Proof a man is average looking?

[Anonymous]

If a man gets no DMs, texts, phone calls, approaches, or flirtatious behavior from women publicly, at all... is that proof that he is average looking and nothing more? I assume most handsome men would get attention at least sometimes. Doesn't apply to me but just curious. (I've been looks and random questions just to start convo with me, etc.. when I was single). Ladies especially answers from y'all would paint a picture. I see a lot of videos on social media of single guys claiming they are invisible.

[slatyb]

No, it's proof that he's not trying, just waiting for whatever falls into his lap. I'm reminded of this line by Blondie: "Leaning in your corner like a candidate for wax".

Strange women flirt with me because I know how to speak to them in a friendly way. I met a woman in the UPS store with a very beautifully cut bob. I told her as much, and we had a brief and pleasant conversation. If I were single, I would have invited her to lunch.

How many women do you greet by name when you see them?

[Anonymous]

No. Average looking guys get noticed, usually by average looking girls. Anyone who legit has never gotten noticed and is my age or older either isn’t interested in being noticed or has some flaw that causes other people to not consider them as a possible romantic partner.

[Nikki1989]

I sincerely hope that is not your real age!

I bet you look smarter in pictures, though.

Gripes!

[Asker]

You respond to questions like a teenager instead of an adult, speaking of age. Gripes! 😑