hobbies, calm and peacefull but stil fun.

[Mayorofbobaville]

Ride or die chick. Simple. Nice profile name by the way haha

[bobalife]

Touché. Why thank you, I’m obsesseddd with your profile name misteruh @Mayorofbobaville lmao. Tell me how bobaville is going.

[Mayorofbobaville]

@bobalife haha so far so good everyone chillin how's bobalife

[bobalife]

I wanna go visit bobaville hehe. Bobalife is lifing in the best way.

[Mayorofbobaville]

Ya? You mind if we chat in dm? I can tell ya all about it

[Mayorofbobaville]

@bobalife I'm sure it definitely is

[bobalife]

Misteruh mayor, you might have a cute tourist at bobaville soon hehe.

[Mayorofbobaville]

@bobalife oh ya? That's good only good looking ones are welcome here anyway. Tell her to hit me up on DM and I'll tell her all about bobaville

[bobalife]

LOLLL! Oh, you think I’m good looking to meet the criteria for bobaville?🤭 When is the earliest availability to schedule a consult for a Bobaville tour?

[Mayorofbobaville]

@bobalife as soon as possible, we're almost reaching capacity. Act fast or you loose the golden ticket

[bobalife]

😂😂😂😂😂

[Mayorofbobaville]

😎😎😎😎

[bobalife]

Oh noooo… not the golden ticket… : ( I’m sure you can’t wait to exp dat once in a lifetime Bobalife on dat bobaville…

[Mayorofbobaville]

@bobalife Lucky for you, I’m the mayor of Bobaville and I’m personally approving your entry but you got a DM so I can tell ya all about bobaville and your first hand experience to boba life you can tell me if you want to stay afterwards or not

[bobalife]

Hehe oh, I’m so happy I spoked to @Mayorofbobaville, what a gentleman and the best mayor to give me a special entry of bobaville 🧋 🥰❤️

[Anonymous]

Attractive, fit, sporty

Dominant, self-confident, assertive, not shy, likes to take initiative

Smart, not religious

Loyal

Understanding, and supportive

[YourExLover69]

Family oriented, loyal to me, romantic, caring, chatty, flirty with me only, longer hairs, compassionate, sense of humor, friendly, honest with me is wifey material ❤️ ❤️

[DryGermanGuy]

That sounds like straight from the book of 1001 pickup lines… 😬😬😬

[Anonymous]

Biologically speaking, what a man needs in a woman is one who will give him healthy children and be a good mother to them. And of course meet his needs in terms of companionship and sexuality. Everything important flows from those things

[andreasderjuengere]

First in line... she would not be... ''material'' :)

[DJB72]

Family focus
Doesn't refer to exes as a "body count"
Two X chromosomes

[AngryCarl2]

A woman with intelligence, a good sense of humour and insatiable sex drive.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

God fearing christian woman.
Smart.
Submissiveness to me.
Honest.
Loyal.