Is it a red flag for a big woman to get this much?

[Anonymous]

Here's the scenario: She's been talking to you as a friend but wants to pursue you further. While she's at the restaurant, you call her about some plans. She puts you on FaceTime, and you can see the employee bringing out her food. By the time you finish talking, the table is set, and the guy slides ice cream in front of her, saying it's on the house.
She shows you her table and ends the call.
You have no idea if she ate it all or not.

[Zack-Bann]

Many things prevent me from even being in this scenario


One: I wouldn’t be interested in dating a “big woman” as it were


Two: I wouldn’t spend days on end talking “as a friend” with someone I find attractive
We either go for it or we don’t
No hard feelings either way


But to humor the question: yes. It’s a red flag
Molesting your own body with excess food is a sign of mental weakness/disorder


I should know I suffer from it myself
Been fighting against my urges to stuff my face with food ever since I can remember
But i chose to win the fight not surrender to it

[Staximus]

I never seen a woman who could eat all that, I'm calling bullshit. I couldn't even eat that when I was eating like 6000 calories a day

[DreamCrescent]

why were you eating 6000 calories a day? were you training?

[Staximus]

@DreamCrescent I was literally working my ass off. Working as bar back, bus boy, prep cook, and dishwasher when the dishwashers would quit at Claim Jumper a while back, maybe 13 years ago or more. If you don't know what Claim Jumper was, it was the biggest busiest restaurant in town. I rode my bicycle home for 8 miles 5 nights a week after work. I was eating everything in sight and not gaining weight.

[Staximus]

It was brutal, I literally saw a grown man quit in the middle of his shift and walk out in tears. I saw a few other people just walk out.

[Staximus]

And not come back

[DreamCrescent]

I’m glad you made it out the other side

i guess they’re out business. haven’t seen a claim jumper in while

[DreamCrescent]

in any case the picture is fake. a screenshot from facetime wouldn’t look like that

[Asker]

Lol the picture isn't fake, but I literally said it's a scenario
I just wanted an answer lol 😆

[DishLady]

Presumably she's out with people and that's enough of a meal for several people... Either she's sampling and taking things home (or sharing with friends) OR she's VERY entitled and wasteful OR she's built like a truck (very big gal) and doesn't take care of herself, burying feelings into food. (Even in my most athletic days I'd never order that much in one sitting.)

[itsannalee]

Eat too much is always bad, especially when you already fat. You know your metabolism isn’t good, so why would you live just to eat not eat just to live.

[Nikki1989]

Nah, not really.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Big women aren't my type.