If a girl tells me she wants to be close and y'all are texting back and forth a lot, is it expected for me to ask her to hang out?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know the way she thinks maybe she does or maybe she wants to ask you but is scared. Maybe she’s just seeing where things go. Someone has to ask if you want to hang out… ask

[Asker]

Her saying she wants to be close is very vague

[Summeroflove]

Ask yo hang out

[Asker]

How would I say it?

[Summeroflove]

Like you would ask a question be direct. Do you want to hang out?

[Asker]

I understand but I thought you have to come to specific plans

[Summeroflove]

Well. Start by asking if she wants to hang out. If she says yes maube she will suggest something maybe not. Then offer a idea.

But start with asking if she wants to

[Zionne]

Yeah, that’s a good move. If she’s saying she wants to be close and you’re already talking a lot, that’s usually her hint that she’s open to meeting up. Keep it casual, suggest something simple like coffee or a walk to see how she responds.

[Anonymous]

Don't say y'all, it's trashy.

[Alex-Snow]

If she says he wants to be "close" I would assume that she wants to hang out or date you. How old is she? Do u like her? Maybe ask her out. Ur thoughts?

[Asker]

I'm 23 and she is 21. I definitely like her. I didn't ask her out because close sounds like she wants to be friends

[Alex-Snow]

I say ask her out. You will never know until you try. I assume you both are single?

[Asker]

I'm single but I don't know about her. I know In the past she told me she was talking to someone

[ProbablyClueless]

Sure, if the vibe is there. Just find some shared interest that y'all's lives can touch on.

[dudeinohio]

Absolutely