Why do people downplay black women's lack of attraction to white men as a reason for the low rates of this pairing?

[Anonymous]

Why do people always acknowledge white men's lack of attraction but act like black women are basically too unattractive to have preferences? What's with the double standard if we're supposedly required to respect people's preferences?

According to the study black women also gave white men a lower rating than vice versa

Why do people clearly disrespect black women's lack of attraction to white men as a reason for the low rates of this pairing even though black women statistically don't find white men attractive romantically and platonically?

[Zack-Bann]

Who’s not acknowledging it?
What’s the double standard?


It’s well known that black women don’t particularly like white men in general.
And vise visa


The statistical issue black women face is that black men tend to like women from other ethnicities effectively reducing their selection pool


That black women don’t favor white men is of little consequence since white men already have attraction from just about every other female demographic


So it’s not about downplaying it. It’s about a real difference in impact

[Asker]

Not really, black men might like those women but they certainly aren't liked by them at all so, black men are pretty undesirable as well, so it doesn't impact black women if they're getting married to the only race they're attracted to 99% of the time, also white men only attract east / south east Asian women and Latinas, that's not every demographic middle eastern, Indian, central Asian, north Africans, native Americans etc. don't have a liking for white men at all, despite men of all races voting middle eastern women the most attractive, they're not returning the favor to white men.

Also quite literally people intentionally ignore black women's lack of attraction to white men as I've seen multiple times and when provided with statistics they still makeup narratives they have no knowledge of or backing of as a way to ridicule black women, since I'm not American I wanted to know why that is.

No one makes up excuses for white men's lack of attraction to black women so why do people do it to black women if you guys preach respecting ones racial preferences

[Zack-Bann]

except it’s not being “downplayed”
It’s a well known fact that black women don’t like white men

No one is saying that the only reason white guys don’t date black women is because they don’t find them attractive

It does go both ways

[Asker]

No it doesn't actually, you clearly don't respect their preferences majority of the time let's be honest, you pretty much make fun of them for not being attractive to people they aren't attracted to, that clearly shows you actually don't care about their consent or lack thereof to relationships, a lot of you people seem to find some form of sadistic amusement in showing how no one cares what they like because no one wants them anyway.

I think you guys are hypocrites for the most part, maybe not you as an individual ( although I have suspicions on whether you believe what you say because from what I've seen as an unbiased observer, you people actually don't acknowledge that it goes both ways and, yes it's a narrative that the only reason it doesn't happen is because white men don't find black women attractive and not that it's mutual, heck there's a fellow in the comments who proved my point unprovoked. 😂😂

[Zack-Bann]

I’m unclear as to what “respecting their preferences” means here.

What do you want me (or us) to do exactly?

Most people online don’t respect anyone and make fun of everyone
There is no special treatment

You’re just choosing to see it like that

If it’s about making jokes everyone gets made fun of we just developed thick skin over the years

And if it’s about blatant hate speech then the person saying it is a dipshit not worth being listened to anyway

But one thing is for certain: we can’t fix the world. Only live in it

[Asker]

I'm talking about the ones that spew blatant hate speech online and offline, I don't mind the jokes but it gets weird when people doubt black women getting raped because, "they're too ugly for that to happen" or "if I saw them getting attacked on the street I'd just walk by because they're masculine enough to defend themselves".

Some of you guys actually have a genuine hatred towards them just because you find them ugly and let's be honest, I've never seen that being said about other races like Asians or Latinas

[Zack-Bann]

Maybe you haven’t seen it but it’s there

Hateful people are hateful

There’s nothing new under the sun

[HighValue]

If you want the truth, Black women are the least desired by ALL RACES of men besides Black men. White, Hispanic, Asian, Middle Eastern, Native American, etc. ALL of those groups find Black women the lease desirable.

[Asker]

So? Why does that mean we can't respect the fact that black women aren't attracted to those races of men the same way those races of men are not attracted to black women, why can't both be true at the same time unless you people truly don't believe in respecting people's preferences, I always knew westerners were hypocrites 😂😂.

Also if black men are the only race attracted to them then clearly not ALL races of men view them as less desirable and before you play the " the black men that like black women are the ones who can't date out", card, I have a question, are you sexually attracted to women because you couldn't find another man that wants you, or are you attracted to women simply because you are?

[HighValue]

Search result statistics show that Black women DO search for White men far more than White men search for Black women. It is also reinforced by people's selected match preferences.

[Asker]

I posted the stats on the original post, they don't like mixing platonically and romantically it seems, black women responded the least to white men compared to white men responding to them at 9.4% black women responded to white men at 5.4% both seem to be disgusted by each other which is a good thing. If they got together they'd look like a jew with a nazi not a couple

[Anonymous]

Truth is most most women date within their own race but most black women aren't attractive to white men let alone a lot of black men for various reasons such as high rates of obesity, bad attitude, multiple children to multiple fathers, high maintenance, disloyal, won't cook or clean etc. Black men when they get with an average white or Asian woman feel like they won the lottery.

[Asker]

Black women are less attracted to white men than vice versa, black men are also the least attractive race of men physically, culturally, genetically and intellectually, what I'm trying to understand is why people don't mention black women aren't attracted to white men as well. Also their attitude doesn't matter, Latinas have disgusting attitudes based on my culture but people still like them so it's not that at all, I think people just think black women are basically too unattractive to have preferences and consent

[Opinion Owner]

Wrong about Latinas. A latina woman will get her man a plate of food for instance, a black woman will say he a grown adult and get his own.

[Asker]

No, I've seen how those people act and in my culture nothing about them is seen as feminine, they're always screaming and shouting at people in Spanish, they're ghetto and have children out of wedlock and they date men in the cartel, Latin people are basically like black Americans but the slightly less degenerate version but still degenerate. My brother told me they're pretty annoying to be around and really loud, but then again my people don't really date out so he didn't have personal experience and he doesn't want to

[Opinion Owner]

Thats a small percentage of Latinas. Most raise their kids in two parent homes.

[Asker]

No you people have the second highest single parent households

[Opinion Owner]

We should have the first, we are in the majority

[Unap0logetic_]

The thing that’s dumb about the whole situation is, lots of people cosplay as Black women and copy our mannerisms, styles, etc… it’s deemed unattractive when it’s being done by us, but it’s acceptable for others. Black women are the only ones who society as a whole looks down on.

[Asker]

I don't like the stereotypical mannerisms of black women and I prefer the average ones, people seem to look down at black women regardless of how they look or act, it seems deliberate

[Unap0logetic_]

That’s exactly what I mean.. it makes no sense to me anymore.. Even when we’re living to “society’s standards” someone still has something negative to say.. or they’ll try to get us out of character. The best thing we can do is ignore them and live to our own standards.

[Asker]

You should honestly accept the fact that you're not actually the same species as them at all. Cats don't care about what dogs think of them, neither should black women

[dudeinohio]

Blacks and whites are the same species by the way. Just like there are different breeds of dogs, there are different races of humans. White dogs can certainly mate with black dogs. Your argument is invalid.

[seeyounexttuesday]

I guess the bottom line is no white dude cares if you're not attracted to him. We know most blacks are racist against whites.

[Asker]

Aren't you the same people that keep saying racial preferences aren't racist when you don't find blacks attractive? Why's it different now?

Also they most certainly do care because they keep harassing them whenever they state their lack of attraction by saying their too ugly to have consent and that they're below white men anyway, rejection hurts, even from people you aren't attracted to, that's the truth

[seeyounexttuesday]

nah, we really don't care. Especially when there's latinas and Asians.

[Asker]

You clearly do, at least from what I've seen as an outsider, also blacks aren't racist for not finding whites attractive, cats aren't racist for not liking dogs are they?

[seeyounexttuesday]

nah, I don't care in the slightest.

[Asker]

Your species is entertaining

[seeyounexttuesday]

Might want to head back to elementary school. We're all one species.

[Asker]

We're not the same species, respectfully of course

[seeyounexttuesday]

Awesome. Want to play that game?

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[Asker]

We literally aren't the same species, the out of Africa theory is a lie and the iq chart doesn't prove anything given the fact that we don't have iq tests in Africa at all. We don't have Neanderthal DNA or denisovan we're fully homo sapien

[seeyounexttuesday]

Ok, the IQ's speak for themselves.

[Asker]

You don't know my iq, I just don't want to be grouped up with alien people groups, we're genetically distant and that's a fact

[seeyounexttuesday]

Ok, all the more reason we don't want to fuck you.

[Asker]

I thought you said you didn't care, you're clearly hurt

[seeyounexttuesday]

You're projecting.

[Asker]

No, you're the one that actually brought it up after I said we're not the same species as some kind of gatcha moment I'm assuming 😂

[seeyounexttuesday]

You're not beating the IQ average, I see.

[Asker]

You're not beating the hurt allegations either, I just hope you don't shoot up a school because of it, white men already have a bad reputation, don't make it worse white boy

[seeyounexttuesday]

Will do. The only thing stopping you from shooting people is that you can't buy bullets with welfare.

[Asker]

I'm not black I'm literally African, nice try though. Now the only thing I'm worried about are all the children being touched by white boys

[seeyounexttuesday]

They let you have a computer in your mud hut?

[Asker]

Oh, looks like the pedophile allegations hit a nerve, your files should be checked, I can smell children's piss from here, also I'm using a Huawei, thanks for asking

[seeyounexttuesday]

No running water, eh? What white person charity bought you that phone?

[Asker]

Why does the Nile River flow into my countries river then? I bought it from the Huawei store at the mall, now cope

[seeyounexttuesday]

That's not indoor plumbing.

[Asker]

Why's there a toilet in my house then 😂, your species is so easy to rage bait, what a pathetic and depressing group of people.

[seeyounexttuesday]

the best part is you think I'm angry. I'm laughing at you trying so hard to prove you live in a modern society. Any of which was created by non Africans.

[Asker]

I'm from Botswana so I technically live in one created by Africans. You are pretty rage baited, it's pathetic that the only argument you have is " Africans are poor and have low iq", all because I provided stats that show black women find your species ugly 😭😭, you don't have to be liked by everyone white boy, you have beaners and ladyboys to date

[seeyounexttuesday]

no one cares that you find "white boys" ugly. You're forgetting that. We have hot ass white chicks, Asians, and latinas. All better choices. Well yeah, Africans are poor and stupid. We know this. Your frontal cortex isn't fully developed.

[Asker]

You do because you responded in the first place and you're very aggressive 😂, also Latinas and Asians don't look attractive nor do white women, you can barely tell white men and women apart, Blair white is a great example of it. They're not better, they're all you can get, if we're talking about stats it actually said middle eastern women were the most attractive and desirable and they don't even like white men in the slightest. Botswana, Gabon and equitorial Guinea say otherwise when it comes to their economy and again we don't do iq tests here. You people are very bitter and pathetic it's actually sad, you have problems with almost everything, no wonder Jewish people are better than you 🤣

[seeyounexttuesday]

Lol, whites, Asians, and latinas are a lot hotter than Africans. by any metric black women are rated the least attractive.

[Asker]

Are you trying to convince me? That's not what my vagina says, black women look really good to me, that's why I became lesbian. Stay blessed young one

[seeyounexttuesday]

No. I'm stating facts.

[Asker]

My vagina doesn't seem to agree, it seems it's more opinion than fact whites, Asians and Hispanics look ugly without really good surgery hence why it's common in Asia, latam and Europe and even then they kinda look like trannies

[seeyounexttuesday]

Just because you're a hoe doesn't mean you're hot.

[Asker]

Never said anything about being hot, 😂wtf

[seeyounexttuesday]

you're the one bragging about how much scissoring you do.

[Asker]

Wow... Tell me you're American without telling me, buddy I just said I don't find the women that YOU find attractive attractive, I never bragged about anything, I just said I like black women only 🤷🏽‍♀️

[seeyounexttuesday]

And as I said at the start, I don't care what you find attractive.

[Asker]

You tried to convince me into thinking beaners, chinks and Neanderthals were attractive 😭😭

[seeyounexttuesday]

more attractive than you gorillas.

[Asker]

Not to me biologically, physically, culturally, genetically and religiously, all yours buddy, that is if you're open to adult women

[seeyounexttuesday]

no one cares.

[Asker]

Cool

[dudeinohio]

I've known black women attracted to white men and vice versa.

[Asker]

I've never seen that in my life, that's not normal

[dudeinohio]

Half of my relationships have been with black women. My ex wife of 17 years is black. In my city you see tons of wm boyfriend couples.