Is it good move relationship slow or fast?

[Sugar100]

In my opinion it’s nightmare to move slow in a relationship. It makes me lose interest and gives me anxiety & depression.

I never had a comitted relationship and never met family. So if a guys takes relationship slow it makes me miserable and unhappy. As my head will be like when I’ll meet family? When we’ll begin a serious relationship? One year, 2 months?5 years?

also if u do things slow, it’ll seem like your single, slow for a first date, slow for a kiss, slow , see him only 1x a wk instead of fast seeing him daily.

[Summeroflove]

That depends on the relationship. There is two extremes. People who get married in less then a year and people who date for 10 years and ir goes nowhere.

[Sugar100]

I already had a guy waste my time 10 years

[Summeroflove]

Well that’s the other extreme. Just be cautious of someone pushing too fast. Like someone trying to make you sign a contract too fast… without fully understanding it and it sounds too good to be true.

[Alex-Snow]

Sugar good point. Just let the guy know up front what you prefer and see what his opinions are like. Do you also like to move fast into having sex with a new boyfriend?

[jazzy34]

Slower is better. You need to get to know the person and that person needs to get to know you. Anything that is rushed usually yields bad results.

[Sugar100]

That’s not good cuz I dated a guy 10 years and it’d a waste of time we never met family. It’s better do things fast

[Sugar100]

He used for me sex friends with benefits

[Sugar100]

I’m 28 I can’t move slow then be 30 and still no baby no marriage no meeting family then 40 move slow next guy I’m 50 no marriage no baby no meeting family

[jazzy34]

Um okay. Considering all of these responses, you’re not ready for a committed relationship. You don’t have the maturity. A mature person knows and understands that it is important to get to know some someone before rushing into marriage and having a family. Yeah, you’re almost 30 chronically, but you have some growing up to do and your responses prove that. Either way, take care.

[Sugar100]

Yea but I’m traumatized , if I do things slow , I fear it’ll be same like guy that used me for sex we dated 10 years I never met family no marriage nothing

[Sugar100]

So next guy will take things slow we never meet family and 10 years pass and I’m 40 again time wasted

[Sugar100]

Then same pattern 10 years next guy date nevr meet family no baby and I’m 50

[Simslover92]

I agree 1000% with this.

[beenherebefore]

Love and trust take time. I believe you should take your time in relationships. I don’t see rushing as a good thing.

[Nikki1989]

Slow is tolerable if I actually feel like I am moving forward, but if I feel I am just spinning my wheels, I want out.

[Jerre]

I believe it is entirely up to the man and woman. It certainly can go either way.

[shortster]

Why not move at a medium speed?

[Deereeeee]

Slow