Will a male narcissist marry someone less attracted to but more easier to control than a woman who he is highly attracted to but harder to control?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

The answer… It depends on the narcissist some value control over everything else. Narcissists let me explain this… Cannot form genuine connections so what you feel as attraction isn’t what they feel. Yes, they may lust after someone and use someone for gratification but they can’t make bonds like normal people.

They can however learn to fake this for a while and lead good people to believe they found a genuine relationship when that only really goes one way.

Some people will marry someone for social status, gratification, and other things such as financial benefits but then again if they can’t control someone they will become angry.

In the end…. The person the narcissist marries will probably be fucked over such as being forced into signing contracts such as prenups (which I’m not against) HOWEVER, there is zero protections for her. Meaning. He can dump her. No strings attached and she will likely be homeless especially if she was a housewife that was controlled and not allowed to leave the house.

As where another narcissist man may sit on his ass playing video games while his wife works a full time job.

[BriamG22]

Hmmm, I'm not a psychologist or psychiatrist but I'm gonna take a shot in the dark here.

In my opinion; which literally has no basis whatsoever 🤣🤣, we know that control is everything to a narcissist, so we would assume that the narcissist would go for the woman he's less attracted to.

However, a narcissist also lives off his ego, that's one of the principal traits of being a narcissist. So maybeee, that pride of his would compel him to get the woman he's more attracted to because he has to be with a woman that is perhaps more beautiful and befitting of him. Furthermore, his ego would probably tell him that he'll be able to control her anyways. So, I think maybe the second option.

I might be describing the actions or thought processes of a sociopath or a psychopath though haha. Just talking out of my butt at the end of the day.

[basementfox1]

Definitely easy to control, someone easy to manipulate and significantly younger but still somewhat attractive to him.

[Anonymous]

It depends on his values. You shouldn't assume anyone is a narcissist before getting to actually know them.