Why do young women prefer a much older man?

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[Finchie40]

Because she is drawn to his maturity and wisdom and the fact the he listens to her , I dated younger girls’ and they all pretty much said the same thing to me , that they loved how I wasn’t into games and drama , and that I was mature and respectful to her and that I made her feel safe , cuz I treated her like a person instead of a piece of meat. They all said younger guys’ treat them like shit and act immature and disrespectful. Overall when a girl feels safe and secure and respected and protected , she doesn’t hesitate to be in his arms and submisssive to him , why I prefer younger girls’ these days

[Flowersareawsome22]

Exactly you are speaking facts. I prefer mature guys because at you're age you are not golfing off or playing ding dong ditch and run off people's doors or prank calling people, Yes guys my age still prank call people. I bet at the time when you were 30 you weren't prank calling people much less playing ding dong ditch the house.

Also I noticed guys you're age attend to disagree in a respectful way. When I disagree with guys my age name calling. Yes guys my age even at 33 years old act like 13 year olds.

[Kingofkings1992]

You are mature? That’s hilarious 🤣

[Finchie40]

I can’t remember the last time I prank called someone or played ding dong ditch to be honest lol I think I was in 5th or 6th grade. My high school years I was kind of a class clown as well but after high school I started taking life more serious with getting my shit together and working my ass off. My turning point was becoming a father at the age of 23 , that’s when I really stopped horsing around and focused on being a great father for my baby girl. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t still have a side of me that lets loose and likes to have fun especially on my days off from working. Friday is usually my let loose and unwind day. I always asked myself if I didn’t become a father at the age of 23 , would it taking me longer to settle down because I have friends’ that didn’t have kids’ at that age and they were still partying like crazy and being wild.

[Finchie40]

@Kingofkings1992 if you knew me when I was younger compared to how I am now , you would say I matured a lot , My friends that been a part of my life for a very long time will tell you as well, most of them were shocked to see me calm down and not be as wild as I used to be to be lol

[BonzoInBitburg]

My wife is 20 years younger and according to her there's a lot less stress with older men. Financial stability is big but more importantly is a financial plan for the future that she doesn't have to worry about. Most men mellow out as they age and become easier to get along with. My wife's friends all complain about their husbands and boyfriends playing video games and not doing anything around the house where I'm semi retired and spending my free time making sure there's enough money to last the rest of my life and hers. I think its more about finding a mature man than age. Wisdom and maturity are more common in older men but if a younger man has these traits, he will never be single long

[Anonymous]

I’d say because they’re more mature, and majority of them aren’t trying to sleep with every woman they see. Also from what I’ve noticed is that the older men aren’t sex addicts and aren’t addicted to watching porn. Not meaning they don’t want to have sex, but they don’t try and manipulate you into having sex with them with lines like ‘you don’t love me if you don’t do this’, which I’ve had happen with a few guys my age and I’ve never left faster.
plus they aren’t expecting you to do every single thing around the house or feel like they own you because your together r

[aceleon]

they are not more mature like you said.
they just gaved up on what they want since they are not able to get it most of the time.

[Opinion Owner]

@aceleon sure? I mean you are the same age as me, so you wouldn’t really be able to comment on a man that’s in his 30’s or older as your young.

[aceleon]

girl, do you realize that i am a person with blood relatives and a functioning enough social cycle that likely has the age group of man in it?
hell i have 2 older brother who is past 30 and have association with even older guys on a friendly basis.
do you think i'm not privy on their mindsets?

[aceleon]

sorry dear but you are dreaming if it is maturity, it is them getting too old and tired with this things that they rather just go with your flow instead, it is not maturity, it is surrender.

[Opinion Owner]

@aceleon so a couple of people determine everyone? Cause last time I checked it’s boys and men, and boys are the ones who aren’t mature while the actual men are. But it’s showing lately that even the supposed “men” are actually just boys that aren’t growing up

[aceleon]

boys and men? wow, i didn't know i was dealing with a misandryst when i wrote you my reply.
you are living in a fantasy of your choosing dear sorry but what you call maturity is just us no longer having the energy to push for our own authonomy and just accepting whatever you come with just for not distrupting our established life conditions.
i know what girls means with man nowadays and let me say this to you, what you mean by maturity looks suspiciously similiar to what we refer dogs as, so i suggest think about adopting a dog before you decide to push your expectations on some poor dude and call him an immature boy when he doesn't obey like a dog would. Aloha.

[Opinion Owner]

@aceleon a misandrist? lol, okay if that’s what you wanna call it. Ew why would I want a dog? But then again you might be projecting considering you felt the need to reply to my opinion first lol

[aceleon]

sorry my bad for thinking that you were open to insight from an actual guy instead of enforcing your own fantasy.
also if what you say to dogs is ew, miss please don't respond to me, i don't want to asssociate with psycopaths (aka i see people who doesn't like dogs (not fear but dislike) as psycopaths since only they can be as soulless as that.

[Opinion Owner]

@aceleon uh… girl… just because I don’t prefer dongs doesn’t mean I’m a psychopath? Odd…
It’s not a fantasy lol, notice how every guy has a different response? I’m definitely open to insights, but at the end of the day people view things differently. So what I view as mature and immature is definitely different from how you view it

[aceleon]

different response? did you ever heard... i don't know... LYİNG to look good?

[Opinion Owner]

@aceleon whose lying? Also notice how I threw in the different people different opinions to end the convo? Or….

[AvaRay]

For me, it’s not about the number of years, but the presence n resonance someone carries sir..

I feel comfortable with someone up to 10 years older or 5 years younger, as long as our life value naturally align..

I think many young women are drawn to older men not merely because of age, but because their life experience, calm confidence, n perspective create a depth that complements youthful curiosity n vitality.. 😊🦋

[Levin]

I think your last sentence sums it up. It's the lovely contrast in energies.

[AvaRay]

Yes sir..

I’ve always felt that contrast is what makes a bond meaningful..

I carry a certain fire, but I find peace when it meets calm n I think that balance is what makes me feel truly seen.. 🌹🦋

[Levin]

Sir, too.

Very respectful 🙂

[valentina4eva]

i don’t think everyone prefers “much older” but i do like somewhat older guys lol😅😂 older guys are *generally* more confident, more assertive, and i generally like the way they treat me and their energy!!😊✨

[DreamCrescent]

agree

much older, I’m definitely out

but younger is a dealbreaker

[D_Bone_Steak]

I think it's because our dicks are bigger. Much like our nose and ears, my dick just keeps getting bigger. I was always pretty big in Japan, but I'm pretty big here in the United States too now that I'm older. Can't expect these wide vaginas to settle for all those baby dicks... they want the big veiny thumper.

[LiamJHayden]

In reality many, many guys around my age (30) are basically children. They do not know how to treat a lady, and have ONLY childish hobbies and interests. So a lot of women younger than 30 look at us as immature. Can hardly blame them.

There are of course other reasons.

[Flowersareawsome22]

Exactly I had guys my age name calling me names. Only teenagers do that you don't see a guy in his 40s acting childish. My boyfriend he is 48 the best boyfriend ever he doesn't good off. Honestly I would never ever date a guy my own age I always prefer older guys.

[Nikki1989]

Older men are generally (not always, as this website often shows) more mature and mentally stable. Most men are juveniles until they reach their 30s at least.

[i_Jedi]

Sometimes it’s the stability and confidence that comes with age. Older guys can seem more grounded, less into games, and that can feel safe. Other times it’s just the vibe, like they carry themselves in a way that feels different from guys their age.

[RingOfFire]

Nature. Women are designed by nature to be attracted to men who have a good ability to provide for and protect them and the children they either have or hope to have. And older men are more likely able to provide that. Men are designed by nature to be most attracted to fertile (i. e. younger) women. It's about survival of the species which is nature's most important priority.

[itsannalee]

Not really, there is no attractive young woman who want to be with old broke man. So if you see a young woman with old man either he has money or she is poor ugly.

[Flowersareawsome22]

That is not true. My boyfriend he is 48 mature and civilized. I would never ever waste my time with a men my own age they are useless immature men child. In my younger years I put my goals career and success my first priority before family , friends and everything else. Now I am debt free. I was working three jobs while people my age were clubbing hitting the club If people my age complain about everything so expensive blaming the government economy well it's their own fault. I may not be good looking but at least I can pay someone else to scrub my toilets.

[itsannalee]

Are you sure you are attractive enough for younger man to take you for serious? Just saying.

[Flowersareawsome22]

I prefer older men.

[Flowersareawsome22]

Yes I like older guys.

[Joshydavid25]

I guess it's the stability and confidence that comes with an older guy.. I would say the maturity, but many women aren't mature themselves.. But maybe that's why younger women want the maturity..

[Flowersareawsome22]

How about you just admit that you're a momma s Boy and al guys from you're age category are useless.

[Joshydavid25]

@Flowersareawsome22 Thanks for being an example.. LOL..

[Flowersareawsome22]

Me oh please I am debt free with a paid off home mortgage and paid off truck , I bet you're still married to your student loans! I put my success first before family friend and fun.

[Joshydavid25]

@Flowersareawsome22 That's fantastic! I'm happy for you.. I guess it didn't help much with your maturity level though..

[red-lipstick-girl]

They have careers and education, other than that they are like children, they never grow up, this is the only reason why women choose older men.

[beenherebefore]

They tend to be more mature, experienced and well established in life.

[DrPepper12]

Cuz we're seasoned, wealthier, smarter, authentic, eclectic, successful, well-mannered, cosmopolitan, wiser and not one pump chumps.

Just a guess.

[janemarie15]

Its more than hotter than young? haha kidding! hmm, mostly because of their mindset, their maturity and stability especially when it comes in financial.

[Flowersareawsome22]

I prefer Gen X men because they are way more mature and civilized. Men my own age are childish men child momma's boy.

[Flowersareawsome22]

Perhaps some of us got tired of the immature momma's boy who can't act like real adults. When a guy my age and I end up with a disagreement they always end up calling names referd to me as a Karen. I used to date guys my own age and they all turn out very immature a with crappy behaviors yet this millennials guys wonder why they're in their 30s with no girlfriend and single complain whining wondering why they can't get a girlfriend when they don't sit down and realize they are the problem and take action for their own actions.

[Flowersareawsome22]

This is why I prefer older guys because I don't

[Flowersareawsome22]

Want to deal with childish behavior. Yes I seen guys in their 30s name calling get offended when a woman says no ! No means No!

[MannMitAntworten]

Mature and civilized, eh? I believe this is the first time I have ever seen my generation associated with such words.

[lightbulb27]

insecurity... ability to launch themselves much higher in status?

[MJVillarama]

Sometimes it’s about maturity, life experience, or just feeling more secure. But everyone’s different, age isn’t everything!

[jshm2]

Usually gold diggers. But sometimes it can be daddy issues.

[exitseven]

Some have daddy issues and some are in it for the money.

[Tinselbread]

I want older man cause I’m attracted to a person that is smarter and wiser (hopefully) than me. I feel a disconnect with men younger than me even if they’re cute you can feel the mental gap.

[Anonymous]

Not all do. And most who do draw the line at fifties.

[Kingofkings1992]

Older, maybe. I don’t know about “much” older. Lol

[fantasticass]

Money , money , money $$$$

[ChooChooHaha]

Speaking for myself here

Maturity. Respect.

[dwreborn]

Cause it reminds them of there father

[Account]

I never did.

[Phoenix98]

Security, stability, maturity and wisdom.

[stratford]

Skill and stamina

[loveyouoak]

Why do old men prefer a much younger woman?

[blackeagle007]

Could be experience and wealth

[RedInnocent69]

Experience, maturity, proven success, stability

[Anonymous]

I don't think they do.

[Opinion Owner]

Unless the guy is rich, but not all the girls are gold diggers.

[Lipsandhips]

I really prefer older guys.

[Anonymous]

Maturity

[Anonymous]

They don’t.

[MeAndYouRightHere]

Financially